Tell mommy, daddy is kneeling again

When Li Junyan heard this, he suddenly understood.

Li Junyan: "Maybe her mother's ideas are still very traditional."

Rong Xiaoyi: "What do you mean?"

Li Junyan: "In the old customs, a woman is the private property of her mother's family before she gets married, and after marriage, she belongs to her husband's family. When the patrilineal clan came into being, the original gender differences in the matrilineal clan period were reversed. In a matriarchal society, women were responsible for reproduction. Therefore, women at that time had a high status, while men were women's resources. Men hunted and women reproduced. In patriarchal societies, with the development of hunting, hunting has The demand cannot be met, so the situation becomes that men fight and women reproduce. In terms of biology, men generally have greater strength and speed, and in this way, women become men's resources."

After a pause, he said: "For this reason, although the times are becoming more and more open, there are still many people who are conservative and feel that women are still the property of their husband's family. This is why the parents of the Chu family are dissatisfied with you. If , you have been married before, even if there is no marriage, you are willing to have children with other men, this is a value in the past. For example, if it breaks the instinct of a person with conservative ideas, she will feel that this It's a business transaction. But...if you are forced...it's like..."

Rong Xiaoyi took over his words: "It's like picking up rags."

Li Junyan: "Probably so. In the old society, the bride price, to put it nicely, represents the man's sincerity, but in fact, it is a transaction process in which a woman transfers her property."

After a pause, he said: "I'm not very good at liberal arts. These are all sociology courseware contents."

Rong Xiaoyi: "I see. When you said that, I figured out why his parents had such an attitude."

Li Junyan said: "Don't take it to heart. You are not wrong. It is that person who is wrong. Xiaoyi, don't punish yourself because of this matter, let alone make things difficult for yourself because of this matter. What if, the Chu family People around me really care about this matter, but Chu Yunhang has no way to deal with it. He would rather not get married than compromise. You have to love yourself more than being loved."

After a pause, he suppressed his anger and said: "You are the daughter of the Rong family. If, one day, you want to devalue yourself to marry a man, there is no need. If Chu Yunhang can settle this matter, the marriage will be concluded. , If he can’t reconcile it, the marriage will not be concluded.”

Rong Xiaoyi lowered her head in disappointment, with tears in her eyes, but she was too stubborn to fall.

She frowned slightly and raised her head suddenly, trying to push back the tears. However, after blinking for a moment, tears suddenly slipped from the corners of her eyes.

She raised her hand in panic and wiped it on her cheeks haphazardly.

Li Junyan said: "Don't cry."

Rong Xiaoyi: "I feel very sad. In my relationship with Yunhang for so many years, I always thought that as long as we are in love, no one can stop us from being together."

Li Junyan: "He actually knows very well that if his parents know your past, they will not be willing to accept you. Therefore, he would rather move abroad. But...he is willing to return to China for you, and he will naturally work hard for you. To break through obstacles.”

Rong Xiaoyi: "I believe him...he will definitely be able to convince his parents."

After a pause, she took a deep breath: "Jun Yan, thank you. It wasn't until today that I finally figured it out... This matter is not my fault."

She had always blamed herself.

Blame yourself for being careless.

She is alone in a foreign country and only she can protect herself.

But she failed to protect herself.

This is her fault.

But now, she figured it out.

It's not her fault.

She didn't hurt anyone.

How could she be wrong?

Li Junyan said: "Okay, stop thinking so much and go to bed early, okay?"

Rong Xiaoyi nodded.

Li Junyan asked: "Are you taking care of the child alone?"

Rong Xiaoyi said: "Originally, we hired a nanny, but the nanny was busy during this period and said she would not come back until tomorrow. Therefore, Yunhang is taking care of the child these days, but... he is not at home now... I actually don’t have much experience in taking care of children, so I’m very busy taking care of them.”

Li Junyan: "I'll ask my mother to come and take care of you for a few days."

Rong Xiaoyi: "It's so hard to take care of children, I'm a little embarrassed."

Li Junyan: "We are all one family, don't be so outsider."

Rong Xiaoyi: "I'm afraid... when she asks, I don't know how to explain."

Li Junyan: "She won't tell your brother."

After speaking, he took out his mobile phone and made a call to Li Yufei.

Soon, Li Yufei came.

As soon as she entered the door, she walked over naturally and took the baby from Li Junyan's arms.

"Xiaoyi, Jun Yan told me on the phone...why didn't you tell me if something like this happened?"

Rong Xiaoyi didn't know how to explain it for a moment.

Li Yufei asked tentatively: "Are you afraid that I will tell your brother that he objects to your marriage?"

Rong Xiaoyi nodded.

Li Yufei said: "It's okay, I promise you, I won't tell him about this matter. When he treats you, he will be confused if he cares about you."

Rong Xiaoyi said a little embarrassedly: "I am such an old man... and I still have to worry about him..."

Li Yufei: "Yes, you are such an old person, but you still suffer injustice outside. You are not married yet. If you are married, your husband's family will make you angry. Would you rather endure it than come back?"

Li Junyan stood up: "Mom, you stay with her, I'll go back first."

Li Yufei nodded: "Slow down on the road."

Rong Xiaoyi sent him to the door: "Today... thank you... Also, say sorry to Yinyin and me. It was a good date, and I disturbed your mood..."

Li Junyan: "Don't think too much. Yinyin is very reasonable. She asked me to accompany you. You know, I regard her as my main priority. If she is unhappy, I will not come. Since I am here, It shows that she doesn’t mind this.”

After a pause, he said meaningfully: "Many times, you don't need to care about other people's feelings, just care more about your own feelings."

Rong Xiaoyi has been somewhat of a pleaser since she was a child.

Her personality is completely different from Rong Ling's.

Coming from the same family background, Rong Ling was rebellious and perverse, always focusing on his own feelings. He was confident and had the ability to love and be loved.

But these are what Rong Xiaoyi lacks the most.

But the more people-pleaser you are, the easier it is to be rejected by the world.

Rong Xiaoyi nodded: "Well...thank you, I'll treat you to dinner another day."

Li Junyan walked into the elevator and pressed the floor button.

Back in the car, Li Junyan called Huo Zijin.

The call just came through.

Li Junyan said gently: "Yinyin, are you home?"