Does the villain stepmother have a headache again today!

It was also the first time that Fu Aoquan looked at a person so carefully and carefully.

Moreover, I still subconsciously think and observe the other person in the way this person taught me...

Correct!

Although Fu Aoquan was unwilling to admit it in her heart, she did learn a lot from her mother during her journey north.

Although most of the time she would be so angry at her mother that she would grit her teeth intentionally or unintentionally, but she had to say that it seemed that the other person slowly occupied a very important position in her heart.

The remaining two months of this month are very long, long enough to make her speak, do things, and think in a subtle way towards the other person.

The remaining two months of this month are also very short. It seems that she has not yet tried out how to control the other party, but she is gradually being controlled by the other party. In fact, her position in her heart has gradually surpassed that of the elders next to the mansion earlier...

Only the person you respect and admire in your heart will work hard to imitate her.

Even secretly...

For example, at the moment, she wiped the corners of her eyes as well, but she would also subconsciously observe in the way her mother taught her.

For example, my mother once said that to see whether a person has a good fortune and his future prospects, we should not only look at his daily conversation, but also the different moods he displays at his troughs and peaks.

People's luck can be good or bad.

Even if you are a child of luck, there will always be times when things go downhill; similarly, people who are unlucky enough to drink water will also have times when they are shitty lucky.

Therefore, to see how high this person can reach in the future, we must not only look at his daily life, but also look at this person's response and reaction in these two extreme situations.

Because, the more extreme the situation, the more real a person's reaction is and the less easy it is to fake it.Just like, many of the nouveau riche who lack the accumulation of foundation will get carried away after soaring into the sky; the proud ones who have had everything going smoothly since birth will feel sorry for themselves and be unable to recover after falling into the dust.

But those who really have a city and a structure will be more vigilant as they go uphill, or even at the peak, keep a clear head, and be restrained and self-disciplined; and when underestimated, they will know how to go with the flow, avoid its sharp edges, and keep a low profile. .

Be such a person.

But it is even more important to be able to identify such people.

This was one of the most impressive lessons for her on the way to Beijing.

Although she didn’t know why her mother gave her more time to cook alone than her younger siblings, and even more than Chang Ge, she knew that her mother must have her own reasons for doing this, and her mother would definitely not do it without doing anything. Meaningful things.

Therefore, mother is the one who has wealth and patience...

In the eyes of others, the marriage between the Antang Ruan family and the Nanping Marquis Mansion was a good marriage.

The family is a perfect match, the man is talented and the girl is good-looking. To say that they are right, the mother and father are also right.

But then one after another changes occurred in the Hou Mansion. Not to mention the mother, a daughter of a wealthy family who had just left the palace, even a mistress who had been in charge of the house for many years might not be able to support the Hou Mansion at this time.

The Antang Ruan family is a century-old family in Xiqi, but it has its own way of survival.

Different from the Nanping Marquis Mansion, the Antang Ruan family will only have a son who enters the official career in one generation. The next generation will do charity, raise flowers and grass in Antang, so the Antang Ruan family will not make any achievements in the court. He rarely shows off his prowess in court.

The mother is the legitimate daughter of the Antang Ruan family. Such a family can teach their daughter to be silly and sweet; but they can also teach her daughter to be another person.

Just like the mother in front of me...

At least, what others saw was Ruan Tao who insisted on marrying his father, but what she saw was the mother who provoked the Hou Mansion alone after the successive incidents in the Hou Mansion.

Don't listen to what a person says about what he has done. What he says may often be what he lacks the most, so listen to what he says.

You have to see what she does.

To tell a lie, it takes ten lies to cover it up; to do one thing, ten things may not be enough to make up for it.

So, listen more, talk less, and watch your actions.

It was applied to my mother. My mother shouted loudly every day for "chicken babies", but in fact, what she did was to handle the funeral of the Hou Mansion in an orderly manner. She burned the treasury and the Hou Mansion with a fire, and then took the Hou Mansion up and down the country. Go to Beijing to avoid disaster.

The deeper she was at the bottom, the more she kept a low profile and bided her time.

At any time, there is no direct conflict with the Wen family and the people behind the scenes...

What her mother taught her and what her mother did herself were exactly the same, her words and deeds were consistent.

People like my mother are deep and patient people...

Such people should not be underestimated. Even if they are stuck in the quagmire today, they will definitely not be in the pool in the future.

Therefore, if you can make friends with such people, it is suitable to be friends; if you cannot be friends, you must not be enemies.

Fu Aoquan blinked slightly.

It's just that such a person, no matter how "indestructible" and "arrogant" he is on weekdays, he still looks like a child in front of his mother...

