Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

remember.

How can I not remember.

Huang's mother unconsciously grabbed her eldest son's hand, which was rougher than hers as a mother.

My heart suddenly hurt.

It sounds confusing. After hearing what her eldest son-in-law said, her first reaction was not to feel sorry for her daughter to marry into her husband's family and have to work.

But...ashamed.

I feel ashamed that my daughter, who was raised by them as a "noble" child, can't even do the simplest housework and has to ask the old woman to help.

So behind her eldest son-in-law's back, she gave her eldest daughter a good meal.

Now that she is a daughter-in-law, let her stop acting like an unmarried little girl and let her be a sister-in-law. There is something in her eyes.

I have to trouble the old lady to help me with anything else, whether it's nice or not.

She also specifically told her eldest daughter to compare her feelings with others. Listening to her son-in-law's words, she knew that he was not ungrateful.

If the eldest daughter is taken care of by the son-in-law's parents and younger siblings.

From now on, no one in the son-in-law's family can disrespect their eldest daughter.

She also said that as a daughter-in-law, everyone has to go through this experience. When she first married their father.

Wasn't she also bullied by her mother-in-law, Lao Huang's mother, who bit her quilt and cried at night?

But when she gets over it, who among her relatives and friends can say anything bad about her?

She instilled her old ideas into her eldest daughter. As a result, the smile on her face became less and less, and even this hand...

It was so rough that she wanted to cry.

Since when did the eldest daughter never come back to complain about her husband's family?

It seems that she and Lao Huang have told their eldest daughter again and again that as a sister-in-law, a daughter-in-law or a daughter-in-law, she should take more responsibility and not be squeamish.

Now the eldest daughter is no longer coquettish, but she would rather her eldest daughter was like before she got married, and she would complain for a long time even if her hands were broken...

Huang's mother lowered her head and carefully opened her eldest daughter's palm.

There are many small wounds on it, one on top of the other, and there are also traces left after frostbite has grown.

Wounds heal and scars proliferate.

The hands have calluses and are no longer as delicate as they once were.

For a moment, Huang's mother was even a little confused. Why did she feel guilty about her eldest son-in-law in the first place?

Why was she so confused that after hearing the secret complaints from her eldest son-in-law, she would only look to her own daughter for the reason?

Just like what the second daughter said, the eldest son-in-law obviously used the excuse of apologizing to make it clear that the Wang family asked her daughter to work.

It was considered a clear path in front of their father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Why...she didn't realize that this was bullying at all, and she would only make her eldest daughter suffer?

Is it because the eldest daughter was the first to get married at that time, and they had no experience being father-in-law and mother-in-law for the first time?

Or is it because they don't have a son that they themselves have lost their confidence in the first place?

It is obvious that their family is tolerating their son-in-law's family, but because of their weak confidence, they act as if they are begging their son-in-law's family to tolerate theirs.

I had no support in my heart, and I was afraid that something would happen to the old couple in the future and my son-in-law would leave him alone, so my attitude toward my son-in-law could even be considered flattering at first.

This is how he later got a second son-in-law.

The second son-in-law was more capable and seemed more reliable than the eldest son-in-law, so they became indifferent to the eldest son-in-law.

It was also because of the second son-in-law for comparison that the eldest son-in-law's reputation in front of her and Lao Huang slowly began to weaken.

But her poor eldest daughter no longer knew how much suffering she had suffered and how much grievance she had endured in places they couldn't see.

"Qingqing...Mom, I'm sorry for you..."

Huang Qingqing didn't expect to hear such words. She opened her mouth, wanting to smile and say it's okay, but she couldn't say the light 'it's okay' no matter what.

She could only comfort her with a hoarse voice: "Mom, it's all over."

It’s not that I don’t complain, and it’s not that it’s okay, but... it’s over.

Huang Qingqing: "So Mom, stop thinking about things from the old perspective. Is there a possibility that Chengcheng can live so comfortably in her husband's family because the Shen family is really good?"

"Xiaxia and I don't have such luck, but our sister does. I...I was jealous."

There were tears in her eyes: "To be honest, Mom, I was jealous before, but now I feel that this is actually quite good."

