Does the villain stepmother have a headache again today!

Fu Yuquan was speechless for a moment.

Ruan Tao continued, "You are the elder sister of the other children in the Hou Mansion. When they are in a strange environment, they will unconsciously go to see you, imitate you, rely on you, and see what you will do in the new environment. No. Changge is the eldest son, so all the burdens are on her. You are only as important as you think of yourself, if you even look down on yourself, why should others think highly of you?"

Fu Wuquan froze.

Every word Ruan Tao said pierced into her heart like a knife.

But it is different from the malicious words of others.

She knew better that this knife was not aimed at her by Ruan Tao.

but herself...

Even though he was aware of this, Fu Yuquan was still a little bit hesitant to step down.

He could only pretend that he didn't react, and bit his lip lightly.

Ruan Tao didn't point it out, "The Marquis of Nanping doesn't have adopted daughters. There is only one who can be honored and who can be adopted. It's not just you, it's not just Changge, and it's not just me...everyone, including Sisi, including Changyun, It also includes Tuanzi, which is closely related to it. No one here is unimportant, everyone is very important. Huicheng is the fiefdom of the Nanping Marquis Mansion. What we say and do, others will look at our face; but in Beijing, The Marquis of Nanping is just one of the princes in a corner of the country. There are people outside, there are buildings outside the building, and they don’t know what to say. Ten or a hundred Nanping Marquises can’t be your safe haven. The tree attracts the wind, and the Marquis has just passed away. The title is still short of an imperial letter. How can there be no coveted people in Chaozhong and Jingzhong? Open your eyes and you will find that the time to go to Beijing is too precious. How far can you see before you can put yourself in the In such an important position..."

Fu Wuquan raised his eyebrows.

"Qu Shaobai is the youngest young minister of the Honghe Temple, he can reach the position of the young minister of the Honghe Temple at this age, in addition to his talent, ability, vision, and opportunity, he must also be a very good person. "

Speaking of this, Ruan Tao paused for a moment, and reminded, "I'm very good at being a man. I don't mean what to say when you meet someone, but when you meet the right person, you have to remember this one clearly. .”

Fu Wuquan frowned even tighter, completely forgot about the unpleasantness earlier, but entered into the role, and asked earnestly, "I don't understand."

Ruan Tao looked at her, and from the side, took out a decorative leaf from the fruit plate that Mama He sent just now, Fu Yuquan's eyes were still full of doubts.

Ruan Tao held the leaf with one hand, and gently moved the leaf with the other. The leaf swayed back and forth effortlessly.

Fu Wuquan seemed to understand something, but he didn't seem to fully understand it.

But before he knew it, he had forgotten that he was fighting against Ruan Tao a few days ago, and now he was slowly immersed in the communication and exchange with Ruan Tao.

"What does mother want to tell me?"

The words also changed from "What do you want to say?" to "What do you want to tell me?", and the tone changed from previous resistance to acceptance and expectation.

Ruan Tao sighed softly, then plucked the leaf again, and said in a low voice, "If Qu Shaobai is a fool who talks to people and talks nonsense, he must not be able to be in this position at this age. "

Fu Wuquan was astonished.

Ruan Tao continued, "When you meet the right person and say the right thing, you don't have to be a fool and choose what everyone likes to say, but once you speak, you have to speak to the right point; Said, then every sentence of yours will be resounding."

Fu Wuquan seemed a little transparent.

"Then think again, which point did Qu Shaobai mention?" Ruan Tao asked again.

Fu Wuquan frowned, although it was difficult, but it was the first time he tried to follow Ruan Tao's teaching, but he hadn't done such a thing before, and there was hesitation in his jerky, he said slowly, "I have the ability to put him in this place." The people in the position..."

Ruan Taoyu's eyelashes froze slightly, and he couldn't help but glance at her more.

Fu Wuquan is actually very smart...

It's just that no one taught it.

Ruan Tao slowly reached out and put the leaf on the wooden table.

Fu Wuquan's eyes followed the trend, as if he was afraid of missing the details.

But Ruan Tao really just put down the leaves, then reached for the teacup, and took a sip.

It turned out that I was really just thirsty...

Fu Maoquan breathed a sigh of relief, but felt a little disappointed because he thought he could continue to learn something.

While Fu Wuquan hesitated, the wind outside the car blew, and the leaf was blown off to other places.

Fu Wuquan was inattentive and never saw it again.

Ruan Tao also put down the teacup with his slender hands, and said in a clear voice, "It is a leaf, and it will have no fixed place when the wind blows; but if it is still on the tree, vine, or root, unless the wind can blow the roots, The vine, the root uprooted, or however much it shakes in the wind and rain, provided it is connected deep enough, it will remain there until the moment it should wither."

Fu Wuquan was so surprised that he couldn't close his mouth from ear to ear.

Ruan Tao reached out to take off another decorative leaf. Fu Yuquan was still in shock, and before he could react for a while, Ruan Tao had already thrown that leaf out of the car window.

Soon, the leaves were nowhere to be seen.

"How important a person is depends largely on herself, how far she can see, how deep she is, whether it is a tree with deep roots or duckweed and weeds, it depends on what she wants to be, and she will do it What."