His eyes were so red, it was no different than crying.

People are most difficult to conceal in extreme situations.

She felt that even if her father died in the battle, even if the Hou's mansion was set on fire, her mother would be calm and composed. On the contrary, it was when she saw Ruan's mother that her mother's emotions became a little out of control...

And, real, unvarnished.

——If you want to understand a person, listen to the way and words he mentions his family. From this, you can detect whether there is harmony in the other person's family and whether there are any special taboos.

This is what her mother taught her.

But she had never heard her mother take the initiative to mention things at home.

Occasionally, He Ma would mention it, and her mother would either continue drinking tea as if nothing had happened, or she would be a little confused.Therefore, she had even judged in her heart earlier that her mother did not understand her own parents, let alone be familiar with them.

On the way to Beijing, she did hear He Ma talk to several children in the house about how her mother grew up in Antang Ruan's family, not in Beijing.Ruan's father and Ruan's mother went to work in Beijing very early, so the mother was raised by the wife of the Ruan family.

Therefore, mothers should indeed be unfamiliar with their parents.

Her earlier judgment must have been correct.

But what she found strange was that when her mother took the initiative to talk about her parents once or twice, her eyes would pause for a moment, and then the regret that she wanted to hide would fleetingly disappear in her eyes; but if you pay attention carefully, you can also find it. …

For example, she saw it.

Therefore, she felt that her mother's feelings towards her own parents seemed to be complicated.

Sometimes it seems unfamiliar, and I feel a little confused when talking about it.

But sometimes the true feelings are revealed, and regrets and longing cannot be hidden, they are written in the eyes...

It was probably because she didn't have enough experience that she couldn't identify such complex emotions, but she also tried to understand it from her own perspective.

Although the Antang Ruan family is where the ancestral home of the Ruan family is located, whether it is the old lady or the elders in the clan, no matter how kind others are to my mother, even if they are held in the palm of their hands, they should not be as regretful as the regret of not being with their parents...

Others may not feel it, but she knows that if your parents are absent, even if your grandparents are very good to you and take good care of you, it will always feel like something is missing; even if you know that you are not relying on others, there will always be a moment when you feel lost in your heart.

If your parents are not around, don't you always live under someone else's roof?

It's not that she doesn't appreciate her grandparents.

It's just that this feeling sometimes respects her heart, and she can't help it.

Especially when she sees the children next to her with her parents, she will also think, how great would it be if she was also with her parents?

But her parents are no longer here...

She actually didn't remember much about her childhood, but she still had the impression that before her grandfather found her and adopted her, she seemed to have lived a long period of hungry and well-fed days, and even suffered from frequent injuries. Hungry.

But she was too young at that time, so she couldn't remember the details at all. She only remembered the feeling of being hungry, being caught in the rain, hiding under the eaves, and being cold and freezing; until her grandfather took her home and she could eat. She is full, protected from the rain, someone will take care of her when she is sick, and there is Mother Li who cares about her...

Therefore, she has liked bright and colorful colors since she was a child, because when she was very hungry, she would see others wearing brightly colored clothes walking through the street, and her eyes would show envy...

This was all a long time ago.

All she could remember was a vague impression, and she couldn't remember the other details, but these vague impressions remained deep in her heart.

Others envied her for being the eldest daughter of the Nanping Marquis Mansion, being taken care of by her grandparents and her parents never being sad; but the envy of others never fell on the fact that she also wanted to have her own father and mother.

When she grew up, sometimes the carriage would stop on the street. While she was waiting for Ma Li to buy snacks, she would see a couple passing by with a young child in their arms. Her eyes would follow each other to the streets. To the end, until the time is no longer visible.

It's like an obsession...

endless.

Moreover, after her grandfather passed away, she even lost her only hope of who her parents were.

Although she knew that her surname should only be Fu.

It was true before, it is true now, and it will be true in the future.

But which family she is really the daughter of and who her parents are, she may never know again...

Therefore, judging others by herself, she may be able to empathize with some of her mother's complicated emotions towards her parents.

But her mother was different from her.

Her grandfather had told her that her parents had passed away, so she would live with her grandparents in the Hou Mansion from now on; but her mother's parents were still alive, but her mother had been growing up in the Antang Ruan family, under the knee of Mrs. Ruan's wife.She probably won't know the reason in the future, and she doesn't need to know, but she should be able to feel a little bit of the gap...

Because I didn’t grow up with my parents, I felt strange.

The mother must have gone through a long period of inner struggle.

I want to be with my parents, but things always go against my wishes. The long-term lack of companionship has made this relationship very complicated, so I have been unwilling to take the initiative to mention it. Most of the time, I pretend to be indifferent, but occasionally when I talk about it, I feel a sense of sadness in my heart. waves.

