Reborn in that autumn

"In my heart, you are more important than Zihan. Without you, there would be no her."

"Communications between people rely on sincerity; exchange sincerity for sincerity."

"You are really good to me, and I want to be better to you. It's all mutual."

Liu Yueqin opened Ye Qiu's hand and said: "People say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies since ancient times. I think we should not."

"If Qin's mother says or does something wrong in the future that makes you feel uncomfortable, please tell me in time so that I can correct it in time and don't hurt our feelings for each other for so many years without my realizing it. "

Ye Qiu smiled slightly and replied: "I will"

"Mom Qin, I read in a book that many times the complexity of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that there is a man between them. In the eyes of both parties, one is their son and the other is their husband.

"When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, a man plays a vital role in the relationship. He plays a coordination and balancing role. In many cases, the rigidity and intensification of conflicts in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are closely related to a man's incompetence in his role. relation.

"On the other hand, when a man is caught between two women, it is quite painful to constantly deal with them."

"There have always been people who say that between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a man has to be both a son and a husband. When resolving conflicts, he should hide things from both ends instead of passing the news on both ends."

"However, it is unrealistic that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be completely resolved by men. After all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been said to have natural enemies since ancient times, and it seems that there is no solution."

"Because there is no blood relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they can only rely on "loving each other" to maintain the relationship. Therefore, once they have a lot of contact together, it is easy for friction and war to occur due to trivial matters in life."

"Once a war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law breaks out, it is always very terrible and difficult to calm down. It is easy to hold grudges against each other. Once old and new hatreds are accumulated, it will be quite difficult to resolve them."

“Especially if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live under the same roof, it is easier for them to start fierce competition due to overt or covert power struggles in the family, causing the whole family to lose peace and harmony, and eventually fall into a state of chaos. "

"For a man, these two women are really very important women in his life. The most worrying thing is that there will be a war between them; the most embarrassing thing is that when two women fall into a war, what will happen to them? Where should we stand and how should we coordinate?"

"As a natural enemy relationship, is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really unsolvable?"

"Actually, that's not the case. The most complete solution is still one. It can be said in three simple words: live separately!"

"Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must keep a distance from each other and avoid being together all the time. This may not be a clever way, but it is the most effective way and it is also a way to draw out the firepower."

"Otherwise, what should we do? If we want to fundamentally solve the problem, this is the only way."

"If there is really no way out and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have to live under the same roof, then we can only rely on mutual respect and tolerance."

"In fact, in a family, whether it is the daughter-in-law or the mother-in-law, they are all part of the same family."

"As a member of the family, no one is superior or inferior, no one is noble or inferior. We all have equal personalities and should respect each other. We should not always regard each other as enemies and secretly compete with each other."

"The most important thing between people is mutual respect. Of course, according to the traditional perspective, there may be differences in seniority and inferiority. Even so, if each can know how to play their own role and be more tolerant and understanding of each other, This will prevent the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law from falling into such a strong conflict."

"In fact, compared with the past, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law today is much easier, because many couples and families rarely choose to live with their mother-in-law under the same roof, which avoids a lot of conflicts and unhappiness."

"In the final analysis, this is also the most fundamental way and method to solve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only by "living separately" from each other can we have our own pure land and avoid many disputes."

"As a mother-in-law and an elderly person, if you truly love your son, then for the sake of your son, you must also know how to tolerate your daughter-in-law, don't be too picky about the other person, and choose to accept her as much as possible."

"The same goes for being a daughter-in-law. Since you have chosen to marry into this family, love your husband deeply, and have your own mother-in-law, you must treat each other well and fulfill your duties as a daughter-in-law."

"If both parties can understand these principles, grasp their own moral integrity, and play their own roles well, then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become much more harmonious."

"We may have quarrels. It's impossible not to quarrel. What if both mother and daughter quarrel?"

"When the time comes, we will make it clear to each other. Stop sulking and keeping things in each other's hearts. When the time comes, the grievances will accumulate and it will really hurt our feelings."

"Mom Qin, we must work hard for each other and don't let the relationship between us have any cracks," Ye Qiu said to Liu Yueqin.

Liu Yueqin replied: "Okay, let's work hard together and strive to be a good mother and daughter for life, closer than real mother and daughter."

Ye Qiu said: "It's like mother and daughter are close to each other, which makes my mother envious."

"Haha! Look at what the two of us are talking about. The food is already cold, and we are dragging you to chat while we are eating." Liu Yueqin said guiltily.

Ye Qiu replied: "It's okay, I'm not very hungry yet. I'll put it in the microwave and beat it."

Liu Yueqin replied: "I will go with you."

Ye Qiu said: "Then you eat peanuts and drink wine first, and I'll heat up the food."

Wang Yu said: "Go!"

Ye Qiu and Liu Yueqin took the dishes to the kitchen.

When they arrived in the kitchen, Ye Qiu started to heat up the food. After it was heated, Liu Yueqin was responsible for bringing it back.

The two of them cooperated very well.

After a while he returned to the table again.

This time we stopped chatting and started eating.

Li Zichen and Ye Ran took two more bites.

Li Zichen said, "You guys eat slowly, Ye Ran and I will drive, and we will continue on our way."

"Go! Drive slowly, don't be in a hurry," Wang Yu replied after hearing this.

Li Zichen's father said: "Remember to take out the bricks from under the car."

Li Zichen replied: "I know"

After Li Zichen answered Ye Ran, he got out of the car.

After about 6 minutes, the car started and drove away.

Ye Qiu and Liu Yueqin were eating and drinking in the back. After they finished drinking, they sat and waited while Wang Yu and the three of them finished eating and picked up their bowls.