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Chapter 259 Nine Zero Antivirus (42) Iron Relationship

"That's right! Solve problems when you have them, instead of envying others. That won't help." Mo Hongying looked at Ma Chengyun with a smile and said, "You can't choose to go to an ancient place just because you hate the sophistication of people in this hothouse in China. Go be a little sheep in a jungle society that has been purely wild so far.”

"Being a little sheep?" Ma Chengyun looked at her with confusion and said.

"If you're a rat at home, don't rush into the nest." Mo Hongying rubbed her index finger on the tip of her nose and said, "When you go out and are not familiar with the place, you are as obedient as a little sheep. Follow other people's rules honestly. !”

"Uh..." Ma Chengyun was speechless.

Mo Hongying smiled and added, "We should make positive changes and turn bad things into good ones instead of blaming others." She picked up the tea cup and took a few sips.

"Tell me something about what I saw." Mo Hongying put down her teacup and said, "You know the strongest relationship, which is the four irons in life."

"I know this: we lived in the same window together, carried guns together, piaodang and chang together, and shared the stolen goods together." Cheng Kailang said looking at his mother with bright black eyes.

"Then which relationship is the strongest?" Mo Hongying looked at them with raised eyebrows and said.

"We are classmates and classmates. There is no conflict of interest. It is pure friendship. In addition, after graduation, we went our separate ways. This relationship cannot be ironed out." After hearing this, Ma Chengyun thought for a while and said, patted Cheng Kailang on the shoulder and said, " Our relationship is definitely strong."

"It doesn't matter if we have a gun-to-gun relationship, we can give each other our backs, and we can trust each other." Chen Jing looked at them with clear eyes and said, "The relationship is strong."

"According to what you said, the United States in my mind is as broken as a mirror." Ma Chengyun said pitifully with his mouth flat.

"Smart guy." Mo Hongying looked at him with a smile and said, "Since the most powerful relationship is to do bad things, do you know about the fraternities and sororities in American universities?"

"Ahem..." Ma Chengyun was so startled that he coughed.

"This is originally a projection in your heart, your yearning for a better life." Mo Hongying looked at him with her warm, jade-like eyes and said, "You hope that we will also become beautiful, so envy is useless, we have to get rid of it Arms, keep your feet on the ground and work hard.”

"You can imagine this, but you still want to be punished and make meritorious service!" Ma Chengyun said with a smile, "Why is Aunt Gui talking about this?"

"I understand, I understand." Ma Chengyun nodded hurriedly.

"Long-established fraternities often have a series of prestigious past members, which is often a good starting point for new members in terms of career planning and networking. Membership of a fraternity gives him the opportunity to meet people from different backgrounds and statuses , and these connections have continued from his college days to the workplace. In some popular industries, such as business and consulting, these fraternities have a lot of internal information exchanges, so many people are trying to get in, and the selection criteria are also limited after the supply exceeds the demand. It has become extremely strict." Mo Hongying looked at them with cold eyes and said, "The more famous ones are the Yale DKE fraternity. It was established at Yale in 1844, attracting as its members members a fusion of gentlemen, academics and joyful temperaments. The five presidents of the United States, including Otto Roosevelt and the Bushes, are members of it. And statistics show that 70.00% of boys in private schools have joined."

"Have you seen "Forrest Gump"?" Mo Hongying raised her eyebrows and looked at Ma Chengyun and said.

"But these are not the most iron-clad. The most iron-clad are the following two items. Being greedy or dirty, a grasshopper on a rope. This is a relationship of interests, a relationship where both gain and lose." Mo Hongying paused and said again, "Piao Guochang, everyone shows the ugliest side of human nature and trusts each other." He raised his index finger and said, "The first two relationships are pure and true friendships, not mixed with interests. The latter two are different, because There is a need for common interests to maintain this so-called relationship. Once this need breaks down, it will be mutual exposure and the fish will die."

"Are you joining?" Chen Jing grabbed her arm nervously and said.

"Understand?" Chen Jing said, looking at her thoughtful son.

"We are not qualified. We are not even considered human beings in the eyes of others. Those who join are all rich and elite people." Mo Hongying was stunned when she heard this, then shook her head and said, "Due to ideological and cultural background, The difference is that not many of our international students join fraternities. When traveling abroad, international students will inevitably want to integrate into the local culture and circles. However, giving up oneself to please others and gain social capital is actually harming and denying oneself." Qingming Looking at them with his eyes, he said, "In a foreign culture, you still need to maintain an independent personality and clear cognition, so as not to blindly and passively adapt to the environment." He smiled and added, "It should be said that no matter what Always think independently wherever you go! Don’t follow blindly, listen more and watch more.”

"It is similar to our student union. People usually think that fraternities are a symbol of connections and upper class society. As long as you enter a fraternity, it almost means one foot has entered the elite class. Brotherhood culture began in upper-class church schools. A secret organization. At that time, the university was still a church system, with strict school rules, social and extracurricular life was monotonous, and thoughts were restricted by various religions. So, a group of rebellious students got together and set up a secret cell similar to an underground party. The group starts with everyone getting together to discuss life and current affairs. Through the fraternity, students gradually develop a network of connections, and fraternity members identify with each other. New members receive help from older members in their studies and careers, and then in turn, Help update members." Mo Hongying paused, picked up the tea cup and took a sip to moisten her throat.

"This is unbearable. Some of the more explosive ones involve minors." Mo Hongying said as she looked at them with ice in her eyes.

"I don't know." Ma Chengyun shook his head slightly.

"Based on what you just said, I feel a little uncomfortable with your compliments." Ma Chengyun rubbed the goosebumps on his arms and said, "Could this brother be doing bad things?"

<divclass="contentadv">"Yes, many fraternities are often associated with sex, alcoholism, and drugs. They take photos of themselves, bully and beat others, to gain overall recognition." Mo Hongying's slightly cold eyes Watching them say word by word, "In order to show their loyalty, they will do anything to violate the law and discipline."

"I've seen it. It was released last year and won multiple Oscars this year." Ma Chengyun nodded and said, "It's very interesting and touching."

"If you knew the story behind it, you wouldn't be moved, and you would find that the reality is cruel and bloody." Mo Hongying looked at Ma Chengyun with her deep eyes.

"What's the story behind it?" Ma Chengyun looked at her with confusion and asked.