Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

"Sister, your thoughts are a bit too extreme."

Luo Hehua didn't know how to persuade her elder sister.

When the words came to her lips, she asked herself and felt that what her eldest sister said made sense.

Qin Hao is her nephew. She has known him since she was a child. To be honest, she is not willing to marry into a family like the Pang family, which looks down upon others.

Her good eldest nephew went to the Pang family and was yelled at by the Pang family. Her old lady felt bad just hearing about it.

So her eldest sister would change her mind and choose a daughter who was more suitable for Haozi, and she understood.

but……

Luo Hehua thought for a long time, she finally understood, but she couldn't get over the hurdle in her heart...

"Sister, I think the matter of choosing a wife for Hao Zi cannot just depend on whether the girl you like agrees or not. We are not such a treacherous family, so we don't want to do things like this."

How can you just ignore someone and see if they are interested in Hao Zi?

According to her eldest sister, this girl is not interested in Haozi, so let's forget about it.

If this girl was interested, she would actually bring the two of them together, regardless of whether Haozi was done with Xiaoxue or not.

How can an elder do things like this?

"If you really don't think highly of Haozi and Xiaoxue, at least let's try our best one last time and try again."

"Whether the outcome is good or bad, it still fulfills Haozi's wish. Anyway, I still say that Xiaoxue is a good girl. Her moral character is different from that of her family members. We cannot bully other people's good girls."

"If the hard work is over and the Pang family's conditions are met, the Pang family will no longer embarrass Hao Zi, and the result is good, then everyone will be happy, and the children will eventually get married."

"If we try our best and find out that the Pang family still doesn't like Haozi and is trying to embarrass Haozi, then Haozi is sensible and knows in his heart that he won't be able to embarrass him again just because he wants to marry the Pang family."

"Then it will depend on the results of our efforts before we take the next step. Sister, do you understand what I am saying?"

Luo Hehua was worried about her nephew.

"If the result is good and Haozi and Xiaoxue finally get together, then you can accept the girl you like as your goddaughter. This is called double happiness."

"If the result is unsatisfactory and Haozi and Xiaoxue are not destined to be together in the end, then you try to bring the girl you like into your home. At that time, no one can say anything to get her to be your daughter-in-law... We should be Such a sequence."

You can't match up the new guy first and then let Haozi get kicked by Pang Xue, then he's still a human being?

The order was sorted out, and Luo Hehua breathed a sigh of relief after finishing speaking.

It's a good thing that she's not an old fool and hasn't been thrown into a ditch by her eldest sister, otherwise she would have almost had an affair with her eldest sister.

She had heard of mother-in-laws in the old society inserting people in between their sons and daughters-in-law. What kind of era was it now? How could they do such a thing.

Qin's mother lowered her head, also thinking about what her sister said.

He grabbed the patch on his sleeve and saw that the patch was about to be torn apart.

Luo Hehua is impatient: "Sister, what do you think? Just tell me what I said, right?"

"You are right..." Mother Qin frowned, "But what I am most afraid of is that if the Pang family relaxes after our efforts, but the queen still looks down on my son as an uncle, what will happen?"

Luo Hehua snorted: "Sister, aren't you coming back again? It's not good if you keep worrying about this."

"No one can guarantee how the Pang family will treat Haozi in the future, whether it will be good or bad, so we have to see."

"There are good ways to deal with good things, and there are bad solutions to bad things, but you can't just think about the impossibility of a good outcome and then push Haozi to choose another path that you think is smoother and easier to take without doing anything, right?"

Luo Hehua drew two lines on the Kang table with water, one crooked and the other straight forward.

She knocked on the table and said to Qin's mother: "Sister, let me give you an analogy. Just treat these two lines as two roads."

She pointed to the rugged and winding road——

"Haozi just wants to take this road. Even if it's a difficult road, he just wants to walk and see what's ahead of him. You have to let him go and have a look before he can feel at ease."

Luo Hehua drew a flower at the end of this line: "Is it possible that he had a rough journey but finally saw the beautiful scenery?"

Qin's mother stretched out her hand and scratched the little flower painted with water: "What if he finally sees a mess in the rough journey and his life becomes a mess too?"

Luo Hehua: "..."

Taking a deep breath, she emphasized: "No matter what the end is, it is Haozi's choice. He is happy to leave."

Luo Hehua pointed to another straight waterline, representing a smooth road——

"Otherwise, you force him to take this road. Do you think this road is easier to walk and there are no twists and turns? Haozi will be filial and leave at your command."

"You think everyone is happy with this?"

"No! Even if this road is really a good road, sister, just believe me. No matter how comfortable Haozi lives on this road, he will always miss the road he missed and regret that he has not walked on it. Broken road.”

"He is your son. You wish him well, but you also have to let him go and try on his own. Could it be that if he fell on that small broken road, you wouldn't be able to comfort him? Wouldn't he be able to look back?"

"There's no need to make things so fatal. We can take it one step at a time. We can't just push Hao Zi to another path without conscience just because we're afraid of getting him hurt."

I have to say that Luo Hehua really convinced Qin's mother this time.

No matter what happened, Qin's mother still hoped that her son would be happy and get what he wanted.

Her son has suffered so much. He has been without a father since he was a child. While other children are still relying on his back, her son has to use his thin and small back to carry the firewood that the family needs every day.

Other boys would go crazy in the village when they were young, but her son never played like crazy for a day.

Qin's mother wiped her eyes with the back of her hand: "Haozi is sensible. He has been sensible since he was a child. If other people's children have fun, he says he doesn't care about it and doesn't want to play with it. But I am his mother. How can I not see his eyes? There’s so much greed inside.”

"He just knows that his family is poor, so he is reluctant to say that. He is afraid that I will exchange things with others. He has been sensible since he was a child. Hehua, you are right. I have to let Haozi do what he wants."

She couldn't let her son say he didn't want to play with the things he liked when he was young, and when he grew up, she forced her son to suppress his feelings and not dare to fight for the girl he liked.

She thought it was for her son's good, but in fact... she was just forcing her son.

Qin's mother was disappointed: "I can't let Haozi worry about 'that road' and hide the regret in his heart for the rest of his life."

Luo Hehua was relieved: "Sister, it's best if you can figure it out! Don't do anything stupid."

"I figured it out." Qin's mother closed her eyes, "Hehua, if this is the case, then the eldest sister will still have to trouble you. Instead, you take me and Haozi with you. Let's carry some things to the Shen family. When we ask for help, we need someone. manner."

"It's been taking so long. Don't let the Shen family think too much. They thought we were running away. We said we were going to trouble them but they were still waiting. We have nothing to go on here."

"That's right!" Seeing that her eldest sister had finally returned to the right path, Luo Hehua smiled so much that her eyes narrowed.

"Let's go at a time. If you have any questions, tell them clearly. Don't worry, the Shen family is not a picky family. Sister, you have also thought about it. Should you ask the Shen family to follow Haozi to the Pang family or something? .”

"When a charter comes out, how about we tell the Shen family that we don't agree?"

It seemed that the fog in her mind was finally lifted, and Qin's mother felt relieved: "Yes, wait until I get back to discuss it with Haozi."

"I guess I have to ask someone to go to Pang's house with Haozi. Otherwise, like last time, Haozi goes by himself or we, poor relatives from the countryside, go with him. I'm afraid that someone behind the door of Pang's house will give us away. Looked down upon."