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"Yes, yes, but like I said, you have to be prepared."

Chu Qingge said, "Your father will object, and public opinion will come at you, and it will become more and more serious as you get older.

Don't place your hopes on me, thinking that I have given you a place to stay and the strength to establish yourself, and I will also help you resist the strange eyes of the outside world, because after all, you need to be responsible for your life.

Understand? "

Chu Qingge said this not because he wanted to get himself out of this matter, but because there were too many uncertainties in the future.

She couldn't be sure that everything would be smooth sailing for her, so naturally she couldn't promise to help Lu Ruxue for the rest of her life.

If Lu Ruxue wants to make a decision about her future, it is best for her to make her own decision.

This way, if Chu Qingge and Lu Siming couldn't help her, she could go there herself.

This is like a modern high school student who chooses a major after being admitted to college. She doesn't want to listen to her parents' opinions and wants to choose what she likes, even if the major she likes seems to have no future at all.

She was not very confident herself, so she found friends and family members who could help her in this major.

I hope the other party can "guarantee" that she will not be unable to survive after choosing this major.

But how can this work?

Chu Qingge wanted Lu Ruxue to choose a path entirely because of her own determination and ideas.

Rather than doing it because someone can help me and I can do it.

Lu Ruxue didn't quite understand what Chu Qingge meant at first.

Only when Chu Qingge said that her and Lu Siming's lives were uncertain, and they needed to compete with future possibilities and changes, did she understand what Chu Qingge meant, "I understand."

She looked at Chu Qingge and said, "Sister-in-law, the decision you want me to make to never marry is entirely my own idea, not because I can make it because of someone helping me. Don't worry, even if you can't help me, I am also determined not to get married."

"Don't be too extreme." Chu Qingge said: "Although you often do chivalry outside, this is the first time in your life that you have left Chenyang County and come to other places. The world is very big and there are many people. The people you have met are too many. few."

The point is that I have met too few men. "If you don't like the one, you don't want to settle for yourself. This is correct, but you can't push yourself to the other extreme just because you haven't met the right one."

Chu Qingge said: "So I suggest, just a suggestion, that when you go to convince dad, say that you just haven't met the right person, and you don't want to force yourself to marry an unsuitable person. What if the other person treats you badly?

From this point of view, persuade your father not to be in a hurry to find a partner for you, and don’t go to the extreme point of saying that you will never marry. What if you meet someone who can make your heart beat one day? "At that time, for the so-called face.

Or in order to implement the principle of never marrying for life, wouldn't it be missed?

Chu Qingge felt that with Lu Ruxue's temperament, it was really possible that she would give up her love for the sake of being angry with others.

Lu Ruxue originally thought that Chu Qingge was tactfully persuading her to consider getting married, but when she heard Chu Qingge said that she could use this to persuade her father, she felt that Chu Qingge was right.

She really couldn't be stubborn. Even if she made up her mind not to marry, she didn't need to show it everywhere.