Reborn in that autumn

"Why don't you live together? It would be great to live together as a family! It's still annoying," Liu Yueqin asked.

Li Zichen's father said: "Let's go outside and find a cool place to talk slowly. It will be time to eat after a while."

Liu Yueqin said: "Okay"

Once outside, the two walked out of the Wang family's main house and sat down on the stone chairs under the big tree at the door.

Liu Yueqin spoke again: "We are out now, it's cooler, and no one will hear. Tell me why we don't live together."

Li Zichen's father, Li Jianguo, replied: "Don't worry, just listen to me and let me speak slowly."

"Times are different now. It's different from our time. There's a sense of distance and you don't have to live together."

"Besides, the children are still young and will live with us in the future. Our concepts are different. No matter how careful we are, we will inevitably encounter bumps and bumps."

"No matter how good the relationship is, there will be times when we quarrel, let alone mother and son, mother and daughter will also quarrel."

"So I have already planned to buy them a new house after they get married and let them live there."

"We just occasionally go and see him during holidays, Saturdays, Sundays, or when you miss him, and stay for a day or two. Just stay for a day or two."

"Why don't you disturb the sweet couple's life?"

"When they have children in the future, we can live together and help them take care of them. When they can take care of the children independently, we still have to leave."

"In this way, we don't often live together during the holidays, and we will definitely be very affectionate when we meet. If we live together all year round, we will not understand the schedule of young people, or their thoughts on consumption."

"And we will get too involved in their lives, just like when we first got married."

"There is a generation gap between generations, even if there is a gap of more than ten or twenty years, but there is a generation gap even if there is a gap of one year, let alone several years."

"Don't make both parties feel uncomfortable when the time comes. You have already mentioned the hardships you have endured. Don't let them suffer again."

"Although those things won't happen in our family, I think it's good to have a sense of distance."

"If it doesn't work out, let's buy two adjacent courtyards, one for our son and one for us. We can close the door and live our own lives."

"It's okay to open the door. Visit each other's houses. If you don't want to go to his house when you have children in the future, you can go back and forth to your own house to have a look."

"Don't interfere with the children's lives in normal times."

"How about you talk about it? Besides, we still don't know where the children will be in the future, where they like to be or where their chosen jobs will be."

"If it's close to us, we have to buy it from here. If it's far from us, we can also buy it here. If it's far away, we can just walk back and forth and treat it as a visit, just like Kyoto and Xingdu City." Li Zichen's father Li Jianguo said to Liu Yueqin.

After hearing this, Liu Yueqin replied: "You are right, distance creates beauty. Even if you live in a city, it should be a little bit not close or far away."

"Living together every day, it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bruises. Just like when we have children in the future, our educational concepts will be different. I still have the same old ideas as before, but they have opened up new ideas and new education methods."

"Besides, it's too early for us to worry now. We don't know where the children will stay after college. It will still be three or four years away? We still don't know whether they will go to graduate school or get a Ph.D.?"

"Husband, you are starting to worry about whether I am going through menopause or not."