On the anniversary of the death of my wife and daughter, I am reborn

The little boy thought for a while and said:

"Although my mother feels sorry for me at this time, she and my father supported me in doing this!"

"After gradually getting exposed to this project, I found that I actually like it very much, so I am also very grateful to my parents for supporting me to learn this."

"In the process of learning this, I will also suffer a lot of injuries, but when I get the award, it seems that it doesn't matter anymore."

"And now I really like Taekwondo! With the support of my parents, it will make me learn more happily!"

Zhao Xinghang and Xu Xinrou seemed to understand something after hearing what the little boy said.

So, Xu Xinrou asked the little boy’s mother:

"Sister, learning Taekwondo must be very hard and easy to get injured. Every time you see your child injured, you must feel bad. What makes you and your lover continue to support your child?"

In fact, she also wants to be the kind of mother who is reasonable and supports her children to pursue their own interests and hobbies.

But when I imagine that Sisi got injured while learning to skate, the feeling of uneasiness and uneasiness in my heart will be magnified.

The woman thought for a while and replied:

“As a mother, when you see your child injured, you will definitely be anxious, but every time you see your child come back and share with us every bit of what he learned there, you can see that he is really happy and happy. "

"As parents of a child, isn't it what we want in our hearts when we see him happy?"

"And this child of mine is really sensible. Every time he comes back after being injured, he always tries to comfort me and his father first, telling us not to worry. In fact, I also know that he wants to tell us that he likes it very much. Taekwondo, hopefully we don’t stop him.”

The boy raised his head and looked at his mother.

I didn't expect that my mother always knew what I was thinking.

"He went to play last month, and his dad and I were watching from the audience. His appearance when playing was something we couldn't see at home. We really felt proud at that time, especially When I saw him standing on the stage receiving the medal, I couldn't help but cry!"

"So now, as parents, what we can do is to encourage him mentally and give him comfort when he is hurt and sad!"

Xu Xinrou looked at Sisi who was squatting on the ground as if watching ants.

Sisi is still young and cannot express her true thoughts and feelings.

But after listening to this sister's words just now, she seemed to understand something in her heart.

"Sister, your education methods are really good. I think my wife and I should also learn from you!"

"This child of yours, I just saw him for the first time, and I felt that he is a very strong and promising child, and he will definitely have a bright future!"

Zhao Xinghang said.

A smile appeared on the woman's face and she thanked him:

"Thank you for your affirmative words! My child, I also believe that he will study harder in the future! Even if he wants to give up learning Taekwondo in the future, as long as he has no regrets or regrets, I will I feel very relieved.”

Yes, there are many things that I want to try in life, not just Taekwondo and short track speed skating. There are many things in life. Maybe each thing is just what I want to do at each stage, but I can't leave any regrets.

And if you want to do something but fail to do it, it may be a lifelong regret.

"It seems we are almost here, so I will take my child to get bandaged first! Thank you for coming to care about my child today. You should also walk slowly!"

The woman said to them with a smile.

They also nodded and responded with a smile:

"it is good!"

"Go and bandage the child quickly!"

So the woman took the child to the consultation room.

"Sisi, let's go!"

Xu Xinrou shouted to Sisi not far away.

After Sisi heard this, she immediately ran to her parents, held their hands and left the hospital together.

They went back to discuss it and decided to let Sisi go take a look at that place.

Let her decide for herself whether she really likes short track speed skating and whether she really wants to learn it.

As for them, they need some time to adjust themselves.

Because I saw the mother and son today, and they were deeply affected.

Indeed, if it is something that a child likes, and it is for a legitimate reason, as an adult, the most important thing is to support it, rather than being the obstacle.

This may leave the child with lifelong regrets.

If Sisi really likes it, the best thing for them to do is to let the child face it directly and determine what they think and like.

But I still feel very worried.

Because short track speed skating is really too dangerous!

Sisi is three years old now, and the teacher said it would be most appropriate to wait until she is four to learn that.

She can now try her hand at skateboarding.

Maybe by the time she is serious enough to start learning, she will no longer be interested in the project.

This will naturally eliminate some of their worries.

However, that was not the case. When Sisi paddled onto the ice for the first time, she was very excited.

It didn't seem to be that smooth at first, so I fell down a few times.

But she was very strong and got up on her own.

Then he said to his parents:

"Mom and Dad! This doesn't hurt at all when you fall!"

The couple looked at their daughter like this and felt that they couldn't laugh or cry!

It seems that this child will definitely not give up this item.

"Have you discussed this with Sisi during this time? What are your adults' opinions now?"

Teacher He came over and asked for their opinions.

Zhao Xinghang replied:

"The decision we are making now is not to let the child have any regrets. If she likes it, we will support it. If she finds it boring and doesn't want to learn it anymore, we won't force her to continue learning."

"Everything respects Sisi's choice. Although we are also very worried that she will encounter many difficulties and dangers during the training process, all we can hope for is that she will suffer less injuries and gain a lot from the process. Harvest and grow!”

Teacher He nodded, fully agreeing with what he said.

"Yes, if a person is bored and has no interest in this field, it is impossible for him to continue learning."

"Sisi is a very smart child. She will definitely learn these skills and avoid injuries to a large extent. And I believe that with her perseverance, she will definitely achieve good results."