Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

Listening to Chen Hongying relay what the Xu family said, Shen Jin had to admit that although it was to brainwash her sister-in-law, she had to say that what the Xu family said was indeed reasonable.

She really puts herself in her sister-in-law's shoes and thinks about her sister-in-law from the bottom of her heart.

Shen Yousheng hissed: "Sister-in-law, don't say you're shaken by the accusations. If I were to go here today and receive such a 'combination punch'... I would be confused!"

He might not even have the determination of his sister-in-law.

At least his sister-in-law knew how to hold on to the table and refuse to leave when Sister-in-law Xu Zhi and Mother Xu forced her to take her to the factory to transfer her job.

If it were him, he would be stunned.

Chen Hongying smiled bitterly: "Don't pick nice things to say about me. I'm back in a daze now."

"I've also thought about it. Since I've accepted all the jobs, why should I act pretentious and act like I'm unwilling."

"Actually, to be honest, I am not willing to do it. It is because I had a problem in my heart before. I felt that... there is a word... yes, no reward for no merit!"

"But when the Xu family said this, I thought about it and looked away. This job is a thank-you gift from the Xu family to our family. Now it falls on me. I just think that Youpeng and I are shamelessly taking advantage of it. In order to save money at home, I really need a job that can transfer food concerns to the city."

"I plan to borrow money from my family first and give it to the Xu family, just like buying this job. Even if the Xu family doesn't want it, I have to give it to them. They gave us their good jobs, so I feel bad for nothing."

"Then I agreed with Youpeng that all my monthly salary will be handed over to my family. From now on, I will cover all the expenses such as buying groceries at home."

After hearing this, Mrs. Cai finally couldn't sit still and came out of the house.

He slapped Chen Hongying on the head angrily.

"What did it cost you?"

Chen Hongying: "Nai, I've taken advantage of my family so much, I can't just show nothing. I have to pay it back."

The old lady was helpless: "What else can you do? Don't talk to two different families. Just like the Xu family said, our family really needs this job the most for you."

"Chengcheng's family has also arranged work for her. Moreover, with Chengcheng's character, even if she doesn't have a job, she can't mind if the job falls on you."

The words say so.

But Chen Hongying felt that just because her family was nice and there were no conflicts between mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, sisters-in-law, and aunts-in-law like other families, she couldn't really care about anything.

Her father has taught her since she was a child that you must know your duty as a human being, and you should respect others as much as you respect me.

She couldn't let others give her one foot after another, and then she, a sister-in-law, would shamelessly push further.

"Nai, I'm the sister-in-law, and I have to take the lead. If I took advantage of the family today and didn't show any sign of it, it seems like it should be done."

"After that, as time went by, there were more things like this, conflicts accumulated over time, and the family broke up."

Chen Hongying has seen too many such situations in her village. Most families in her village rely heavily on their eldest son, so the status of the eldest daughter-in-law is naturally different from that of other daughters-in-law.

Therefore, many elderly people subconsciously prefer the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law. They usually side with the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law when it comes to trivial matters at home.

What I often say is that I will live with my eldest son when I get old, so I should be more focused now.

This is the reason.

They can understand and tolerate it once or twice, but as time goes by and the number of times increases, they are treated as sons and daughters-in-law. Who can have a balance in their heart?

Because there are many families in this village who fight like black-eyed chickens.

So before Chen Hongying married into the Shen family, she had thought about this matter. After all, she was marrying the eldest son, and she came to be the sister-in-law.

Didn't you realize that the girl from her neighbor's house was jealous of her at first, and even deliberately used the saying "it's hard to be a sister-in-law" to scare her.

Although the Shen family is not like other families in their village, they really prefer the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law.

But in order to avoid others thinking that the Shen parents were partial, Chen Hongying felt that she still had to make a statement.

She sat up straight and told the old lady in a formal manner: "Hey, my family is good to me, so I have to act like a sister-in-law. Our family is so harmonious, and I don't want to upset my family because of my greed." There was murmuring or estrangement.”

"What's more, if others find out that I took such a big advantage without saying anything, others should say that you and dad are partial to me and Youpeng."

"I don't want them to talk nonsense. You are the most fair elders."

Mrs. Cai was surprised to see her eldest daughter-in-law, who seemed to have grown up so much after getting married.

The eyes are a little complicated.

She finally understood what the complexity in her son's eyes meant when her grandson got married.

My baby...has grown up.

"Okay." The old lady didn't stop Chen Hongying this time, "Then do what you want, I don't care, you are more considerate than Nai."

Chen Hongying was a little embarrassed by the praise.

"I actually know that you are doing this for the sake of me and Youpeng, but this time we as elder brothers and sisters must set an example for our younger brothers and sisters."

"Just because we are a family, we can't 'bully' our family members to talk easily."

"We will also hand over Youpeng's salary when the time comes. Listen to me first. I mean, don't I have to borrow money from my family to buy this job?"

"When I go to work, my salary will definitely not be enough to repay, and I don't plan to use my salary to repay. My salary will be used for our daily expenses at home."

"The money borrowed by Guan's family to buy a job will be repaid with Youpeng's salary. When it is repaid, he will not have to hand over the salary again. After all, this is to buy me a job and earn food for our children in the future. He will also Do you have to show that you don’t?”

In Chen Hongying's opinion, this is what the couple should give.

Brothers are still clear.

The two of them are such a big family, and they will both have jobs in the future. Would it be ridiculous if they hide their money and care for their old age?

Mrs. Cai didn't expect her grandson's daughter-in-law to think so comprehensively.

She hesitated: "It's okay with Youpeng. After he pays back the money he borrowed to buy a job, he doesn't have to hand over his salary anymore. I agree with this."

"But Hongying, you have to have a deadline, right? We can't keep using your salary as household expenses for everyone to share. That's not the end yet."

"You said you don't take advantage of my family, so my family can't take advantage of you like this."

Chen Hongying shook her head resolutely: "Mom, this is an iron rice bowl for a lifetime. Is it true that the expenses I pay for my family for one or two years are enough to support the iron rice bowl for a lifetime?"

"I have thought about it all, and I have been handing over my salary. Anyway, what I care about is food. In the future, the children can get the food supply, so that the pressure will not be all on Youpeng. Let Youpeng earn rations for the family alone to feed the children. enough."

"I don't care about anything else. I will use my salary as a public expense for the family. Otherwise, I will feel very sorry to have a job for nothing."

Seeing her stubbornness, Mrs. Cai thought for a while and stopped trying to persuade her. She just made her own decision and set a deadline.

"In this case, Hongying, you have to listen to me. You can pay your salary, but it's definitely not possible to keep paying it like this. You have to have a boss, so... let's leave it to your family to separate the family."

After all, it is impossible for this big family to live together for the rest of their lives as their children grow up and start families.

According to Mrs. Cai's estimation, it will only be a few years before the family is separated.

In this way, Youpeng's daughter-in-law will not have to pay her salary to the government all the time. In recent years, paying her salary to the government can be regarded as an explanation to the family.

No one can say anything if they know.

……

And the fact is just as Mrs. Cai thought.

After Huang Chengcheng returned to her parents' home, she told her family about the matter in a casual chat.

Huang Xiaxia, the second sister who is the most calculating among the Huang family, was a little bit murmuring when she first heard about it. She wanted to say that the Shen family was good to their eldest grandson, so that such a good job was taken by the eldest grandson's daughter-in-law without saying a word.

But after listening to it, all the murmurings disappeared.

Even a picky person like her had to admit that the Shen family was indeed a fair family.