Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

What do you want from her?

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Things still have to start when Shen Niannian just arrived at the unit today.

Everything was going smoothly originally, whether it was resolving family disputes or problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, troublesome issues that used to take a long time to resolve.

Shen Niannian dealt with everything this morning.

Director Hao was still praising Shen Niannian during the meal, saying that if he kept working hard, Shen Niannian might become the deputy director of the Women's Federation next year.

This was just a verbal compliment. Shen Niannian was not only happy but didn't take it seriously.

There were many people who came to the Women's Federation earlier than her, and many of them did well and had backgrounds. Director Hao took care of her and felt sorry for her knowing what she had experienced in the past.

Only then did I see that she was living a good life and doing a good job, so I tried to encourage her in different ways.

But she couldn't really take these words to heart as a promise.

But she didn't take it seriously, and when these words reached other people's ears, they hurt their ears.

This is not the first time for colleagues at the Women's Federation to meet Shen Niannian's ex-mother-in-law. Logically speaking, if the old lady comes to the Women's Federation, others will know at a glance that she must be here to cause trouble.

Whenever looking at the relationship between Nian Dian and Shen Niannian, normal people will definitely argue that Shen Niannian is not in the Women's Federation and try their best to help Shen Niannian avoid troubles when facing Mother Li.

But there was someone who was so petty and unnatural. When he saw Mother Li coming, he wanted to let the old lady hold Shen Niannian back.

In front of Director Hao, she didn't even look at her. When she heard Mrs. Li's noise about wanting to find Shen Niannian, she led Mrs. Li to Shen Niannian without saying a word with a smile on her face.

This is great, the drama was sung on the spot...

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Shen Niannian: "When I first saw my ex-mother-in-law, I couldn't tell that she was crazy. I just looked at her in a daze."

"He pulled me and asked me when he would be home in the evening. He told me that he would make me my favorite scrambled eggs with chili pepper."

Shen Jinwailou: "Auntie, do you like scrambled eggs with chili?"

"It's not that I like to eat." Shen Niannian said honestly, "But she thought I liked to eat. Maybe it was because I couldn't eat good food when I was at the Li family."

"They wouldn't let me eat at the table. When they did, they would only eat leftovers. One time, I made too much scrambled eggs with chili."

"The eldest son and daughter-in-law of the Li family had something to do and didn't come back for dinner. I was so greedy that I garnished half a plate of scrambled eggs with chili."

"The old lady from the Li family saw me and scolded me for being greedy. She probably remembers it now and thinks I like eating scrambled eggs with chili peppers."

Da shu means to sweep the bottom of the plate and wrap up all the remaining dishes.

Shen Niannian was a bit speechless: "Actually, if there was meat, with my appetite at that time, I could have chewed up all the bones and swallowed them."

"It's just that the Li family's meat couldn't fit into my mouth. I finally managed to grab a plate of scrambled eggs with chili peppers, but I almost chewed the plate after eating it."

She has never eaten anything good, and she has always been preyed upon by people eating delicious food in front of her. It would be strange for her not to be hungry or greedy.

"Oh, I just didn't expect that in the eyes of my ex-mother-in-law, scrambled eggs with chili peppers would become my favorite."

Mrs. He patted Shen Niannian's arm comfortingly.

Shen Niannian smiled and shook her head, saying that it was over and she no longer cared.

If there were still troubles in her heart, she wouldn't mention the past so lightly.

"What happened next?" Luo Ruxia sat next to Shen Niannian.

Shen Niannian: "Later I said that her son and I had divorced a long time ago, and it made no sense for her to let me go home."

"I will not go back to Li's house with her again and ask her not to disturb my work."

"I spoke quite calmly at the time. In public, you still have to pay attention to your quality." This is because she has been working in the Women's Federation for a long time.

I figured it out myself.

Of course, this kind of formal expression was taught to her by Director Hao during class.

In the past, Shen Niannian didn't know what public places were, nor what quality was.

