The tough life of a beautiful educated young girl from the 1970s who married a rough man

Shen Zhiwei asked Li Ruizhi again, "If you go back to work in the city after divorce, will you get married again?

Now you can only live with your parents when you go back to the city, and only when you get married can you get a house in the unit. Think carefully, will you soon marry a woman who does not have a deep relationship for the house? There are still children in the countryside, will it affect your future marriage?"

Even Li Ruizhi couldn't answer such a far-reaching question.

He just wanted to get rid of the peasant life of farming urgently.

Marry later?

Will the marriage be happy?

really do not know.

If you want your son Huahua...

"I don't know." Li Ruizhi was silent for a while before answering.

"So, actually, you are also confused about your future life, right?" Shen Zhiwei concluded.

Li Ruizhi nodded honestly.

"How about this, how about you postpone returning to the city for a month? Discuss it with your family." Shen Zhiwei suggested.

"why?"

Both Li Ruizhi and Zhang Shuimei asked in surprise.

Shen Zhi smiled and said, "Because a month later, the shampoo factory of our production team will open. This is our own factory. As long as we work hard, we can earn no less than the wages of state-owned factories in the city.

At that time, you can compare whether you are here with your wife and children earning more than the monthly salary of a state-owned factory, living in a spacious house, or returning to Beijing to live with your parents and brothers as an ordinary apprentice. Waiting for a year to become a regular. "

"Is it really that good?"

Li Ruizhi was a little moved.

Shen Zhiwei reminded, "Isn't the factory building already under construction? You've all seen it, haven't you?"

"That doesn't necessarily mean making money. Ordinary people don't buy shampoo specifically." Li Ruizhi said.

"Okay, if you don't like us so much, you can go back to the city, Zhang Shuimei will take her children and marry a man with more vision.

Don't regret it later. "

Shen Zhiwei turned to persuade Zhang Shuimei: "Zhang Shuimei, give Li Ruizhi a night to think and make a decision, don't force him.

Marriage and life can only last for a long time if the husband and wife are in harmony. If he doesn't care about you, even if you tie him up, he will fly away sooner or later.

Also, Zhang Shuimei, if you get divorced, we will ask Li Ruizhi to give you compensation. In the future, we will arrange a job for you in the shampoo factory and give priority to taking care of you and your children. You can earn money by yourself, and you will have the confidence to get married in the future. "

Shen Zhiwei was appointed as the deputy director of the shampoo factory, so he had to have some authority.

After Shen Zhiwei's persuasion, Zhang Shuimei stopped crying, and felt that divorce would not necessarily be so miserable.

Especially what Shen Zhiwei said, if Li Ruizhi doesn't love her anymore, he won't be happy if he keeps her by force.

"Well, if your Zhang family still wants to keep this son-in-law to stay and live together, you have to show a little sincerity and write a letter of guarantee. You must treat Li Ruizhi well and treat him like your own son in the future, so that he can live here with peace of mind.

Both the captain and the women's captain are here today, so you can witness it. "

Shen Zhiwei specifically asked Zhang Shuimei's father, Zhang Huowang, "Uncle Huowang, if you agree, I will draft the content of the guarantee, and you can sign and stamp it. Do you think it will work?"

"Okay, it's all up to Mr. Shen to help us decide."

Zhang Huowang and his wife said confidently.

They saw that their daughter was reluctant to part with Li Ruizhi. For the future happiness of his daughter and grandson, he knelt down and did not write a guarantee letter.

Xiao Zheng tacitly handed Shen Zhiwei the letterhead of the production team of Tianling Village and his special pen in time.

Shen Zhiwei thought for a while, then started to write.

"Guarantee"

Zhang Shuimei, the youngest daughter of Zhang Huowang, a member of Tianling Village, and her husband, Li Ruizhi, want to divorce because of family conflicts. The production team mediates as follows:

......"

in duplicate.

After Shen Zhiwei finished writing, he handed one copy to the captain and the other to Li Ruizhi.

Li Ruizhi looked at the content of the guarantee carefully, but did not say a word. It contained constraints on Zhang's family and was beneficial to him.

There is only one constraint on him. If he divorces and returns to the city, he must compensate Zhang Shuimei [-] yuan and pay the child support.

Captain Chen Shuigen and Women's Captain Zhang Dongmei read it and entrusted Xiao Zheng to read it out.

"Let me read it to you...

After reading it, he asked Zhang Huowang, "Uncle Huowang, do you agree with the contents of this guarantee?

Zhang Huowang hurriedly said, "Agreed."

"Then sign it and print your handprint."

"it is good."

After signing and stamping his fingerprints, Shen Zhiwei said decisively:

"Everyone in the brigade will keep a copy of this letter of guarantee, Li Ruizhi, take one for yourself.

You don't miss this night if you want to go back to the city.

Tonight, you should think carefully about whether you want to get divorced right away or wait a month before deciding. If you insist on getting divorced right away and going back to the city, you can go through the formalities tomorrow morning. "

She said to the Zhang family again, "You guys go home, you have a good discussion tonight, don't quarrel anymore, don't blame, if you really want a divorce, get together and leave.

Remember, freedom of marriage means that both marriage and divorce are free. If the relationship between the husband and wife has not broken down, we do not recommend divorce, but if there is really no relationship, don't force it to stay. The melon that is twisted is not sweet. "

"Hey, okay."

Zhang Huowang also figured it out, and took the whole family back.

Xiao Zheng patted Li Ruizhi on the shoulder, and reminded him earnestly, "Think carefully."

"Well," Li Ruizhi nodded, and followed the Zhang family back.

"Mr. Shen, you are too powerful. Just such an idea has turned off both sides."

The captain expressed his sincere appreciation.

Shen Zhiwei said modestly, "It should, these are all conflicts within the family, which can be resolved through negotiation."

Team leader Zhang Dongmei felt ashamed and said, "Hey, I am not as good as Teacher Shen when I do this women's ideological work."

The team leader said bluntly, "Of course, our teacher Shen's level of education is unmatched by anyone.

Mrs. Shen, you can take up the post of vice-captain of women in the future, and help Captain Zhang share the family mediation work, and I will give you five work points every day in the future, is that ok?

As the old saying goes, those who are capable work harder, and you have to work hard, Mr. Shen, to contribute your talents. "

In this way, Shen Zhiwei kindly accepted the cadre post specially set up for her - the post of female deputy captain of the production team.

Although he is a small official, he is also a cadre, no matter how big or small.