Reborn in that autumn

"There is still something like this, but I'm used to it, and I won't be able to change it for a while." After hearing this, Aunt Wang paused in cleaning up the rice bowl.

"This is no longer the past era, when men went out to earn money and women stayed at home to take care of the children. Housework should be shared between the two."

"You should master two tips. First, cultivate your husband's concept and habit of doing housework. Second, she will not take over all the housework, but will cultivate what she is best at just like cultivating specialties. housework".

"First, start by training your husband to do housework. Training your husband to do housework is a major project that needs to be guided from the beginning. No man is born good at doing housework, even those who are gentle and good at taking care of the family. , they often have a mother who played a good role in educating them in this aspect during their childhood. In a sense, the wife is another mother of the man. Guidance is very important.”

"In the process of guiding men to do housework, patience is a must. Many men don't know how to do housework because they don't know where to start? Therefore, step-by-step "decomposition of actions" becomes very important. Through clear instructions to help them get into the situation.”

"Don't be in a hurry. Don't be in a hurry. Do the disassembly and let him slowly adapt to each step."

"If your husband doesn't wash the dishes cleanly, don't dislike him on the spot, turn around and wash it again. When a man does something for you, don't criticize him first, give him praise and affirmation, which will help him to continue to help you. . Men are afraid of complaints, criticism or ridicule, so give more positive encouragement and feedback."

"Being coquettish at the right time is also very effective, but it must be just right. For example, if there are five dishes for a dinner, when the third dish is cooked, a smart woman will poke her head and say to her husband: "My hand is burned, it hurts so much." "Ask her husband to help her finish cooking the remaining vegetables. This kind of woman is good at creating opportunities and acting coquettishly, but her husband's housework is getting better and better because of this."

"If he doesn't like to do these housework, but there is another housework, men will be happy to do it. Research has found that men may be timid about tedious housework, but they are happy to accompany their children and have a lot of emotions with them. Communication can increase a man's sense of participation in the family, which is very different from ordinary housework. Some young fathers who are new to the world really like to bathe their newborn babies. You can give them the baby so that they can enjoy this sweetness as early as possible. housework."

"Having a good husband who does housework is something to be proud of, so you should seize every opportunity to publicize it. Housework is a small matter, but the important thing is to let people know it. When everyone on earth knows that he is a good man who can do housework She is a good husband and praises him as a role model as soon as we meet him! If you praise him too much, naturally he will be embarrassed to cheat on you."

This situation often occurs when doing housework, such as washing clothes. In the eyes of men, what is a washing machine used for? It is just for washing clothes.Just throw the clothes in and press the switch.Women, on the other hand, tend to be meticulous. When doing laundry, they always have to sort the clothes into different categories. They use many basins every time and soak their coats, trousers, underwear, underwear and socks separately. This makes the bathroom full and then bursts each one. .You are rubbing hard here, and he is still sulking: It’s okay to go to work during the day and not see anyone. After dinner, you finally have some time, can’t you come over to accompany your husband?Is washing clothes so important?

At this time, you have to understand that your husband is not good at washing clothes. Even if you teach him this time, he may try to save time and convenience by stuffing them into the washing machine next time.Therefore, there must be a division of labor in housework. You are good at washing clothes, and in order to eliminate the hidden dangers left by his failure, you can do it yourself.Smart women will show this advantage to their husbands. They will ask them: "I know this shirt is your favorite, so I specially washed it by hand for you. How about it? Is it cleaner than the washing machine?" You can also take the opportunity to be coquettish: "Look, my hands have become rough because of washing your clothes."

Properly cultivating a man's laziness and ignorance in a certain aspect is not a bad thing. When he faces a lot of dirty clothes and smelly socks after you go on a business trip, he will deeply remember your kindness and realize your importance.

"In addition to training your husband to do housework, you must also develop one of your own "specialties." For example, a wife rarely cooks on weekdays, but if there is a major festival, her husband's birthday, etc., she will definitely cook herself. , and then cook a few of her specialty dishes. This actually makes my husband look forward to her cooking skills even more."

"This girl knows so much at such a young age," Aunt Wang said to Ye Qiu.

Ye Qiu smiled slightly and said: "Some of them were told by my father, some were told by my mother, and some were read in newspapers and extracurricular books."

"It seems that Zichen may be well trained by you in the future." Aunt Wang said with a smile.

Just as Ye Qiu was about to speak, he heard Li Zichen on the side say: "There is no need for Ye Qiu to train her, it will be too tiring for her. I will go back to my father-in-law and mother-in-law for advice and ask them to work harder and teach me how to do housework."

Aunt Wang said: "The young man is really wise, he is a person who knows both cold and hot. Aunt Ye believes that you two can't go wrong together."

Ye Qiu smiled and said: "I'm borrowing my aunt's good words."

Then he turned to Li Zichen and Ye Ran and said, "You two carry the things to send Aunt Wang back. She can't take so much by herself."

"Just put the dirty dishes here, I can wash them alone, go ahead!"

After Ye Qiu finished speaking, he took a basin of dirty dishes and went to his kitchen, because there was water in the kitchen.

Li Zichen and Ye Ran walked away with Aunt Wang's leftovers.

Ye Qiu took a rubber glove and started washing the dishes.

After washing all the dishes for the first time, Li Zichen came back and said to Ye Qiu, "I'll do it!"

Ye Qiu said: "After you've finished brushing, just rinse it with clean water. Don't get started. Besides, why am I wearing gloves? I can't get them on my hands."

"I'll do it! You wipe the bowl with a dry towel. You won't need it tomorrow. Just wipe off the water marks." Li Zichen took the bowl from Ye Qiu's hand and carried Ye Qiu to the side where the bowl was placed.

I carefully washed the bowl with water.

Li Zichen said while brushing: "This means that men and women can work together without getting tired. Don't think too much tonight. You won't get enough sleep."

Ye Qiu replied: "I understand. After cleaning up, you should go to bed early. You still have to drive? You need to be energetic."