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Moreover, the little boys here grew up amid the adults’ jokes about “tell me a wife.”

Their neighbor's three-year-old little boy, Congcong, was nicknamed "the wife's fan" by everyone.When the older aunt teases him, she always talks about her daughter-in-law.

This one said: "Congcong, can you give me some of your biscuits?"

Congcong hesitated.

The other party said: "If you don't give me cookies, I won't give you a wife."

Congcong immediately offered his own crackers.

The other party laughed. "I won't eat it. You can eat it. I'm just joking with you. Even if you don't give me cookies, I will be a good wife for you in the future."

The one said: "Congcong, your new color TV is great, give it to me, okay?"

Congcong said nothing.

The other party said: "Oh, you are so stingy, you will never be a wife in the future."

Congcong almost burst into tears.

The other party laughed. "I'm joking with you. Congcong is not stingy. Our Congcong is generous. I will find you a good wife in the future."

There are countless such things.

For many little boys, it is a nightmare that must be experienced in childhood.

Some children didn't respond to such jokes, so everyone stopped.But if he is like Congcong, everyone will keep teasing him about his wife until he goes to school and stops playing at the door in his crotchless pants.

Moreover, everyone would joke and chat at the same time: "Congcong is just like his father when he was a child, he was obsessed with wives. His father was also so playful when he was a child. As long as you tell him a wife, you will get whatever you say." .”

These words were said in front of Congcong’s parents.What else could Congcong's father do? He could only interrupt with a playful smile.Fortunately, Congcong's mother is heartless, otherwise it would have caused many family conflicts.

Song Anbao was teased like this when he was a child!I have wanted to find a wife since I was a child.When I was young, I made a bold promise to find several wives!One cooks for him, one bathes him, and the other plays with him...

Lao Liu listened to what An Ran said. She was still very concerned about her son's future. She hoped that he would grow tall and strong and have the hardware advantage to find a wife.

Worried that An Bao wouldn't have enough to eat, he increased the number of pastries and helped An Ran make a little more money.

At the end of 92, when An Xin returned to her parents' home, she was no longer as happy as before.It had been eight or nine months since she had been married, and there was still no movement in her stomach.Yuan Hui's mother finally couldn't hold back anymore and started to induce labor.It made her a little irritable!

Although it is not as frequent and intensive as the urging in the previous life, the words that need to be said are still said in place.

"You two need to hurry up and have a baby as soon as possible while you are young. Your dad and I can also help you with the baby, so that it won't delay you two from going to work."

"People's family planning policy is to allow one child to be born, but it does not say that one child is not allowed to be born. Those things given out are for people who have already given birth to children. If you haven't given birth to any of them yet, don't use them."

These days, married women and women of childbearing age can receive free contraceptives.Many people don't use them when they take them home, and their children use them as balloons to play with.

The children didn't understand anything when they were young, so they had a lot of fun.

Yuan Hui still felt a little embarrassed when discussing this issue with his mother, so he could only hesitate and say: "I know, Mom. Stop talking, Mom."

In fact, they didn't use the small umbrella very much. Neither he nor An Xin had a good experience after using it. They felt that this thing affected the quality of life of the couple.If you're not pregnant, maybe it's because the fate hasn't arrived.

When Yuan Ma told Yuan Hui about this, she didn't avoid An Xin at all, and she heard it too.

After returning to her room and closing the door, An Xin said bluntly: "I don't want to have children."

Yuan Hui: "..."

Isn’t it natural to have children after getting married?Is this because you don’t want to have a baby?

In fact, many people have this mentality when it comes to having children, not because they love children from the bottom of their hearts and want a baby from the bottom of their hearts.

It's just that when your life reaches that stage, you just do the things at that stage.

Yuan Hui has no desire for children, has no idea how to take care of children, and has no plans to make any preparations in advance.He had not even actively considered the question of whether to have children.Everything is natural.

Now that An Xin said she didn't want children, it wasn't that he couldn't accept it.At least at this stage, he is acceptable.

But after all, he had grown up accepting the idea of ​​"carrying on the family line" since he was a child. He instinctively felt that this idea was unacceptable to his parents.

He said to An Xin: "I have no objection to this matter. But don't say that to my mother, I'm afraid you two will fight. Just listen to what my mother says and don't refute it. This matter Just leave it to me to communicate with my mother."

If I don’t want to have a baby now, maybe I will want to have a baby later, and maybe I will give birth to a baby when I get pregnant.There is no need for him to argue with his wife!

