Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

Huang Qingqing was so naive before, thinking that as long as he compared his feelings with others, he could gain understanding and cherishment.

But reality told her.

She has been unable to melt the ice in her family for so many years, but her younger sister has become able to do so. Her family suddenly has a backer, so she doesn't need to worry about melting the ice anymore, lest it freeze her, it will melt on its own.

That's why she couldn't help but smile bitterly. She was really blind before.

Not only was she blind, but she was also stunned. What kind of good reputation did she want, what kind of approval did she want from her husband's family?

When her mother's family is not up to par, no matter how much she does, as long as she does something that is not in line with others' wishes, others will ruin her reputation.

But when her mother-in-law's family becomes stronger, even if she is like now, working as a hands-off shopkeeper every day, as long as she cares about her husband's family with a few words, they will praise her to the sky.

Huang Qingqing finally looked away and finally woke up from anger under such an ironic reality.

I finally understood how stupid she had been before.

Reputation is something that should not be eaten or clothed. As for 'recognition', that is even more ridiculous.

Just like the sweeping broom at home, even if the hair is bald after sweeping the floor for a lifetime, no one will praise it or say how to live without it or cherish it.

I will only say that it is easy to use, but when it is old and no longer useful, it is not a pity to just throw it away.

Huang Qingqing has never realized so clearly that she was just a broom to her husband's family.

And now...she doesn't want to be a broom anymore.

Her voice was still gentle: "Xiaxia, you know me. My temper is not like yours, and I can't do anything like fighting face to face."

"I want to cry when I get emotional. I can't win an argument, but I have found my way."

Her way of survival.

It's very simple, just...

"I was the one who was used before, but now I have confidence. Why can't I be the one who takes advantage of others and uses others as a tool?"

I saw my mother and sister looking confused after hearing this.

Huang Qingqing knew that they didn't know what she was thinking.

Getting closer, she lowered her voice and explained: "Since my father-in-law has taken the initiative to be a guard dog for me, don't blame me for making the best use of him."

"I can't bear any grievance now. Even if you ask me to help pick up a table after dinner, I just need to stand up and shake..."

Huang Qingqing's eyes flashed with cunning, and he scratched the nose of the second sister who had her mouth wide open.

He smiled and said, "Your brother-in-law can ask me if I'm not feeling well, and my father-in-law can get angry and scold my sister-in-law for being such an adult and not having any discernment. She doesn't even know how to help clean up her job if she doesn't do any work."

Misfortune to the east.

Huang Qingqing himself felt that he was full of bad things now.

Huang Xiaxia and Huang Mu never imagined that their wooden eldest sister could actually play tricks.

Huang Xiaxia's eyes were bright with excitement: "Yes, it should be like this, otherwise you will be bullied all day long! Sister, you are really brave!"

"I said I used to persuade you to fall out and have sex with them. Why did you hesitate to say it? It's because I didn't persuade you in the right way."

Her eldest sister doesn't know how to fight, but now she can kill with a borrowed knife, which is not bad.

They all have a better future!

Huang's mother was silent for a long time and sighed. She used to only know that the eldest daughter and the second daughter had a hard time in her husband's family.

But she has a soft ear and never knows how to help her two daughters.

I don’t know how to support my daughter.

She would only complain a few words about her man, saying that he was blind to find such a husband for her daughter.

But such complaints are of no use to the daughters.

There's nothing I can do to help.

Huang's mother suddenly felt very uncomfortable.

It was her incompetence as a mother that caused her two daughters to be looked down upon by their husband's family and suffered so much bullying.

Covering her heart, for the first time in her life, she didn't want to lose face.

He asked his two daughters very solemnly: "Have you...ever thought about divorce?"

Both daughters have changed, and she thinks that as a mother, she should also change.

In the past, she cared about face and what outsiders thought of her family.

Just like her husband Huang fell in love with bragging about his two daughters marrying well.

They both have a good reputation and don't want to be looked down upon just because they don't have a son.

Because they don’t have a son, they hold back their energy and want outsiders to see that even if they only have a daughter, their daughter’s life is not bad.

Marrying well, for them, is proof that their daughter is good.

Unlike later generations, there are thousands of ways to prove that a daughter is good. Educational qualifications, work, personal abilities... there are too many evidences that can prove that a woman is excellent.

But this era is different. The couple can only find a sense of superiority that their daughter is not inferior to in marriage.

So before doing this, if Huang's mother asked her daughters if they wanted a divorce, she would be beaten to death.

It's impossible for her man to agree.

Even if he knew that his daughters were not happy, he would only advise them that this is how they all got through, and they could just get through it a little longer.

Encourage peace but not division.

But now... Huang Mu suddenly wants to break up.

She suddenly felt that nothing was as important as her daughter's life.

She had not seen the smiles she saw on her eldest daughter and second daughter's faces for a long time.

She just wanted her daughters to be so happy in the future.

If the price is divorce... then she agrees.

Huang Qingqing and Huang Xiaxia didn't expect their mother to ask such a question, and they were both stunned on the spot.

He was defenseless and his mind went blank.

I don't know how to answer it at all.

Mother Huang took the two girls' hands and said gently: "Think about it carefully, Mom is serious."

"Don't be afraid that your dad won't agree. Mom will tell him that his ideas are different now."

"Besides..." Mother Huang said helplessly, "If Chengcheng marries well, it will be the most embarrassing thing for your father."

"With Chengcheng, let him show it off... In other words, with Chengcheng at the front, he won't have such a bad temper when you are getting divorced."

Huang Mu knows the person next to her.

Knowing that this is the time when his man's 'father's love' is at its peak, he feels that his little girl is making a big deal out of him.

He is also very tolerant of his two daughters.

Huang's mother: "I'm sorry for your sister. Whenever something happens, your sister seems to be the one taking the blame. But Chengcheng is a good child. Mom believes that if she knew what kind of life you two sisters lived in the past..."

"She will advise you to separate. She can even volunteer to talk to your dad. If your dad doesn't listen to anyone now, he has to listen to her."

Don't dare to mess with this promising girl.

Mother Huang's eyes had faint smile lines: "Don't you understand your sister? She has always cared about her family the most."

Huang Xiaxia didn't expect that she would be touched by such a simple sentence.

Nose is sour.

Tears fell down again.

She covered her face and had mixed feelings, but she couldn't help but agree with her mother's words: "Yes, Chengcheng has always cared about his family the most."

So in the past...it was her sister who felt sorry for her.

Because I know that my sister cares about her family, I hope that my sister will be soft-hearted and be with Bao Taiqing for the sake of being a sister.

She felt that introducing Bao Taiqing to her sister was for her sister's benefit.

But in fact...it's just selfishness.

She just wanted to live a better life, and even did not hesitate to use her own sister as a bargaining chip. Fortunately, fortunately, Chengcheng had a good idea and did not listen to her random instructions.

otherwise……

Hugging her second daughter who was covering her face and speechless, Mother Huang could probably guess what her second daughter was planning to do now.

But the knot between the sisters has to be resolved by the sisters themselves. She can only consider the problem from the perspective of a mother——

"Let's not talk about anything else. If we don't have children yet, let's divorce if we don't want to live together. If we wait until we have children... it will involve a lot."