Reborn in 70s to marry a big man, Jiaojiao has one child after another

Every sentence is for Xu Ningyan's consideration.

But Xu Ningyan could also tell that Lin Hong, a carefree girl before marriage, had grown up and was thoughtful.

I think I also suffered some blows in my married life.

For example, Lin Hong's views on her husband's family and holding all the money in her hands would definitely not make sense.

After looking at the time, Xu Ningyan asked Lin Hong: "Are you still going to work in the afternoon? Or did you ask for leave?"

Lin Hong rolled her eyes at her: "You just came back. I was worried about you, so of course you took half a day off. There is nothing going on in the warehouse now. Besides, the warehouse is now under the control of Deputy Director Li, so I just need to tell him. "

Xu Ningyan smiled and took Lin Hong's hand: "That's a good relationship. Come and talk to me this afternoon. We haven't seen each other for a long time, and I have a lot to say to you!"

Lin Hong also had this intention.

The two of them added firewood to the stove, and the room was so warm that they couldn't even wear the cotton-padded jackets outside, so they simply took them off.

Xu Ningyan found two thin coats and put them on each person.

I also found brown sugar, red dates, and longans, and cooked them on the wood stove. I dug out some Beijing snacks from what I brought with me, and planned to make tea by the stove.

Lin Hong's eyes lit up. Although she and Zhou Zian didn't have children yet, they were no more free after marriage than before.

It has been a long time since I have enjoyed such a comfortable and comfortable time.

The longan and red date tea was boiled quickly, and the room was filled with a sweet smell.

The two of them each held a cup of tea and chatted while drinking.

Xu Ningyan gave a few words of guidance, and Lin Hong felt aggrieved and wanted to find someone to talk to.

Xu Ningyan didn't need to ask any more questions. He just poured the beans into the bamboo tube and told her everything.

Lin Hong and Zhou Zian have been married for more than half a year, but their stomachs haven't moved yet, and the Zhou family has already expressed their intention to induce pregnancy.

Especially Zhou's mother, every time the young couple went back for dinner, they would either talk about how lively the children of Zhou Zian's brothers were, or talk about whose daughter-in-law was pregnant again.

Lin Hong and Zhou Zian were still newlyweds, and their excitement had not yet passed. The young couple wished they could stick together every day, and they really didn't expect to have a baby so soon.

What's more, Lin's mother also told Lin Hong privately that she was not too old and it would be better to wait a year and a half before getting pregnant. Otherwise, she would be too young and would suffer even if she was pregnant with a child.

So Lin Hong and Zhou Zian agreed privately to wait a year or two before having children.

Now is the time for Zhou Zian to move forward with full energy. After having a child, he will definitely focus more on his family.

He also thought that he would take advantage of these two years to work hard and move up, and it would be better to have children after he stabilized.

The young couple were of one mind, but they couldn't stop Zhou's mother from urging them to have a baby. She either blatantly asked them to have a baby, or she would just beat around the bush and criticize Huaihuai in various ways.

Lin Hong had a carefree temper. When Zhou's mother said these words, she was a little unable to react at first.

After I got home, I thought about it carefully and realized what Zhou's mother meant, and she became very angry.

But she was clumsy, and it was hard for her to confront Zhou's mother directly. She would come back very angry once she went to Zhou's house.

She simply didn't go to Zhou's house. Not twice, Zhou's mother came to the department store and asked her why she didn't go back. He said that he made her whatever she liked to eat.

From an outsider's perspective, Mother Zhou's mother-in-law did a really good job.

Even when Lin Hong complained to Zhou Zian, she felt it was unreasonable to say so.

After complaining about this, Lin Hong lay on the table with blank eyes: "Xiaoyan, do you think I am really being unreasonable? Is it really what I did wrong?"

Xu Ningyan poured Lin Hong another cup of red dates and longan tea and said firmly: "Of course you are right!"

Lin Hong's eyes regained some sparkle and she looked at Xu Ningyan expectantly.

Xu Ningyan said slowly: "Your mother-in-law is called killing with a soft knife! Don't listen to others, how your mother-in-law treats you well, how good she is! You have to feel for yourself! Whether you are hurt or not, whether the two of you are comfortable together, only Only you can experience it yourself!”

Lin Hong slapped the table: "No! Now that I see my mother-in-law's smiling face, I feel scared! I told my mother, and she said I was too worried! She said my mother-in-law is not that kind of person! She said that she usually Li is too pampered by me. Now that we are married, it will definitely be different from not being married. How can we not be angry at all?"

"I feel so uncomfortable hearing this! It feels as if after getting married, she is no longer my parents' daughter! Now she is an outsider in her husband's family and an outsider in her mother's family! Anyway, she is not a human being inside or outside!"

Lin Hong, who has always been strong, burst into tears as she spoke.

Xu Ningyan patted her shoulder comfortingly: "It's okay! There's still me! You and I are the best in the world and will always be yours, and you are not an outsider here!"

Lin Hong turned around and hugged Xu Ningyan, unable to help crying.

I cried out all the frustration and discomfort I had felt these days.

After she vented her anger and stopped crying, Xu Ningyan poured water for her to wash her face, and then got some skin cream for her to use on her face.

On the other hand, he said: "Your mother-in-law is very good at showing off. If you are honest, don't confront her head-on! This matter is easy to say. In your words, what are you afraid of? Your mother-in-law has a strong family and has a formal job. A wife like you is hard to find in Jingshan County even with a lantern! For him, Zhou Zian, to be able to marry you is a blessing he earned in his previous life!"

"The most important thing between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not that the east wind prevails over the west wind, but the man between you! As the saying goes, a man who is a good man hides from both sides, and a man who is not a good man wears both sides! It is you who will not have children for the time being. Why should you and Zhou Zian decide to give birth to each other alone? Zhou Zian is not a dead person. Doesn’t he have a mouth? "

"You let him go talk to his mother! Then he can deal with his mother! If he can't even solve this problem, then what's the use of being a grown man?"

Lin Hong blinked: "How about bothering him with these things? He is very busy with work on weekdays - "

Xu Ningyan hated iron and steel: "He doesn't even care about you, you are so sorry for him! I'm telling you, a man who cares about you will be unlucky for the rest of his life! Besides, how can this be a trivial matter? Cultivating one's family and bringing peace to the world, he can even solve the problems at home. If not, what achievements can be made in the work?”

"Both of you, husband and wife, are equal! Isn't your work important? Worrying about this every day, won't it affect your work? In the long run, if you haven't given birth to a child yet, your mother-in-law will bully you like this! When she does, she will Where is the child? Is it okay? Don’t be naive. Now that she can induce birth, she will force you to have a second and third child in the future!"

"And, have you ever thought about it, if you are pregnant, who will take care of you during the pregnancy? After the birth, who will take care of you during the confinement period? Who will take care of the baby in the future? You and Zhou Zian both have jobs, and your aunt has not retired yet. Age, can your mother-in-law retire early to help you take care of your children?"