Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

"how come!"

Xu Zhengbang replied subconsciously. He was marrying someone, not buying someone. How could he prevent his wife from returning to her parents' home?

But after he blurted out this sentence and thought about it again, he suddenly understood what this little girl from his in-laws meant.

This is because he is afraid that he will "overcorrect".

Because I knew why he and his ex-wife divorced and where his heart was, I was afraid that after he married Huang Qingqing, he would be bitten by a snake for ten years and would not let Huang Qingqing return to her parents' home.

She is a thoughtful little girl.

Xu Zhengbang said funnyly: "I will not restrict the freedom of purity. That is against the law."

"No." Shen Jin explained seriously, "There is no need to restrict freedom."

"Every time Sister Qingqing returns to her parents' home, Brother Xu shows his unhappiness and lets Sister Qingqing see it."

"Every time Sister Qingqing talks about her mother's family, Brother Xu doesn't care or even gets impatient. He doubts whether Sister Qingqing will be like Brother Xu's ex-wife who always puts her mother's family first."

"As long as this is the case, even if I don't tell Sister Qingqing to cut off contact with her natal family after getting married, Sister Qingqing will definitely be considerate and not want to cause trouble for her husband, and then reduce the number of times she returns to her natal family."

"If things continue like this, Sister Qingqing will be very sad, and Uncle Huang and Aunt Huang will also be very sad."

Shen Jin said, smiling sheepishly: "I may have said a bit too much. If I say something that Brother Xu doesn't like to hear, Brother Xu, don't argue with me."

The system simply offered Shen Jin a cup of green tea in the sea of ​​consciousness.

Thumbs up for the host’s tea talk.

The Huang family's reaction was different from the system. Huang's mother looked at Shen Jin with eyes full of admiration.

Sure enough, it was worth her effort to invite this great god, the little girl from her in-laws, to come over through her youngest daughter.

It can come in handy at critical times!

The key issue was immediately grasped!

There were so many of them, but before Shen Jin raised this question, no one thought that such a situation would happen after her eldest daughter married Xu Zhengbang.

Xu Zhengbang's disgust and resistance to his ex-wife can even be said to be a shadow.

After remarriage, it is entirely possible that the remarried wife will get closer to her natal family!

These are all things that cannot be prepared for.

If they don't single out this matter today and figure it out and figure out what to do after it happens, wouldn't it be too late?

By then, they were all married, and Xu Zhengbang had no other major faults. Could it be that because the son-in-law didn't like his daughter being close to her parents' family, they encouraged Qingqing to divorce again?

This is obviously impossible.

Huang's mother secretly thought that it was dangerous, and she had no experience. After hearing about Xu Zhengbang and his ex-wife, she just thought about whether Xu Zhengbang had done anything wrong in his previous marriage and whether there was any problem with his character.

I simply forgot to bring the situation into perspective, and forgot to think about whether Xu Zhengbang would be resistant to interacting with his new wife's family in his next marriage because of such a lesson learned from the past.

To be honest, even Xu Zhengbang himself has not considered this angle.

The red on Huang Qingqing's face gradually faded, and she was also observing Xu Zhengbang's reaction at this moment.

Seeing that Xu Zhengbang didn't speak again for a long time, Huang Qingqing's eyes flashed with disappointment.

If she was asked to cut off contact with her parents' family after getting married, then she felt that it was necessary to reconsider her relationship with Xu Zhengbang.

Huang's father's gentle expression turned gloomy instantly: "Xiao Xu, you know that I only have three daughters. If Qingqing marries you, she will have to ask for your permission even if she returns to her parents' home. What will happen to you two?" I disagree."

"Just think I'm selfish. I, Huang Shu, only have three daughters in my life. I've already been scolded as an old loser. Are you not even going to let the old loser go?"

in the kitchen.

Originally, it was because I heard Xu Zhengbang say that Huang Qingqing was not incapable of suffering.

She was willing to endure hardship because she valued her ex-husband, and she later divorced because she was disappointed with her ex-husband... Wang Qingguang, who had been deep in thought after hearing these words, just came back to his senses and heard what Huang's father said -

Even the old and homeless are not spared.

