Reborn in that autumn

Aoxue told Ye Qiu some etiquette on how a woman should dine elegantly:

1. Slow means gentle.This is easy to understand, and eating slowly is good for your stomach.

2. Don’t talk when there is food in your mouth. You can smile and finish eating before talking.That said: Don't put a lot of stuff in your mouth at one time.

3. Eat very lightly and slowly, without making the sound of clinking tableware.

4. Be careful not to splash the soup on the table, yourself or others.

These are some of the most basic etiquette.

Ye Qiu thought that he could become a lady, be elegant and dignified, and not become a sloppy tomboy, so he asked how he could become a lady.

Aoxue explained to Ye Qiu how to become a qualified lady, and also began to train Ye Qiu to become a qualified lady. At least when he grew up, he would go out to socialize with Zichen and treat guests to dinner. When attending various banquets, just don't lose his face or embarrass him.

Aoxue said, "First of all, you must have self-confidence. Self-confidence: the so-called ladies, self-confidence is the first thing to bear the brunt. I believe there are not many ladies who are dejected every day. Straighten your back and show your beautiful smile to everyone!"

"Secondly, study: there is a golden house in the book, and there is a beauty in the book. A good book can not only broaden your horizons, but also enrich your life and enrich your cultivation. Calm down and enter the world in the book Right! So read more books.”

Ye Qiu replied: "This is not a problem, because there is such a big library in the space."

Aoxue continued, "You also need to know how to cook. Cooking: only love and food cannot be let down. You may not necessarily know how many delicacies from mountains and seas, but you must know a few specialty side dishes. During the New Year and festivals, when friends get together, your food will definitely be good." Make your friends admire you, and more importantly, make your future husband fall in love with your delicious food. As the saying goes, if you want to win a man's heart, you must first win his stomach."

Know how to regulate your mood, how to restrain your temper, and maintain your own mentality in everything. Mentality is very important. If you believe that the world is beautiful, it will be beautiful.If you believe he has love, he will have love.Help yourself and others more and have good mental endurance. "

Modern ladies are not as morbidly beautiful as ancient ladies, so they should love the sun and sports!Find a sport that suits you. You don’t have to know a lot, but you just need to be proficient in one thing.I think it’s pointless if you learn a lot but don’t become particularly proficient in anything! "

There is also a lady who refers to a woman's unique feminine charm in appearance, conversation, behavior, thinking, and behavioral habits.Take the sitting posture as an example. If you have a "pretty" posture, you are a lady, and if you don't have a proper posture, you are not a lady.

Basic sitting postures for ladies etiquette

The upper body is upright, the shoulders are open and flat, the chest is raised and the abdomen is raised, the body is sitting two-thirds of the way on the chair, and the back is away from the chair.Place your left hand on your left leg near your abdomen, and your right hand on top of your left hand.Keep your legs and feet together.

"This way, no matter what occasion you go to, others will not find anything wrong with you, nor will your bad posture expose the parts of you that others should not see."

“It embarrasses yourself and embarrasses others.”

"Others can also tell by your sitting posture that this person is a very well-spoken and well-educated person."