Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

There is no option to avoid talking.

Xu Zhengbang and Huang Qingqing looked at each other, then looked directly at Huang's mother who had been looking at him.

His eyes didn't dodge at all: "Auntie, let me tell you the truth. I'm not afraid that you will have any objections to me after hearing this. I don't want to fool you."

"Actually, I was hesitant when the matchmaker introduced Qingqing to me at the beginning. It wasn't because I was hesitant that she was getting married for the second time. I was afraid that she was a confused person."

"Qingqing's former husband's family told me what kind of matchmaker they were when they introduced Qingqing to me. I know the purpose. They wanted me to understand that the issue of Qingqing's divorce was not Qingqing's."

"But my first reaction after hearing the whole story was to wonder if Qingqing had no idea."

After hearing what he said, even Huang's father, who had been pretending to read the newspaper, stopped reading.

Then she turned to stare at him with a serious face.

Xu Zhengbang patted Huang Qingqing's arm comfortingly: "I feel cold when I hear about a family like the Wang family. It's hard for me to imagine that a woman like Qingqing would endure hardships and dedicate herself to such a family for so many years."

"I wonder if this means she has no self, no temper, is weak, and...doesn't love herself."

As soon as he finished speaking, Huang Qingqing's eye circles turned red.

Huang's father wanted to interrupt Xu Zhengbang's words and leave, but was stopped by his eldest daughter's cryptic shaking of her head.

Xu Zhengbang was a little embarrassed: "These are all my thoughts before I met Qingqing. I actually have a good idea, otherwise I wouldn't get divorced."

"Uncle and aunt, I don't know if the matchmaker has told you two about my situation. I am divorced. I am neither widowed nor single. The reason why I divorced my last marriage was because my ex-wife was a very selfless person. Someone who has no ideas.”

He smiled bitterly: "I know I'm talking about my ex-wife in front of you now, and my character seems to be very worrying, but since I want to go on with Qingqing for a long time, I think I have to get everything out of the way first. It’s better to make it clear.”

"Otherwise, if you take my feelings into consideration, I will also take into account Qingqing's attitude towards the previous marriage. Qingqing and I are already married for the second time. If we continue to hide from each other and test each other... we won't be able to go far. "

Shen Jin nodded slightly, Xu Zhengbang's words were true.

Both of them were originally married for the second time, which was a hurdle for both parties.

If you don't talk about it, people will be suspicious, and now Wang Qingguang seems to have grown up in the Huang family.

If Wang Qingguang comes in and out of Huang's house, Xu Zhengbang will sooner or later wonder if Huang Qingqing is still in love with her ex-husband and is entangled.

Huang Qingqing would also keep thinking about why Xu Zhengbang's last marriage ended in divorce since he looked so good.

They will question whether Xu Zhengbang has any problems or is hiding something, and whether he was as kind or even better to his ex-wife before if he is nice to her now.

Will he still be thinking about his ex-wife? How will Xu Zhengbang deal with it once his ex-wife wants to get back together?

The better Xu Zhengbang behaves, the more insecure Huang Qingqing will become.

As time goes by, as Xu Zhengbang said, two people can no longer get closer, and if there is a gap in their hearts, they will only go further and further away.

Seeing that Huang Mu had thought through his words, she signaled that he could continue.

Xu Zhengbang's hand on his knee clenched slightly: "My ex-wife and I got together under the introduction of our elders in the family."

"I wouldn't say that my ex-wife and I have lived together for so many years without feelings. I can only say that the feelings were gradually worn out after we got along until I decided to divorce."

Father Huang's eyes were scrutinizing.

There was no hint of guilt on Xu Zhengbang's face.

It can be seen that he is indeed saying something.

Huang's mother asked with concern: "Why? Xiao Xu, I don't think you look like a person who always gives up."

"I didn't give up after all." Xu Zhengbang was not excited. "It's not because I've been with my ex-wife for a long time that I got bored and didn't want to continue living together."

"As I said just now, my ex-wife is a very unopinionated person, commonly known as soft-eared. Our two parents have known each other for a long time, so we know everything about it, so her family asked her to marry me, and she had no objection."

no disagreement?