After seeing people like Song Dani too many times, she felt that being able to open her mouth and scold someone so hard that they didn't dare to talk back was powerful.

Just scenery.

When the Li family was being bullied, she wanted to imitate Song Dani countless times, thinking that if she had to save her face, she would not make trouble every day.

Maybe her husband's family wouldn't dare to bully her.

But unfortunately, she was not born with that kind of personality. After being beaten a few times by Li Guoquan, she no longer dared to be a "thorn in the side".

She could only try to be as well-behaved and obedient as possible, so that her life at her husband's house would be easier.

But it wasn't until later when I was working at the Women's Federation that I saw how people around me looked down upon the kind of shrew who would lie on the floor and roll around whenever she disagreed.

Only then did she understand that if a person has quality, the louder his voice is, the more scary he will be.

You should also pay attention to the occasion. If you make a fuss regardless of the occasion, you will only lose value in the eyes of others.

So even if her ex-mother-in-law came to her door again, Shen Niannian had no intention of quarreling with Mother Li at the Women's Federation.

So ugly.

Especially since she is a member of the Women's Federation and helps others resolve conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If someone sees her, she can't even resolve her own conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If she only quarreled with her ex-mother-in-law, who would trust her to help solve the problem in the future?

Thinking of the situation at that time, Shen Niannian looked helpless: "She kept mumbling next to me, Momo was stunned."

"Either he said that he would treat me well in the future or treat me as his daughter, or he asked me when I would get off work. I would be waiting for dinner at home."

"It's as if I have never left the Li family. You still stand on my side and scold Li Guoquan, saying that her second son is nothing."

"With her mother-in-law here in the future, I can't let Li Guoquan bully me... She talks to herself, and I just want to send her away as peacefully as possible."

Hearing what she said, Luo Ruxia knelt down and thought, "It's impossible to send her away 'peacefully', right?"

Naive.

Shen Niannian nodded dejectedly. If he could be sent away 'peacefully', she wouldn't be forced into this situation.

He ran to the door without even saying hello.

They were all cornered.

Old Mrs. He: "What happened next? She saw that you were not good enough and refused to go back to Li's house with her, so she fell out?"

Shen Niannian: "It's not because of my irritable face, but because Director Hao is worried and comes over to check on the situation."

"She turned upside down after seeing Director Hao."

Maybe he wanted to fundamentally solve the problem of his daughter-in-law not coming home.

Seeing the leader of my daughter-in-law coming over, I immediately turned to beg the leader.

"Director Hao just came over, and before he could ask what was going on, my ex-mother-in-law... went crazy."

"I suddenly went crazy. I grabbed Director Hao's hand and started crying."

Thinking of that scene, Mother Li's voice directly attracted a room full of people. Shen Niannian still feels embarrassed until now.

But what's even more embarrassing is yet to come...

Shen Niannian: "I told her to stop crying. She kept shaking her head when she had something to say."

"She said that all her daughters-in-law are not good to her, but I am the only one who is good to her. And then I don't want her anymore and I won't go home."

"Director Hao also found it baffling. When she broke off the relationship with me on behalf of her son, she was still in the Women's Federation. Director Hao knew all about my relationship with her and the Li family."

"How come my ex-mother-in-law told me that I didn't want to go back to my in-laws' house because I disliked her mother-in-law for treating me badly."

Who wouldn’t hold their breath after hearing this?

We agreed to sever ties and never have any contact with each other until now, but now we unilaterally regretted it and got involved.

Shen Niannian: "Director Hao was also angry at that time. He said that marriage is not a child's play, and divorce is divorce. It comes out without thinking, and sometimes you don't want a daughter-in-law, and then you want a daughter-in-law."

"Director Hao wanted to reason with her, but she was faced with a crazy person who couldn't listen to anything, so she just wanted Director Hao to make the decision for her and return her daughter-in-law...that is, me."

"I know now that she was pretending to be crazy, but when she was at the Women's Federation, she really acted like a lunatic."