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Guihua finished wiping Shiyun's body and made a gesture to Xia Chuan to take off his clothes.

Xia Chuan lay still: "I'm not sweating."

Shiyun whispered: "Isn't purifying one's body more pious?"

Xia Chuan felt a chill in his crotch and clamped it down suddenly, causing the two women to burst into laughter.

Shiyun took off his clothes and asked Osmanthus to wipe it once, but he wiped it again. This time, Osmanthus smiled and took the basin away.

Xia Chuan lay down to calm down for a while, got dressed, and was about to continue meditating when Osmanthus came in.

She asked in a low voice: "Boss, my aunt has just arrived, will it affect you?"

Xia Chuan sighed: "If you don't tell me in the future, it won't affect you."

Shiyun chuckled, Guihua's cheeks turned red and said, "I'm sorry. Then I'll go out."

"No need." Xia Chuan reached out and took her arm: "Come and lie next to sister, and I will tell you the principles of doing things."

"Yes." Osmanthus happily lay down side by side with Shiyun, letting Xia Chuan's knee press against her round.

Xia Chuan said: "Osmanthus, what you do is the most trivial thing, and you have to contact people at all levels, so it is very important to look at people. You have talent in this area, but you have no experience. How to interact with people at all levels When dealing with people, I will give you a clear framework on how to quickly identify a person."

Osmanthus said excitedly: "I just want to ask you this, but you don't have time."

Shiyun giggled. If you don’t ask, where did he get the time?

"Note that this framework is just to make your mind clear. After you truly accumulate rich experience, everything will disappear."

Osmanthus widened her eyes and asked confusedly: "No longer exists? What do you mean?"

"There is a saying in Taoism: The Tao can be Tao, but it is very Tao. It means that the most profound things cannot be described in words. If it can be said, it is not the Tao. There is another saying, the Tao is invisible. This is also the case mean.

Why do Buddhists pursue enlightenment?What does stick drink mean?Why don't you be reasonable and beat me with a stick?

There is a saying in Confucianism, which is to get carried away with oneself.That's what I mean.All things that are structured are superficial, just like the Three Character Classic, which is only suitable for your introduction and cannot be used as a Bible.The most profound book is the Wordless Heavenly Book.clear? "

Osmanthus nodded: "I understand that I got carried away."

"Okay, that's enough. The first rule is that the poor value profit. So you have to use profit to move people.

Don't talk about ideals and prospects with people who have no money, just tell them how much money they can make.

There is no point in talking about music, chess, calligraphy and painting with people who worry about daily necessities.

Article [-]: Respect the weak and approach with humility.

If you ask someone of low status to do something for you, you must show extra respect for him, because they lack this.

The lower a person is, the more fragile and sensitive his heart is, and he always feels that others look down on him.

If you speak a little more directly at this time, they will not be able to bear it.

So speak softly.On the contrary, the more they face strong people, the more cruel they can be, because they have a strong heart and a strong ability to withstand blows.

For example, if you find something wrong with the old man, you can directly say that as long as you are not looking for death, he will not beat you to death.

Article [-]: A strong person focuses on results and starts with things.

Strong people don't like to deal with weak people, and they don't like to be verbose.Therefore, when interacting with them, you can be more forceful, don't be too humble, just talk about the matter and go straight to the topic.

A truly strong person does not need any flattery or hypocritical politeness.

What they dislike the most is nonsense. It should be straightforward. Give him what you want, and don't beat around the bush.

Article [-]: Fools value simplification and start with simplicity.

When dealing with simple-minded people, don't be unreasonable, simplify the complex, make it simple and clear, and it's best to explain it clearly in one sentence.

Don't take the time to reason with them, it's hard for them to understand.

Choosing the right person is always ten thousand times more important than changing a person.

The stupidity of many people is that they always talk to the wrong person instead of choosing the right person.

Most people in life are not worth communicating with, it's a waste of time, they don't understand, and they like to argue with you.

Article [-]: The elderly value status and use etiquette to do so.

When dealing with older people, you must be polite, listen to their stories about the past, and support them more.

Don't be stupid and argue with them. Just listen to what they say and then reply that you are right. That's it.

Article [-]: Women value love. You know this better than I do, so I won’t say it again. "

Shiyun said: "No! I just want to hear this!"

Xia Chuan smiled and said: "The stupidest men are those who like to reason with women. A woman's truth is her emotions. If you make her feel uncomfortable, you are right and wrong.

If you make her happy, you are right even if you are wrong. This is the logic of women.

So never take a woman seriously, and never take her angry words seriously.

Just understand what a woman says when she is angry.

Of course, there are a very small number of women who are not sarcastic, but who really think so in their hearts and can really do it. Such women are all women who can do great things. "

Osmanthus immediately asked in confusion: "Why haven't I met a woman who said something sarcastic? Is it because I can't tell the difference?"

Shiyun chuckled and whispered, "Because our family is full of women who do great things, but how many families like this are there in the world? Most women speak with their emotions, and that's the person you have to face. "

Osmanthus understands clearly.

Xia Chuan smiled and said: "Article [-]: A wise man values ​​sincerity and approaches with truth.

Real masters are those who focus on cultivating themselves, reflecting on themselves, and improving themselves every day.

He can face any criticism, any suggestion, any setback, any blow indifferently.

In his view, these are all processes of cultivating oneself.

In front of this kind of person, you are transparent. He can see through any little tricks or tricks you play, so your only choice is to be absolutely truthful.

The only way to interact with wise men is sincerity.

What a wise man says is all true. It may sound unpleasant, but you must listen carefully. The unpleasant words are what you need most.

The more pleasant the words are, the more they corrode people's reason and have no value.Anyone can tell you nice words.

But few people will tell you the unpleasant truth.

Therefore, the more perfect you pretend to be, the more evil you feel.

Remember? "

Osmanthus thought for a while and said softly: "I want to ask you later. Just lie down first."

She was afraid that Xia Chuan would wait for her to think, but Xia Chuan shook his head and said, "Don't enter Famen Temple tomorrow."

Guihua's cheeks turned red instantly, and Shiyun punched Xia Chuan for her: "Lie down! Have you still wronged me?"

Xia Chuan immediately lay down obediently and said smoothly: "Do you understand Article [-]?"

The two girls giggled, and Shiyun pushed Guihua: "Go over."

Osmanthus quickly climbed over Xia Chuan, and the two of them changed positions.

Xia Chuan reached out and hugged the two women in his arms, and said with a smile: "What will I do when I get old? Square dancing is so difficult. I can't learn any of them."

"I'll let you get an advantage again!" Shiyun gave him a hard beating.

Osmanthus laughed for a long time.