Shen Jin lowered his eyes, these four words were quite subtle.

If you have no objection, that means you don't have any intention. You can marry or not, and if your family asks you to marry, then marry. Anyway, your family will not harm you.

If the family doesn't allow her to marry Xu Zhengbang, then just listen and there won't be any objections or fights.

This is quite scary. She didn't get married because she liked her, or because of her own wishes, but because her family asked her to marry Xu Zhengbang.

Just from the words 'no objection', Shen Jin could understand why Xu Zhengbang said that in the first place and why he was afraid that Huang Qingqing had no self-esteem.

Because of Huang Qingqing's compromise in his previous marriage, Xu Zhengbang had every reason to suspect that Huang Qingqing was the same person as his ex-wife.

If you don't have any opinion, your family will ask you to marry, even if it is a den of tigers and wolves, you can still marry into it without temper.

It is also easy to understand why Xu Zhengbang resisted this.

The daughter-in-law has no opinion at all and completely listens to the family members. If that were the case, did Xu Zhengbang marry a daughter-in-law or the whole family?

Is it two people living together, or is it Xu Zhengbang living with his wife and family, trying to satisfy everyone and being criticized by everyone?

And the reality is indeed quite different from what Shen Jin imagined.

Since Xu Zhengbang said it, he definitely didn't mean to hide it half-said and not reveal it.

He sighed: "I discovered that my ex-wife has no ideas when I got married. At that time, I thought this was an advantage. I am a person with ideas. If she doesn't have any ideas, at least she won't have any differences with me in life. "

Ironically, his ex-wife's unintended intentions were directed at his ex-in-law's family.

He only had no idea in front of his ex-in-law's family, but in front of him... he had all kinds of ideas.

It can't be said that it was his ex-wife's idea. It should be said that his ex-in-law's family gave his ex-wife a series of ideas.

Xu Zhengbang: "I thought pretty well at first, but when I started living my life, I realized that my thinking was still too shallow."

"I only saw that my ex-wife had no ideas, but who usually gives her ideas when she has no ideas?"

At this point, Mother Huang suddenly understood and took a breath: "You mean that your ex-wife still listens to her natal family after marrying you?"

Xu Zhengbang nodded. He felt a little embarrassed when he was exposed to this level: "Everything big or small depends on her mother's family. I didn't know it at first, but as time went by, I realized something was wrong."

"For example, today I was discussing something with her, about whether to lend money to a friend of mine. She would tell me that she had to think about it, and then she would go back to her parents' house tomorrow and she could 'think' about it."

This was not what his ex-wife wanted, she had clearly told her parents' family, and it was her ex-wife's parents' family who made the decision.

Xu Zhengbang: "This is just a small matter, I don't care, but then something happened in her family, and her brother and sister-in-law had to be sent down, so she asked me for help..."

The Huang family felt ridiculous when they heard this.

Father Huang: "How can you help?"

That’s the truth!

Because his ex-wife and his ex-in-law's family moved around frequently, it was difficult for him to protect himself at that time, and he had no spare energy or ability to protect his ex-in-law's family.

Xu Zhengbang: "I didn't agree, and then she went back to her parents' home."

The Huang family looked at each other, not to mention that Xu Zhengbang was afraid of his ex-wife returning to her parents' home. When they heard this, they suddenly heard that she was returning to her parents' home again, and their hearts trembled.

Are you going back to ask for advice again?

No one opened their mouths to ask this question, and Xu Zhengbang didn't need to be asked. He just said, "She went home to ask for advice."

"Please think of how to manipulate me so that I can help her family. I'm not even sure if she asked me to help protect her family. It was her family that sent her the news, so she forced me like this."

"Then they discussed it all night. The next day my ex-wife came back and told me straight to the point that she was pregnant. If I didn't help her parents, she would abort the child."

Xu Zhengbang still feels guilty when he thinks about this: "They are using my children to blackmail me, and my ex-wife... is just a tool."

"The tool they used to blackmail me, a tool that carries a 'weight'."