Reborn in that autumn

Li Zichen's father continued: "I think this kind of male chauvinism, no matter what the state or conditions, if he really realizes the seriousness of this problem, you can talk to him and teach him well, and he is willing. Totally changeable.

You can also tell from this aspect whether he loves you or not. If he is unwilling to change himself after marriage and sacrifice himself for you and the family, then I think he is not only chauvinistic, And I don’t particularly like you.

If he is willing to try to change slowly after getting married for you, and he agrees after you tell him, I think this is a very good phenomenon. Once you have a good understanding, you can change slowly. .After all, this kind of machismo is also a bad habit he has developed for a long time. It is difficult to change a habit. You need to support him more in all aspects, encourage him more, think more about him, and communicate with him more. .

"You can make him aware of some of the negative impacts and negative aspects of his machismo on the family and on you. Instill in him more of the negative impacts of machismo. , over a long period of time, an idea will form in his subconscious mind that his way of life is wrong and bad. This will allow him to change himself, instead of others asking me to change. That’s why I’m going to change.”

"If you want to change him, you have to make him realize his mistakes. Solving the root cause of the problem is the key."

In this world, there is no one who can make no mistakes. If one knows his mistakes and can correct them, there is no greater good.What a pity, these truths!Some people understand it early, and some people understand it late.

A man who has the courage to take responsibility after making a mistake is worthy of forgiveness as long as he has sincerely corrected himself. The main thing is that he is just a chauvinist and has not cheated, nothing like that?As long as he seriously changes his mind, it won't be temporary.I think he is still worthy of being entrusted with life.

It also proves that this person really loves you.

In life, we will meet many chauvinistic people. They like to take charge of things and make decisions by themselves, and others must obey their own decisions. However, in marriage, chauvinism sometimes affects the other half. If it brings some harm, how do we change the idea of ​​​​masculinity?

Listen more to the other party’s opinions

In married life, we often encounter many things to make decisions. When making decisions, we can listen more to our wives’ opinions and thoughts. This can increase mutual trust between husband and wife and give each other some opportunities to express their thoughts. Make couples more harmonious.

How humble

Many chauvinistic people are relatively outstanding. It may be because of the sense of superiority they have developed since childhood, which makes them feel that sometimes they are great and the decisions they make are all right. Therefore, we should learn to be more modest in peacetime and not always It feels like others look up to you. As the saying goes, "There are people outside the world, and there is heaven outside the world." If you are more humble, you may get more unexpected surprises.

Communicate more

When problems arise, communicate more with other people instead of making decisions yourself. In this case, sometimes it is easy to make others resentful in work and life. Therefore, when doing something, you should communicate more with those around you. Communicate with others, absorb other people's opinions, and then put forward your own unique insights, which makes it easier to get along with others.

control your emotions

Macho people tend to be conceited and easily excited, so when we get along with others, we try to deal with things with a calm mind. When we get emotional, we try to calm ourselves down and control our emotions, so that we can do better. processing issues.

learn to respect each other

When getting along with others, we should learn to respect each other, so that we will also get the respect of others, so that we can get along better with other people at work and life, complete work tasks better, and improve the communication aspects of life.

Improve self-cultivation

Sometimes you can read more books, enrich your thoughts and knowledge, and improve your own quality. This can improve your machismo and help you get along and work with other people better.

"So girl, if my son accidentally becomes like that, I hope you can give him a chance to change his ways." Li Zichen's father begged Ye Qiu.

After hearing this, Li Zichen promised: "Dad, don't worry, I won't become like that."

Li Zichen's father looked up at his son and said, "Many things are not what you expected."

"You said you won't change, so you guarantee it. Time will prove everything. No one can guarantee it until then."

"Girl, Dad Li is begging you now, if my son does anything wrong, please give him a chance to explain today. This is also giving you opportunities in the future, because no one can meet him in the future. What happens, you can't, he can't, none of us can.

If you don't give that chance, you separate inadvertently, and you learn the truth many years later, or something else, you won't regret it. You have been separated for so many years, and you have wasted so much youth?

Things are unpredictable, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, or in the future?I just want you to remember that you must give him a chance today. If you give him this chance, he will not change it or anything else.It will never be too late for you to separate. If I were still alive, I would not stop you.

"I will also raise my hands to support you leaving my son, and I will never recognize this unfilial son of mine."

Ye Qiu stood up and said: "The word "please" for your father is too serious for me. I just give him this chance. Besides, I believe that brother Zicheng is not like that, but there is a possibility in everything. If he does Like we said in the unlikely event, I will carefully consider it and give him a period of time to change his ways. If he doesn't change or I can't accept it, I won't give him another chance."

After hearing this, Li Zichen said: "Dad, Ye Qiu, I promise you that I will never become that kind of person. I will be good to Ye Qiu and love Ye Qiu forever."

"Son, don't be so full of everything you say. Men should not be too conceited. They feel that they will never make mistakes and never become what they are."

"Throughout the ages, both our predecessors and our descendants, without exception, have used countless cases to tell us the truth: don't be too conceited, otherwise you will only suffer in the end."