Ruan Tao looked at her, "If you take your status as an adopted daughter of the Marquis Mansion too seriously, then everything you do, any plan you make for yourself, is how to lead the way of an adopted daughter of the Marquis Mansion well. A family of the same family but a little weaker will get married and be the mistress, so that their future children will become legitimate sons and daughters. Has the mansion talked about marriage for you, and what kind of family they talked about? Is it too late? No delay, it's what you care about most..."

It was as if the fig leaf on his body was suddenly torn away. Although Fu Wuquan was annoyed, he was more ashamed.

She doesn't want, and doesn't want, what she cares most about, and what is most embarrassing, to be thoroughly dissected by Ruan Tao.

Ruan Tao continued, "But if it were me, I might think that growing up in a family like the Hou's Mansion, at least when others are tired of running around and worrying about making a living, you have more time and choices to be yourself. What you want to do, choose the person you like; when you encounter unhappy things, unfair treatment, or even five buckets of rice, when you are cornered, Hou Mansion is still your safe haven. Whether it is your past or your present , or the future, to a large extent, has already become the envy of others..."

Fu Wuquan clenched his palms tightly.

Ruan Tao's words were not absent, but penetrated into her heart little by little.

"Not everyone is born with a golden spoon in their mouths, and not everyone has to be compared with the people in the pyramid... the clouds. If you can't choose something, spending more time on it is futile; instead of this, it's better to focus on it. When it comes to things you can choose, sometimes looking back, you may have more choices than before.”

Fu Wuquan seemed to understand it, but he didn't seem to understand it completely.

But she knew that Ruan Tao could or could not say some things to her; she was her mother, but no one asked her to fulfill her duties as a mother to her adopted daughter.

But Ruan Tao said it all.

Fu Aiquan was prejudiced against her earlier, but he was not blind.

Compared with what Uncle (Yang) told her, what her mother told her is actually what a noble girl should listen to and learn from...

Li Ma said that everyone has a steelyard in their hearts.

The steelyard in her heart seemed to be tilting towards her mother little by little without knowing it...

And what the third uncle said earlier seemed to be empty compared to what he heard and saw.

Except for pointing sharply at the mother, there is almost nothing left.

It is true that Ruan Tao was born with a golden spoon in his mouth.

But what Ruan Tao told her was that there were things that could not be chosen, no matter how much time was spent, it would be futile, it was better to focus on the things that could be chosen; and what the third uncle told her was to hate those who had more choices than her.

But isn't the third uncle just that weed?

When he needed his father's help, he didn't hate his father, but let her hate his mother...

And her mother didn't make her hate anyone.

Ruan Tao seemed to be enlightened.

Countless images flooded my mind.

Slowly, they gathered in one place, accumulating more and more doubts about the third uncle's intentions, then gradually distrust, and then even a little resentment welled up in their hearts.

As for Ruan Tao, he took another sip of the tea cup, and said softly, "Go back to Qu Shaobai."

Fu Wuquan looked up at his mother sharply.

Ruan Tao said in a low voice, "Honglu Temple is in charge of diplomacy and commerce. Qu Shaobai came from a poor family. To be able to hold this position, you must not only have extraordinary talents, but also have a keen mind. You are the same as Qu Shao on the way to Beijing." When dealing with Shaobai, use him as a touchstone, the starting point is high, and the people you meet in Beijing in the future will not let you be at a loss."

Fu Wuquan: "..."

Although, Fu Yuquan suddenly realized.

"Of course, this person can only be Qu Shaobai, thinking that he is a close friend of Lord Hou. After the accident of Lord Hou, Qu Shaobai came to Huicheng immediately to show that he cares about your father as a friend, so you can practice with him. He won't mind, and will even teach you. But if you change anyone else, it may not be so, can you understand this truth?"

After Ruan Tao finished speaking this time, Fu Wuquan suddenly realized, "I understand, mother."

Ruan Tao glanced at her again, it was easy to tell whether Fu Maoquan was lying at this time.

Not this time.

"Then go, there will be Master Guo's class later, Master Guo will be very concerned about the evaluation and thoughts of the people in the Hou Mansion, and will teach you patiently." Ruan Tao knows the ins and outs of the old lady and Master Guo Well, everyone Guo just wanted to prove their abilities in front of everyone in the Hou Mansion and the old lady.

"I see, mother, then I'm going out."

Ruan Tao nodded.

Fu Aiquan glanced at her, only to see that she picked up the account book from earlier and started to continue.

Fu Aiquan raised the curtain and got out of the carriage, Li Ma hurried up to meet her, "Miss?"

Mama Li wanted to ask, miss, are you all right?

But it is inappropriate to ask.

Fu Wuquan understood, "I'm fine, fine."

Mama Li was surprised.

Later, it was Mr. Guo's class. Fu Wuquan went to Mr. Guo's carriage. Mama Li was stunned, and then hurried to catch up.

Mama Li knew about the matter just now, so she didn't ask any more questions. She was going to stay with everyone at Guo's place for a long time later, Mama Li asked, "Miss, what snacks and tea do you want to prepare later?"

Tea?

Fu Wuquan stopped and said inexplicably, "White tea, I want to try..."

Mama Li: "..."