Inexplicably, his knee hurt.

My knees hurt, and my heart ached for no reason.

Feeling guilty, she hid in the kitchen, not daring to show her face.

Father Huang's words are too serious.

Xu Zhengbang quickly stood up and explained: "No, uncle, please listen to my explanation. I was just thinking about this issue. The little girl is right. I have never thought about this before."

He didn't know what to call Shen Jin. Shen Jin could call him big brother, but if he took advantage of the situation and called him little sister... it would be too inappropriate.

Shen Jin can only be called a little girl.

Huang's father said with a fierce face: "Then you have to think carefully now and don't wait until you are married to give me such a problem again."

"My daughter is marrying you, not giving it to you. You'd better remember this sentence."

Xu Zhengbang smiled bitterly: "Uncle, I'm actually a little hesitant about this question."

"Why are you hesitating?" Father Huang didn't expect that Xu Zhengbang, a man who spoke so straightforwardly, would hesitate like this on such an issue.

He slapped the coffee table: "Okay, don't hesitate. The fact that you hesitate is quite scary. Take the things back, I don't want your gift, and don't have any contact with my Qingqing family in the future."

Huang Qingqing bit her lip. She wanted to say something to calm down, but she thought that Xu Zhengbang would hesitate like this...disappointed and heartbroken, as if something was stuck in her throat.

She was so wronged that she couldn't say a word.

Xu Zhengbang was a little anxious: "Uncle, that's not what I meant. It didn't mean that I was really considering whether to let Qingqing go back to her parents' home after they get married."

"But...I think I can't be so sure about this kind of thing. I will give you and aunt a very positive answer, saying that I will agree with her frequent contact with her parents' family or I will not agree with it. In the future, the two families can not If there is no communication, there will be no communication.”

Father Huang was impatient: "What do you mean? Stop beating around the bush with me."

Shen Jin narrowed his eyes: "Brother Xu means... you can't say for sure about this?"

This can be interesting.

She further asked: "I'm not sure what it depends on? Does it depend on your inability to control your mood and suppress your resistance, or does it depend on your remarried wife and the in-laws behind your wife?"

Xu Zhengbang was stunned.

It's too sharp.

When he went on a blind date with Huang Qingqing, he knew about the existence of the Shen family as the in-laws of the Huang family.

The situation of the Shen family is not a secret in their county.

Although he was born with a mud-legged background, he had a backer that no one could offend. In order to establish a relationship with the backer behind the Shen family, many people tried their best to get acquainted with the Shen family, openly praising the Shen family.

Secretly, they say that the Shen family is very thoughtful, otherwise they would not be able to compete with the He family and the Song family.

Including the blind date with Huang Qingqing, many people in his work unit secretly said that he just wanted to be the brother-in-law of the Shen family.

He is said to be ruthless, selfish and a villain, and the best thing he can do is follow the crowd.

Of course, this was his private matter. He just wanted to say that before this, he had heard that the Shen family was powerful only through hearsay, and he never thought that the Shen family was really so powerful.

Even a teenage girl can see things so cunningly and keenly.

Bearing all the gazes from the Huang family, and even being questioned, Xu Zhengbang simply opened the skylight and spoke frankly.

He straightforwardly agreed with Shen Jin's last guess.

"I feel that the quality of my relationship with my wife and my in-laws after marriage does not depend on me, but on the attitude of my remarried wife and my new in-laws towards me."

"As for the problems that will arise after marriage, it's not that I can't give you accurate information. It's easy to make a promise and talk about it. But what I hesitate is that once I say yes and the promise is over, everyone will be happy."

"But when we start to live a serious life, my second wife follows the old path of my ex-wife. Then I will definitely not have a good look towards the in-laws, nor will I approve of my wife's frequent interactions with the in-laws."

"At that time, will my remarried wife and my in-laws want to suppress me by taking out my guarantee today?"

He knew that what he said was unpleasant, but Xu Zhengbang said it anyway.

He is a person who keeps his word. He doesn't want to make a promise to the Huang family today and wait for the Huang family to become like his last in-law's family in the future. He still has to endure the disgust in his heart based on today's promise.