"Xiaxia and I have endured hardships and our youngest sister no longer has to endure the hardships we have endured. Our younger sister no longer has to walk the same path we have walked."

"We are not just miserable and living the same life. We call each other good sisters when we lick each other's wounds. Chengcheng is living a good life. We look away and express our sincere blessings from the perspective of family members. This is what we call a family."

In fact, there is no enmity between sisters.

It's just that sometimes when the situation is not good and life is not good, people will inevitably get into trouble when they see sisters who have the same mother-in-law living a much better life than themselves and have complicated emotions.

She is like this, and so is her second sister Xiaxia.

Her second sister has a strong personality. There was a time when she refused to believe that Chengcheng would live a good life. She was angry with Chengcheng, but she was not willing to accept it.

But if they really wanted to see that Chengcheng was not having a good life, her second sister would be the first one to rush to protect Chengcheng.

Between sisters, no matter how careful they are, in the final analysis they still want each other to have a good life.

Huang Qingqing is really open now.

He looked away and refused to accept his fate.

Why do you say that?Because before her younger sister got married, she always felt that some people were born with a good life, and some people were born with a poor life.

This is also the reason why she lost control of her emotions when she saw how nice her little sister-in-law's family was and went to her little sister-in-law's new house for the first time.

Not reconciled, but helpless.

At that time, she felt that her younger sister was the kind of person with a good fortune. Even if she chose to be a rural boy, she would still live a good life.

I feel that God is unfair, and I can't help feeling jealous.

But now, after experiencing so much and seeing the most complicated and indifferent people's hearts, she suddenly understood.

Maybe she was distracted before.

Born to the same mother, there is actually no difference between a good life and a miserable life in the beginning.

It all depends on how you fight.

Huang Qingqing has been reflecting on things whenever she has time in the past few days. Until today, when Huang Chengcheng came home, it really made her reflect on a lot of things.

Why does my little sister marry well and live a good life?That's because the younger sister doesn't accept her fate. Even if the whole family doesn't side with the younger sister, the younger sister can still resist the thoughts of the whole family and find a way out for herself.

And what about her?

Why does she die more and more every time she walks?

Because she doesn't have the energy of her younger sister, she will only blame others and be pushed away by her husband's family.

No matter how difficult the life was, she never resisted. Just like her husband's family snatching her things, she only struggled symbolically. When she was frustrated, she immediately retreated and allowed them to dominate her.

She imagined what it would be like if her younger sister married into her husband's family.

That day must have been different for her.

Because her little sister doesn't accept her fate, even if she is thrown into the cracks of rocks, as long as there is hope and goal, her little sister can squeeze out from the cracks of the rocks and bloom a little flower.

Instead of being like her, so powerless to resist and not fight for it, letting herself stink and rot in the cracks of the rocks.

This is also the reason why Huang Qingqing's mentality has changed so well now.

She thought through her miserable life, looked away from it, and then... she wasn't ready to accept her fate!

Holding Huang's mother's hand, Huang Qingqing smiled with tears in her eyes: "Mom, listen to my daughter, don't get involved in my little sister's affairs. She has the ability to live her own life. She is different from this confused elder sister like me. "

"And I...Mom, I also want to live my life well...Does what you just asked me and Xiaxia still count?"

She gritted her teeth: "If it counts, I, I want a divorce!"

Huang Mu's hand shook violently.

Of course what she asked her two daughters before was not a lie. She would not use such a serious matter to tease her daughter.

But she really didn't expect it.

She thought that whenever there was a chance to talk about divorce, it would definitely be her second daughter who would argue for divorce in the first day.

The second daughter has a fierce temper. She has been a lowly child in her husband's family for so many years. Now when she hears that she can be liberated, she will definitely be kicked by the second son-in-law without saying a word.

But as I said just now, Huang Mu didn't even expect that she would be the first to stand in front of her.

I firmly said that I wanted a divorce.

She turned out to be the most tolerant, the most enduring, the one who seemed weak and the least likely to mention divorce...the eldest daughter!

"Qingqing..."

"Sister! Have you finally looked away?!" Huang Xiaxia was more excited than Huang Qingqing, the person who filed for divorce, who was talking.

She rushed forward with a lunge and grabbed her eldest sister's shoulders with a big movement of rocking back and forth.