Quickly dress up: Become a max-level boss and dress up as a poor kid

Later, Xing Dabao took her tea leaves to the old man to apologize. He still smiled and said, "Don't take it to heart. I'm very happy to have a friend come to chat with me."

The old gentleman was kind-hearted and worried that Xing Dabao would have a psychological burden, so he accepted his tea leaves without any hesitation and asked the nanny to brew a pot on the spot.

The old gentleman's family had been lost in the years before.His only remaining family member is his late wife’s nephew, who is not with him at the moment.Therefore, the school arranged for someone to take care of him.

What the old gentleman said was not polite. Communication with young people can indeed relieve some of the pain that has been accumulated for a long time in the past years.

He thought he just received two cans of ordinary tea, but after taking a sip, he realized that this tea was unusual.

The old gentleman's eyes lit up and he said, "This tea is pretty good. If you think about it, I've got an advantage."

Xing Dabao smiled stupidly: "As long as you like it. My aunt bought this in exchange for it. She said it tastes good, so let me give it to you to try."

Before leaving, the old gentleman gave him another calligraphy painting.

Xing Dabao: "..."

He took the hot hand and handed it to Luo Kang.

According to him, the old gentleman said that there are not many students who come to him for calligraphy treasures, one every ten days on average, which is not a burden.

However, more than a year later, when another student came to the door, the nanny opened the door with a smile and said tactfully: "The old gentleman is old and lacks energy. I'm sorry, I can no longer entertain the students."

At this time, many bigwigs from all walks of life were very approachable. They usually walked around the campus just like ordinary people. And because the spread of information was not as developed as in later generations, no one except students and acquaintances knew them.The young man went to visit carelessly, and others were polite.

In the future, when everyone's photos are published in newspapers and online, many memoirs will appear: I met an old man at the campus gate, chatted casually, and thought he was the gatekeeper. Decades later, I found out that he was actually a famous man. Who who who.

Time flies by quickly.

In the winter of 1980, demolition work began.

Several farmhouses that Luo Kang successively added were within the scope of demolition, and several houses were replaced.Because she signed quickly, without any thought of taking more, and was very cooperative, she had an advantage in choosing a house. In one building, the entire second unit of a building, with a total of 12 houses, was reserved for her.

The place she chose was relatively far away from Luo's father, Luo's mother and Luo Ping's family.

However, at this stage, the house is relatively useless. Whether it is renting or selling, the price cannot be raised.It is more suitable for self-living.

But Luo Kang doesn't need to live here at all.By this time, she had graduated from college ahead of schedule and started a part-time work-study career.On the one hand, I continue to study for graduate school, and on the other hand, I start doing research work. The latter accounts for a larger proportion.She has moved out of the undergraduate dormitory and has a private room.Moreover, the small courtyard she lives near the school is well-kept and is much more comfortable than living in a building.

The small courtyard bought by Aunt Xing's family was also replaced with two three-bedroom units, but she was very happy.She also owns a building.

But in fact, she doesn't live there either.

In February 81, Luo Kang returned to his parents' home to pay New Year's greetings.The entire courtyard has become restless.Because it was expected that there might be some discussions about property and pensions today, Luo Kang entrusted his son to the care of Aunt Xing and did not bring him with him.

She didn't want her son to see the calculations and ugliness between adults too early.

Everyone smiled and told her that the courtyard was going to be demolished, and everyone would live in buildings in the future, so they could move to new homes in the spring.Most families are allocated more than one house.The larger the population and the larger the original housing area, the more people will be allocated.

Taking this opportunity, everyone successfully "separated" their families.This is thanks to the small area of ​​current buildings, with the largest being only 80 square meters.It seems unrealistic for a large family to be crowded together.

The elders generally get two or one bedrooms alone, while the younger generations are allocated two or three bedrooms.

If you have a good relationship, the house you want is close to you. If you have a bad relationship, stay away.

Everyone is happy.In their view, living in a building is a symbol of a better life.

Luo Kang smiled and congratulated everyone.

The neighbors are also discerning people. Knowing that the Luo family had not contacted Luo Kang about the house division, it was probably because they didn't care about her, and they didn't bother to poke her heart. They just said a few words and it was over.

The demolition of large courtyards basically does not involve married women, and by default belongs to the sons.Some girls are not yet married, and they do not have a say in major family decisions. Their parents will not apply for a separate house for them, but they will have to live with their parents. When they get married in the future, they will not be given a room at home. They keep it.

