Dressed as the cannon fodder who died prematurely, I will marry the villain in anger

The elder brothers and her husband were absent, so Lu Songli consciously took on the responsibility of being a parent.

Lu Songli greeted her fourth sister-in-law, Su Shi, before starting to deal with the matter.

The cause of the incident was very simple. The third elder brother Qin Zhao asked someone to send back a few toys, and her mother-in-law distributed them to the three daughters-in-law and asked them to distribute them to their children.

As for her fourth sister-in-law, she took two toys, and after the children finished school, she casually gave the older one to Qin Dan and the younger one to Qin Bin.

When it was time to share, Qin Bin wanted the older one, but her fourth sister-in-law refused on the grounds that he was the elder brother and wanted to give up the younger one.

Later, the children got together to play, and it didn't take long for the two brothers to fight.

Her fourth sister-in-law was very angry. After pulling the two away, she taught the older Qin Bin a lesson, saying that he was ignorant or something.

Qin Bin couldn't help but talk back, saying that she was eccentric, which made her cry.

At this time, Qin Jia came to her secretly and said, "Aunt Six, don't scold Fourth Cousin, in fact, Fourth Cousin is very protective of Seventh Cousin outside. But every time Seventh Cousin gets hurt, Fourth Aunt always scolds him." Cousin, he said he didn't protect seventh cousin well."

"Okay, Aunt Six understands. Go back to your room."

Lu Songli thought for a while, and knocked on Qin Bin's door first.

Now the Qin family occupies a total of three rows of bungalows, and the children also have their own rooms.

A naive but vigilant voice came from inside, "Who?"

Lu Songli is funny, this child is quite vigilant, "Your sixth aunt."

There was silence in the room.

She is not in a hurry.

After a while, rustling sounds came from the room, and the door was slowly opened not long after, and a small head poked out.

Qin Bin was relieved to see that his sixth aunt was really alone outside.

"Aunt Six, come in."

Lu Songli noticed that his eyes were red.

After Qin Bin returned to the house, he sat on a chair and read a book.

After Lu Songli picked a seat and sat down, she waved to him, "Come, talk to Aunt Six."

"Aunt Six, I haven't finished memorizing the books my Master asked me to recite."

"Okay, I'm not here to scold you, so you don't need to be so defensive. By the way, has Aunt Six ever scolded you?"

Qin Bin thought for a while, then shook his head, Aunt Six really never scolded anyone.

So, Qin Bin walked over slowly.

"Did you fight with your brother today?"

"Yes." Qin Bin replied in a low voice, with an obvious expression of resistance on his face.

Lu Songli asked him, "Did you win? Or did you lose? After the fight, are you happy?"

Qin Bin lowered his head. In fact, after the beating, his heart was always depressed.

"I think it's pretty stupid of you to do this."

Qin Bin was taken aback, Aunt Six said he was stupid, didn't she mean he was wrong?

"You're older than Qin Dan. If you win, it's called invincibility. If you lose, I'll ask you if you're ashamed?"

Lu Songli didn't say right or wrong about him, Qin Bin's guard was off immediately, and he thought about what she said seriously, as if it was really the case?

"My brother is so annoying. He knows that I like the moving wooden horse, and he keeps beating it. He doesn't cherish it at all."

"What is the purpose of your fight?"

Qin Bin twitched.

Lu Songli understood, she just felt that his mother was biased and treated her younger brother better than him.

"After this fight, did you get what you wanted?"

Qin Binxin said, no.

"After the beating, you still said something that made you cry. Knowing that your mother is sad, won't you be sad?"

Qin Bin: He will.

"So, besides hurting others and ourselves, we didn't achieve our goal by saying these angry words, right?"

Qin Bin nodded, then hesitated for a moment, and asked humbly, "Then Aunt Six, what should I do?"

"Your current attitude and behavior are very good. As children, it is normal for you to long for the attention, affirmation and love of your parents and elders."

"Between relatives, if we have any requirements, we can say them directly, or we can use some methods to achieve our goals tactfully. If you have a way, use your way. If you have no way, you can do it with Hit the straight ball with the posture of the weak." As the saying goes, sincerity is always the ultimate skill, and a child who cries has milk.

"Aunt Six, what does it mean to hit a straight ball?"

"It is to directly express your feelings. For example, about today, you can directly tell your mother that you like that moving wooden horse very much. If possible, ask her to share it with you. Or discuss it with your brother. , What can I trade with him, instead of saying nothing and holding back my thoughts."

"What's more, you took your younger brother out to play, and then he was injured. Aunt Six also knew about your being reprimanded by your mother. I will tell your mother later. Aunt Six knew that your younger brother was injured, and you were also very sad. Knowing that it is not your duty to take care of your younger brother, you are willing to take care of your younger brother, that is your responsibility as an older brother, and you have done a great job."

Qin Bin cried and nodded, expressing his understanding.

Qin Bin cried for a long time, crying out all the grievances and sorrows in his heart.

Lu Songli quietly stood aside, occasionally handing him a handkerchief. goΠb.oγg

Lu Songli didn't criticize the child as soon as he came up, saying that he was wrong, that he was wrong, and then made his mother sad or something.Everything has a cause and effect, and it may be the behavior of an adult that unintentionally hurts a child.

It's the first time to be a human being. Is it true that parents are superior?

When Qin Bin stopped crying, he became very embarrassed.

Lu Songli knew that his side was settled, so she also made a request to him, "Promise to Aunt Six, when you are angry, try to speak less bad words. Aunt Six is ​​not afraid that your words will hurt others, but is worried about you. Calm down and regret it."

They have all been children. In fact, because children's bodies are growing, the hormones in their bodies have always been unbalanced, and their ability to control emotions fluctuates.But Lu Songli still hoped that he could try his best to control it.

"Okay." Qin Bin agreed.

Lu Songli knows that this child is serious about his promise, and once he promises, he will try his best to fulfill it, "Then let's talk about this?"

"Well, Aunt Six, are you tired? Go back and rest quickly."

"Then Aunt Six is ​​leaving, don't forget to endorse."

Qin Bin: ...that's just his excuse.

After Lu Songli left Qin Bin's place, she went to find her fourth sister-in-law and told her that Qin Bin's side was fine.

"Sixth brother and sister, thank you, I really trouble you." Su Shi was quite embarrassed.

Both she and her second sister-in-law knew that the sixth sibling was working in the county guard's mansion, which was a secret in the Qin family.At the same time, she is also very busy. Her mother-in-law and the others try not to bother her about the chores at home.

"Fourth sister-in-law, we are a family, so we don't need to see outsiders like this." Lu Songli found that Qin Dan was fast asleep on her fourth sister-in-law's couch.

This time the problem was solved, but Su Shi was still worried.The seven or eight-year-old boy was exactly the age when cats hated dogs. She was worried that if there was a fight, there would be two.

When Lu Songli heard the source of her worry, she thought for a while and said, "Sister-in-law Si, in fact, it's not impossible for you to unite the two brothers."

I heard from Qin Sheng that Qin Dan looks very much like his dead fourth brother.The fourth sister-in-law's eccentricity should be unconscious. To correct this unconsciousness, it is not enough to just point it out, and another method must be used.

Su Shi hurriedly asked, "What way?"

She knew that the sixth sibling was resourceful, so it would be great if she could give her an idea.

"Artificially create a common enemy for them, and let them unanimously speak out." If Qin Ming is still alive, in fact, it is best for him, a father, to take this role.

Su seemed to understand but half understood, "Sixth sibling, tell me in detail?"

"You are like this..."