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Waving her hands in a panic, she said with surprise, "No, we haven't planned to have a child at this time."

Blushing and nervous, but not worried, Sister-in-law Yang confirmed again: "It's really not a physical problem?"

Cheng Xu didn't know whether to laugh or cry. He also knew that Sister-in-law Yang asked this question because she was concerned about him: "It really can't be true anymore."

Since it was not impossible, Sister-in-law Yang didn't understand why Cheng Xu didn't give birth earlier, but when she thought that Cheng Xu and Han Chen had no parents around, and Liu Minzhi's family, who usually took care of Cheng Xu, were also out, this young man really When you have a child, life becomes chaotic.

"When are you going to have kids?"

Cheng Xu brought out the words he had given Cheng's mother before: "I will give birth next year."

Sister-in-law Yang: "Next year won't be soon. Remember to ask your mother-in-law to come here to take care of you, or you can live at your mother-in-law's house to give birth. Han Chen will definitely not have time to take care of you because he has to go to work. If you don't go to your mother-in-law's place, just go to her house. You can go to your mother's house."

"You don't have the labor force like us. You have to take your time when giving birth to a child. It's even more difficult to raise a child by yourself. When I gave birth to my eldest son, the whole family plus four of me had to work around one child. This made me very tired. , you are more tired alone."

The feeling of giving birth is different for each person. Cheng Xu has also met people who are particularly pain-resistant. This kind of people feel that giving birth does not hurt. There is also a kind of person who is in good health and works all year round and gives birth to children very quickly.

If you are in poor health, giving birth will mean you are on the verge of life and death. She once met a friend who was in particularly poor health to give birth. She originally planned to give birth naturally, but her friend never had the strength to give birth, so she had to have a caesarean section instead. It’s scary to think about the pain of a normal childbirth and having to be incised.

The scariest thing about pregnancy and childbirth is not only giving birth to the baby, but also taking care of the baby.

Thinking of these two points, she flinched a little. Her future husband could not let her take care of the child after giving birth, or he would collapse.

She looked serious: "I will definitely not be alone." If she didn't have a husband, she wouldn't have any worries about having children. If she had a husband, he would have to take care of her. There would be nothing wrong with her giving birth to him and raising him.

Han Chen sat obediently on the stone alone. He was not at all curious about what Cheng Xu and Sister-in-law Yang were chatting with, so he just chatted with his neighbors.

"Your family is a good person. He sticks to you all the time and gives you time to be alone. Like mine, he wanted to follow me to the latrine at the beginning. In the end, I couldn't hold it in anymore and kicked him. Walk."

The scene what Sister-in-law Yang said made her want to laugh. The person who was kicked away by Sister-in-law Yang should be extremely aggrieved.

In comparison, Han Chen is really quite worry-free. No childhood sweetheart or friend who likes him comes to her to show off his power. Han Chen himself often helps her. He is indeed a good person.

She agreed with Sister-in-law Yang.

"Don't talk about next year. If you want to give birth, give birth as soon as possible. Your body will recover quickly after giving birth. People in the village who are over 30 years old and have given birth to children do not recover as quickly as young girls."

"Besides, you and Han Chen are both good-looking. Let's have more babies as soon as possible." Sister-in-law Yang winked at Cheng Xu, just to get Cheng Xu to have children as soon as possible.

Cheng Xu couldn't squat any longer. She couldn't talk about this topic.

"Sister-in-law Yang, we haven't finished the work at home yet. I'm going back first."

Sister-in-law Yang hadn't had enough chat yet. The man was about to leave. She wanted to keep Cheng Xu to chat for a while, but Cheng Xu acted quickly and pulled Han Chen up to leave. Han Chen was in a daze and was so confused. Follow Cheng Xu and leave.

After getting out of Sister-in-law Yang's sight, Cheng Xu let go of Han Chen.

Han Chen: "What did Sister-in-law Yang say?" People were so shocked that they left immediately.

Cheng Xu was not prepared and said it directly: "It's about giving birth."

No, why did she say it!

Quickly make up for it: "It's not that they didn't know our situation, so they asked me why I wasn't pregnant after being married for so long. They thought I couldn't give birth, so I said I didn't want children for the time being. After I explained, I started to induce labor again." There was no way we could continue talking that day, and she couldn't stay any longer.

Han Chen looked at Cheng Xu's back with a lingering look in his eyes that Cheng Xu couldn't see: "Actually, my sister also asked me this question."

Hanyu is actively trying to get pregnant with her younger brother recently. The fundamental reason is that her blind date is not smooth. People at the institute are shocked that Hanyu wants to find a husband among her colleagues. Rabbits don’t eat grass from their nests. How can you be better than a rabbit, Hanyu? Not as good as.

Every time Han Yu finished his own work, he would pass over a male colleague to go to dinner, which put all the unmarried male colleagues in the institute at risk.

So she met each other one by one, and in the end, she would always take a detour when seeing Han Yu, fearing that if Han Yu couldn't find an unmarried man, he would set his sights on a married man.

Korean: .....I will not be so hungry!You bunch of random people!

In the end, the dean couldn't bear to talk to Hanyu.

Her wish to learn Korean was finally shattered, and she had to listen to the dean's words. This dean was her teacher when she was studying. In order to be able to go home smoothly in the future, and to have someone to help her divert her attention, she thought that Han Mu would not have the energy to find someone. Just her.

Taking care of children takes the most time and energy, and Han Chen suffered from this. In the past, he and his eldest sister would not call and write letters once a year. Since the beginning of the new year, Han Chen has written letters almost every once in a while. The purpose of the letters is Precipitating the birth, no matter how many corners she took, the final ending would definitely bring her back to her nieces and nephews.

Cheng Xu turned her head quickly. Han Mu, the mother-in-law, hadn't urged her yet, so the eldest sister was urging her now?This made her have to think about whether Mother Han had asked her eldest sister to induce the baby.

"Mom is worried?"

"That's not true, it's just my sister who is anxious."

Cheng Xu didn't understand. As a mother-in-law, Han's mother was not in a hurry, so why was the eldest sister anxious? "Why is the eldest sister anxious?"

Could it be that the eldest sister is her second mother-in-law?

She thought of the news she had read before. In the family, there were several sisters and one brother. The younger brother who was adopted as a son by several sisters married a wife who was not satisfied with. They had to say this and that, and the sisters had all become The role of mother-in-law.

Han Chen patted the top of Cheng Xu's head. The fluffy hair felt as good as Han Chen expected. The smooth hair absorbed the warmth of the sun and became warm.

"She has trouble dating and wants her parents to take care of the child so they don't have time to take care of her."

Although Han Yu didn't say the reason, Han Chen still guessed it. Han's mother had said on the phone before that the eldest sister had not been successful in finding someone in the institute. The dean of their institute had called Han's father. I hope They can let the Korean language go, don't force it.

After contacting what happened to the eldest sister, Han Chen found out easily.