An Xin was not really stupid, so she naturally knew what would happen if she spoke up about this matter.It would be best if Yuan Hui is willing to take on this responsibility.

Of course Yuan Hui is not stupid. This is what he told his mother: "We did not deliberately not want children. If we are not pregnant now, it is probably because fate has not come. Mom, don't worry, we will definitely work hard. Besides, we You're only in your early twenties now, so don't worry. Most people get pregnant after several years of marriage. Besides, isn't it now advocated to marry later and have children later?"

As a son or a husband, what else can we do? It's over for both of them.

Yuan's mother said: "Okay, just give me the family planning supplies you got. I won't care about you."

I wanted to secretly take birth control without telling her, which was a good idea.

Yuan Hui: "..."

"alright."

This matter is not without a solution. At worst, as a married man, he will take the initiative to collect another family planning supplies and hand them over!

The share that An Xin received was stated in separate sheets, but it was absolutely forbidden to hand it over.Doesn't that expose his incompatible ways?Besides, An Xin would definitely not agree either.

In this way, the Yuan family achieved temporary harmony.

Yuan Hui and An Xin did not take birth control seriously. They were just two young people who were greedy for pleasure. Having children was not as important as their own experience.But An Xin never got pregnant.

Yuan Ma's wishes and actions are becoming more and more urgent.

On the first anniversary of their marriage, Yuan Hui couldn't resist the pressure from his mother. He probably felt deep down in his heart that he would have to have a child sooner or later, sooner or later.Therefore, as a man, he voluntarily gave up the idea of ​​contraception, even those half-hearted measures.

It seems that one year of marriage is a watershed.It was normal not to get pregnant before this, but if you don't get pregnant after this, you will face the attention of the world.

On Yuan Hui's side, there is pressure from his mother on the one hand, and pressure from his neighbors and colleagues outside on the other.After all, he has been married for a year, and everyone will ask him when he meets him, when will he have a child?

Someone even reminded him tactfully that he could go see a doctor and prescribe some medicine to take care of his body.

Yuan Hui: "..."

An Xin faces greater pressure than Yuan Hui.When the female comrades came together, they chatted more directly.We don’t even discuss the question of when to have a child. Who doesn’t want to get pregnant as soon as they get married? Is there any need to discuss this?

They jump directly to the question of why they haven't gotten pregnant yet. Either men can't do it, women can't do it, or neither can do it.

In such an environment, An Xin probably realized that it was unrealistic not to have children.

Adults always compromise with reality.In fact, she also acquiesced in Yuan Hui's complete abandonment of contraception.

However, until the summer of 1993, when An Ran was admitted to college and left Xinyang County, An Xin was still not pregnant.

At that time, she had already started drinking bitter Chinese medicine soup.

Although the physical examination results showed that both of them were fine.But since you can't get pregnant, let's take care of it.Better than nothing.

Moreover, Yuan Ma was impartial, giving drinks to An Xin and Yuan Hui.The couple share the same difficulties!

Yuan Ma's approach miraculously dispelled An Xin's resistance, and the couple encouraged each other to persist in drinking Chinese medicine.

At the beginning of the second semester of her sophomore year in high school, An Ran privately reported to her class teacher, Teacher Sang, that she planned to take the college entrance examination.

After the separation of arts and sciences, An Ran chose science, and Teacher Sang was still their class teacher.

"Okay, give it a try, don't be stressed, just rehearse in advance. Even if you don't do well in the exam this year, you still have a year to review and consolidate and try it again."

"I know, thank you, teacher. Please keep this matter a secret for me. If I am admitted to university, can I mail the admission notice to the teacher's home as well?"

"Of course you can."

Teacher Sang readily agreed, guessing that there might be some complicated situation in Student Song's family, such as her parents not wanting to continue supporting her in school and wanting her to go out to work.

After all, the wave of migrant workers has begun. Many children in junior high schools have dropped out of school to work. There are also formal workers who are ready to work. I heard that working as a worker in the south can make much more money than being a teacher.It cannot be ruled out that Song’s parents are also short-sighted and want their children to drop out of school to seek short-term benefits.

Or maybe the Song family never paid attention to their children's education.Otherwise, why would this kid have any need to sell cakes at school?Do you have to pay for the tuition fees yourself?

After Teacher Sang finished thinking about it, he felt a little more pity for An Ran, a student with excellent academic performance, and proactively said: "If you have any difficulties or problems that you can't solve by yourself, just go to the office and see me. The teacher is more or less still It can help.”

It is possible to subsidize some tuition fees and other things.