But Luo Kang is different from other married women.If you have a husband, you can live in a building if your husband's family is demolished, or you can live in a bungalow if your husband's family is not demolished. All of this is better than Luo Kang, who has no one to rely on. He can't live in his husband's family or his parents' family, so he can only rent a house by himself. No fixed place.

They looked at Luo Kang with some sympathy, but Luo Kang didn't take it seriously. She said that there are student dormitories for her to live in now, and when she graduates from college and is assigned a job, her employer will allocate a house to her.

"Women, the key is to stand up on your own. You have to rely on others to run, and you can only rely on yourself. As long as you stand up on your own, what does a man mean? If he is obedient, he will be kept, and if he is not obedient, he will be kicked. Women don’t need to compromise. It’s great to be free and comfortable after divorce without having to serve so many people.”

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Everyone: "..."

What she said seemed to make sense.

If a woman cannot stand up, she can only compromise when things happen.No wonder Luo Kang works so hard. He is in his 20s, divorced with children, and still insists on going to college, just to stand up and live a good life by himself when he has no parents or husband to rely on.

Luo's father and mother were a little embarrassed to see her. If they had notified Luo Kang and moved their mother's household registration back in advance, they might be able to get a one-bedroom apartment for them.But in order to prevent their daughter-in-law from having any objections, they did not do this.

Luo Kang pretended not to notice their pitiful guilt, and did not take the initiative to mention the demolition and house division. She just came to pay New Year's greetings.

It’s not okay if I don’t come.After all, the general environment at this time was like this. In the eyes of outsiders, although Luo's father and Luo's mother's actions were eccentric, they were completely normal.Who is not partial?

However, Zhang Hongying showed off in front of her: "His sister-in-law, we will move to a building soon after spring starts. Next year when you come to visit your parents for the New Year, you will not come to this courtyard and go directly to the building."

Luo Kang glanced at everyone one by one and said with a smile: "I heard from the neighbors, congratulations to you. It's the same wherever I go. I just came back during the Chinese New Year to pay New Year greetings. There is no difference between a building and a bungalow."

When they moved to the building, the old neighbors dispersed, and it didn't matter whether she came back or not.

Zhang Hongying: "..."

This wasn't the reaction she wanted.How could my sister-in-law not be envious?

She wanted to say something else, but Luo Kang said: "I have also heard about the demolition policy. Houses will be allocated to families who have real estate. Having a household registration without real estate is useless, so the key to your ability to get a house lies in us. There are several rooms in the house. This room belongs to your parents. You can be assigned to the building and can live in it all because of your parents. In the end, this is your parents' property, and you still live with your parents. House, you must think of your parents well, and remember to be filial to them in the future."

Zhang Hongying: "..."

Luo Kang continued: "I am a married woman. Although I got divorced, in order not to cause trouble to my parents, I did not move my household registration back. After the divorce, I was alone outside with my children to make a living, and I did not ask my parents for help. Of course, my parents never took the initiative to give me a penny. It’s not easy for me to live outside, and my parents never thought of helping me.”

Luo's father and Luo's mother: "..."

Luo Kang: "I understand that parents want to leave everything to their son, and all the property in the family belongs to the son. I understand that raising children will provide for them in old age. When they leave their property to you, they also expect you to provide for them in their old age. , Brother and sister-in-law, please don’t let down your parents’ wishes. Don’t worry, I am self-aware. I am just throwing away water. I don’t have to provide for my parents in old age, and of course I will not divide the family’s property. Whether it is the house or the money, I will take care of everything. don't want."

After talking to Zhang Hongying, she smiled and said to Luo's father and Luo's mother: "Dad, Mom, am I right? Just stand up and let your elder brothers and sisters take care of you in old age, and don't think it's troubling them. It's time to instruct them. Let them do the work! Let them eat, drink, and buy whatever they want. You two have wages now, pensions in the future, and houses. Although there is a house for the eldest brother and the others to live in, in the final analysis, then It's also your house. If your eldest brother or sister-in-law treats you badly, you should kick them out immediately. Even if you go to the police station or the court, you are justified. Even if the eldest brother's name is written on that house, it is essentially yours. And , you two don’t need anything, and it doesn’t actually cost the elder brother. The so-called pension is nothing more than letting them take care of you when you get older and have difficulty moving. This is what they should do!"

Zhang Hongying: "!!!"

Luo's father and Luo's mother were thoughtful.

Luo Kang clicked and stopped.Anyway, the statement has been made.

To put it bluntly, if parents raise their children, they have fulfilled their legal responsibilities.As for who to give their property to, that is their business. They have the right to make the decision. Even if they donate it, others have no right to comment.But as the child who was not favored, I was always upset.This is the principle of not worrying about scarcity but about inequality.