People are complicated.

Therefore, human emotions should also be complex.

Only the emotions of children are the most direct and simple portrayal.

Her mother also told her that understanding a person is more important than hearing what she says, but hearing what she is deliberately avoiding.

All this time, my mother had been deliberately avoiding her parents in Beijing.

But sometimes I see my mother deliberately teasing Sisi and Changyun. Although Sisi and Changyun are annoyed, they are clearly enjoying themselves. Although my mother also feels uncomfortable without teasing them for two days, she always looks for something. Things, but both they and the mother actually care about each other.It's just that my mother's concern always seems to be intentional.

It's like, I'm afraid of getting too close to them and getting a headache!

——Because my mother often has headaches, but she is afraid of them.

But aside from these, whether it was her mother's interactions with her, Changge, or Sisi, Changyun and Tuanzi, she had another feeling - the relationship between her mother and her parents was also It must be very loving, because the attitude of parents often affects the attitude of their children. Therefore, the mother will more or less have the shadow of her parents when they were with her.

These two completely different contrasts appear in the same person, and there is always an indescribable sense of separation.

It's like having a pair of completely different parents, one that the mother is familiar with, and one that the mother is not familiar with.

Although this idea was unbelievable, she couldn't seem to find a more appropriate explanation.

——Listen to the other party talking about something interesting, you can judge whether his ideas and thoughts are far from the other person; listen to the other party's tone, whether he is good at listening, or likes to interrupt, you can know the other party's way of life, upbringing, and whether he is a substitute. For people's sake...

In her eyes, her mother has always been a shrewd and wise person, but she also hides her own thoughts.

Until she saw the scene in front of her, she felt that the person in front of her was more vivid and plump.

She will also feel sad and happy for her. She is no longer a superior and omnipotent mother; she is also a 'daughter' who will be jealous when she sees her mother, and will choke when hugging her...

Fu Aoquan's eyes did not leave Ruan Tao, but as the dusk set, the afterglow of the setting sun fell on the shoulders of the two of them, as if they were coated with a layer of golden light. In the prosperity, hustle and bustle around them, they gradually gained a sense of belonging. Fireworks.

The smoke of fireworks brought a touch of warmth, and the city wall in front of us no longer remained a strange and cold city outline.

Amidst the sounds of horse hooves and voices going around, Ruan Shumo stepped forward and said warmly, "I'm tired from the long journey. Let's go to the capital to rest early. We'll wait until we get to the mansion."

Ruan Shumo's words brought everyone's thoughts back.

Ruan Tao's eyes also moved to Ruan's father.

"Father..."

Looking for the occasional mention from He Ma, Ruan Tao knew how the original owner called his parents on weekdays.

Ruan Shimo said gently, "Dad already knows. We'll talk about it later when we get back to the mansion."

After Ruan Shumo finished speaking, he looked not far behind him. Ruan Tao also followed Ruan Shumo's gaze and saw more than ten figures near the city gate. Ruan Tao suddenly realized that these people should be Fu Boyun's acquaintance in the capital knew that the old lady and she had brought the children of the Hou family to the capital, and came to the city gate specially to greet them...

Ruan Tao knew that his father had specially reminded him.

Ruan Tao nodded.

Father Ruan said nothing more, and Qu Shaobai just happened to bid farewell, "There are still things in the palace, so I will take my leave first. Madam, Madam Ruan, Madam Sister-in-law, I will see you later in the capital."

"Thank you for taking care of me all the way." Along the way, Ruan Tao and Qu Shaobai have become familiar with each other.

A humble young master, as gentle as jade.

Qu Shaobai can afford it.

"If Madam-in-law is there, Shaobai will go first and others will come to visit." Qu Shaobai handed over his hand, and then Fu Changge's children also said goodbye to Qu Shaobai one after another.Along the way north, I was not familiar with it earlier, but now I am familiar with Uncle Qu.

"Old madam, madam, my condolences."

"Old Madam, I should have come to greet you earlier, but something happened to be delayed in the capital. Please forgive me, Old Madam."

"Mrs. Sister-in-law, Boyun and I are as close as brothers. If you have anything to do in the capital in the future, you can come to the house to find me."

"Mrs. Sister-in-law, Mei Yun has something to do today and has not come in person, so I can only do it for you..."

Wait, Mei Yun, this name seems familiar.

Ruan Tao and Fu Changge were both stunned.

Zeng Meiyun?

Ruan Tao and Fu Changge couldn't help but look at each other. Ten shops, 3000 taels of gold...