After being cheated on by a scumbag, the CEO and I got married

Ms. Wu: "I carefully compared the examples of same-sex wives on the Internet, and they were almost exactly the same as my husband and I. So I hired a private detective to investigate and found that the mistress I had been looking for turned out to be a man. It was me. My husband’s driver, they were inseparable almost every day! We even checked in to a hotel many times! At that moment, I collapsed.

I thought about my tomb-like marriage, and the forbearance and pain I had endured for so many years.I filed for divorce, but he didn't want to.Obviously, he needs a decent marriage to hide his ulterior secrets! "

While watching this video, Tang Lu went to see Feng Yu.

Feng Yu was originally reading the information about "premarital phobia" carefully, but after Tang Lu looked at him many times, he still noticed...

"What's wrong? Do you have something to tell me?" Feng Yu looked at Tang Lu with questioning eyes.

She had been worried since the way back.

He really hoped that she would tell her, so that he could know what she was worried about and could find a way to help her eliminate those doubts.

A trace of panic flashed in Tang Lu's eyes, but she calmed down immediately, and then replied calmly: "Well, it's okay, I just wanted to see if it disturbed you."

As she spoke, she continued to observe Feng Yu's expression.

"It's okay, you can do what you want." Feng Yu said nonchalantly.

Tang Lu looked at his expression...

No panic or discomfort!

Is she guessing wrong?

Or is his psychological quality strong enough?

She hoped she was wrong.

"Oh." Tang Lu continued to look at her phone.

Ms. Wu: "I have filed for divorce many times, but he is unwilling and even threatens me. I can only ask for your help. I really want a divorce. I have wasted so many years and I don't want to waste any more."

In the video, Ms. Wu burst into tears.

Tang Lu suddenly felt bored and turned off her phone.

"Looking for a movie to watch together?" Feng Yu looked at her.

"Don't look." Tang Lu shook her head.

……

The next day, in the morning.

Feng Yu said hello to Tang Lu and went out.

He went to a psychiatrist's private practice.

"Dr. Lu, I suspect that my girlfriend has premarital phobia. How can I alleviate it?" Feng Yu said.

"Premarital phobia is a symptom that many girls have before marriage. This fear comes first from the negative "publicity" of public opinion on marriage life, and from some media's analysis of various marriage issues that "exposes" marriage too much The dark side of marriage makes people with "marriage intention" feel an invisible pressure, which leads to excessive worries about the "direction" of life after marriage and fear of marriage failure;

Another reason is that one party is not very satisfied with some aspects of the other party, or has doubts about whether some of the other party's shortcomings can be changed after getting married, or whether they can adapt to it;

The third point is that she is afraid of the obligations and responsibilities she will have to bear after marriage. For example, becoming a wife or a mother may have to stop working to conceive and raise a child, and housework after marriage will hinder the development of her career, etc. wait. "

Feng Yu nodded. He also learned some about this online yesterday.

"This requires you to actively communicate with her to find out what she is afraid of and where she is worried, and then do your best to appease her uneasiness and fear." Dr. Lu continued.

Feng Yu thought about the conversation with Tang Lu in the car yesterday. She asked him, will they really get married?Is marriage for life?

Does that mean that this is what she fears?

Worried about your marriage failing?