On the anniversary of the death of my wife and daughter, I am reborn

It looks better now.

For Zhao Wanxiang, this year's New Year is considered a relatively complete one.

The son came back with his family, and now his sister, whom he had not contacted for many years, also came back with her children to celebrate the New Year.

No matter what happens, but for now, it is relatively good.

Then don't worry about what will happen to them.

The most important thing is to have a good New Year celebration as a family.

Then a happy smile appeared on his face.

Although now Zhao Wanxiang has accepted that they can celebrate the New Year together at home.

But Zhao Guizhi and her two children have not changed at all.

They are still diligently helping the family with housework and the like.

No bad habits were revealed.

If anything, their character is timid.

Especially those two kids.

The kind who always look at their eyes and do something.

I don’t know what they have experienced before that makes them so sensitive to the outside world and care so much about the opinions of outsiders.

But in the final analysis, they did not cause any discomfort to their family.

We get along quite harmoniously.

On the 29th, the day before New Year's Eve, the whole family went uphill to pay homage to the grave.

This is also a custom in my hometown, which is to take the children at home to pay homage to the deceased elderly before the Chinese New Year.

Because Xu Xinrou is pregnant now, it is inconvenient to go uphill to worship.

Yu Xiuying also stayed at home with Xu Xinrou, so she could prepare lunch and so on.

Everyone else went uphill to pay homage to the grave.

Of course, Zhao Guizhi and her two children were also with them.

She had to go to pay homage to the grave today.

When I left before, my parents were still alive, but when I came back this time, I found that they were no longer there.

She also regretted it in her heart.

Because I was young and ignorant, I missed a lot.

And her parents must have left with worries about her at that time.

She is really very unfilial.

They went uphill.

Nowadays, everyone is still doing crops, so the land on the slopes is basically used for cooking.

The slope is smooth and the walking is smooth.

Unlike later generations, basically all the land was deserted, and there were fewer and fewer people doing crops.

For example, if you want to visit a grave during the Chinese New Year, the mountains will be overgrown with weeds, making it difficult to get down.

They first came to two graves, where were the grandparents of Zhao Wanxiang's generation.

That is, the grandparents of Zhao Xinghang's generation.

Zhao Wanxiang doesn't even have a big impression of his grandparents, let alone the children born later.

So everyone simply burned the paper, set off firecrackers, bowed and left.

The next step was to visit the graves of Zhao Wanxiang and Zhao Guizhi's parents.

Zhao Wanxiang didn't say anything, but silently took out the meat cooked at home and the apples prepared for the New Year from his back basket and placed them on the place where the sacrifices were placed.

Then it’s time to light wax and incense.

Zhao Guizhi knelt on the ground.

When Xiaokang and Xiaojia saw this, they quickly knelt down.

"Dad, Mom, my unfilial daughter is back to see you!"

"I have really done a lot of wrong things, so I don't ask you to bless me."

"How I wish you could still be here, you can hit me and scold me!"

Xiaokang and Xiaojia lowered their heads and did not speak.

They knew that their mother had done something wrong before, but they still prayed that their grandfather and grandmother, whom they had never met before, could keep their mother safe and happy in the future.

After Zhao Wanxiang heard what his sister said, he also started to say:

"Mom and Dad, Guizhi is back now. Don't hold grudges against her. She must have had some compelling reason to come back to see us now."

"You can feel at ease underground. She is doing well now and has given birth to two good children."

"You just wish them good health in the future, that their family will be safe and harmonious, and that nothing will happen to their health."

After Zhao Guizhi heard what his elder brother said, he was particularly moved.

As the eldest brother, he really fulfilled the role of an eldest brother and a father. Even if he was really angry and complained about her ignorance, he would still speak well of her in front of his parents.

I am also thinking of ways to give her some reasons.

Seeing that the current atmosphere was a little sad, Zhao Xinghang gently patted his daughter to indicate that it was time for her to play.

Little Sisi plopped and knelt on the ground.

Then she chanted like grandma before:

"I wish my mother could give birth to my younger brothers and sisters safely, I wish my father could be healthy, and I wish Sisi could study well!"

The little one is simply adorable.

In the end, everyone watched as the little guy muttered some words of blessing for his grandparents.

Zhao Xinghang reminded Sisi again:

"Sisi, you forgot to call your grandparents!"

Sisi said again:

"Grandpa and grandma, we are here to see you! You must protect us well!"

This little look was so cute, it made everyone laugh.

The atmosphere finally became a lot better.

Everyone happily burned paper money.

When it was time to set off the firecrackers, everyone stayed away and let Zhao Wanxiang set off the firecrackers.

Finally, on the way home, we passed by Tu Tu Gong’s place.

They had also left some paper money before, which they wanted to burn for this landowner.

This is a god no matter what, and can also bless them with safety.

And they also prepared sacrifices for him, including some cakes, fruits and the like.

In their place, knife-head meat or other meat cannot be used to worship these gods.

After finishing the work, Zhao Xinghang took out a candy that had just been ignored by Tu Tu Gong and gave it to Sisi.

"Sisi will be healthy after eating this candy, and her stomach won't hurt!"

After Sisi heard what her father said, she felt amazing.

"Wow, that's awesome! Sisi will definitely finish this candy!"

"We have to take the remaining candy back to mom, so that mom's stomach won't hurt when the younger siblings kick her!"

I have to say that Sisi's little brain is quite smart.

You can immediately think of this level.

And on the other hand, it can also be seen that this little guy is still very filial.

"We have to give it to grandma! Grandma didn't come today, so we have to leave something for her!"

"We all need to eat so that we can all stay healthy and not get sick!"

This little guy's milky voice made everyone laugh.

What a little living treasure!