Dress like a child's mother, strive to be a winner

Regarding the idea of ​​the wedding, Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan have already made a decision.

"What, traveling and getting married?!"

After hearing what the two said, Ms. Zhao was stunned. She said, "But didn't you announce the wedding date and invite them?"

Traveling to get married means not planning to hold a wedding, right?Ms. Zhao, who came back from abroad, watched the picture of the son-in-law proposing to his daughter on the Internet, and watched it ten times at once, and couldn't get enough of it!

My daughter has found a very good son-in-law, who will be relied on for the rest of her life!

If there was a wedding, she would have to invite relatives from her natal family. The matter of Su Qian having a child out of wedlock was quite a big deal. Ms. Zhao's natal family knew about it, and they all followed Ms. Zhao to persuade Su Qian to abort the child.

However, Su Qian didn't listen, and finally chose to give birth to a child. Later, Ms. Zhao's natal family who had daughters were especially strictly guarded, and they were absolutely not allowed to fall in love early, and any possibility of unmarried pregnancy was eliminated.

Sometimes when it comes to something, Su Qian will be used to educate the children. If you don't listen to me now, do you want to be like Su Qian in the future, living in poverty with your children alone? !

In fact, everyone didn't know how Su Qian was actually doing, because after Su Qian decided to give birth to the child, she cut off contact with her relatives at home. Her own father had no relatives. Mother broke up.

The relatives on the mother's side naturally won't make more contact.

Later, Ms. Zhao saw that Su Qian was too determined to have a child, which made her take a step back. The relationship between mother and daughter was eased a little, otherwise they would be inseparable now.

At that time, although Ms. Zhao spoke harshly, she was indeed Su Qian's backbone to a certain extent.

As for Ms. Zhao's natal family, they didn't dare to mention Su Qian's matter. Ms. Zhao had a bad temper since she was young. Others can say that she did something wrong.

Regardless of whether you are an elder or not, Ms. Zhao has reasons for every rebuttal, so people in the family generally don't provoke her.

Like Su Qian's matter, Ms. Zhao's nephew and daughter-in-law once stepped on the thunder, and her younger sister came to her house to play during the summer vacation. Ms. Zhao's niece and daughter-in-law chatted with her sister, and somehow they came to the issue of puppy love.

The niece and daughter-in-law didn't think too much, and told Su Qian's matter, which was naturally a bit demeaning.

This kind of talk is okay behind closed doors. Ms. Zhao also knows that her daughter is used as a negative teaching material in the family. If she thinks about it differently, if this situation happens at home, she must educate her daughter.

But no matter what, the daughter was born by herself, she is qualified to educate, and others are not qualified to belittle her.

"That's not what you said. Today's society is not what it used to be. My nephew and daughter-in-law were also two months pregnant when you married my eldest nephew, right?"

"Don't blame the aunt for speaking badly. I learned it according to what you said about my daughter just now. If you broke up with my nephew, the child in your belly must be destroyed, right? My daughter just chooses to give birth. How come it became an unforgivable crime in your mouth?"

"It's my daughter's own choice to live her life. Others can disagree, but if she uses a derogatory tone to act as a moral model, I will be the first to tolerate it. Who is more noble than whom?"

"Niece and daughter-in-law, why don't you tell me in detail, how does my daughter's choice to have a child affect you? Auntie will have a good chat with you."

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Ms. Zhao has been outputting for a while, and she is already being merciful. If this niece and daughter-in-law say anything harsh, she will definitely talk about the fact that the other party and his nephew were in two boats when they were in love.

Everyone in the Zhao family knows Ms. Zhao's combat effectiveness. This niece and daughter-in-law dare to argue with her mother-in-law on weekdays, but they are afraid to face Ms. Zhao, an aunt.

As the aunt in the family, Ms. Zhao has quite a say in the family.

The niece and daughter-in-law also knew that she had lost her mind and said the wrong thing for a while. Listening to the mother-in-law next to her to smooth things over, she quickly admitted her mistake, saying that she had said something inadvertently, that she didn't mean it, and so on.

Ms. Zhao just stopped her fire, otherwise she would have to talk about this niece and daughter-in-law. Apart from her, there is no other outsider who will talk about her daughter!

The daughter did something wrong, but it's not the turn of others to dislike her.

Regarding this matter, Ms. Zhao is actually holding fire in her heart. Su Qian has been treated as my child since she was a child, and I can educate him, but others are not allowed to beat or scold her. Nothing else is to protect the calf.

When relatives persuaded Su Qian to have an abortion, they sometimes spoke harshly, saying that the little girl didn't love herself. At that time, Ms. Zhao was already a little bit annoyed. In today's society, how many couples only slept together on the wedding day?

The rebuttals were borne and endured, the ultimate goal was to persuade the daughter to abort the child, but in the end Ms. Zhao didn't say anything.

She also understood that her relatives had good intentions, but after she kept talking about it, Ms. Zhao was naturally unhappy.

At that time, the persuasion was just said, the daughter has given birth to the child, and it has become an established fact, so what is the use of always talking about it?

It's like if I eat this piece of cake, I will get fat. The premise is that I eat all of it, so don't talk about getting fat all the time!

If you become fat, you suffer it yourself!It is true that her daughter is not doing well, and she is angry when she sees it, but she does not want to hear others say that her daughter is not good.

What is raising a daughter for nothing? Where is it for nothing?The money my daughter earns every month will be honored to her!Although the amount is not much, her daughter will give [-] when she earns [-], accounting for half of the total salary.

Will other people's children give it every month?Her daughter is stupid, but also filial.

In the past, Ms. Zhao was very mean in front of Su Qian, but never once did she not defend her daughter in front of outsiders.

It is also because of this anger that no one dares to talk about Su Qian in any family gatherings in the future. It is really scary that Ms. Zhao's smile is a bit scary. I have seen Ms. Zhao's appearance when she was young. Family, dare to do anything until this aunt gets angry.

So later, when Su Qian got in touch with her relatives, she found that everyone's attitude was the same as before. It was as if her unmarried pregnancy had never happened. Some relatives would even ask how the child was doing. It's like not doing anything deviant.

Su Qian knew that it must be because of her mother.

No matter what, in front of Su Qian and Ms. Zhao, none of the relatives of the Zhao family dared to mention such things as unmarried pregnancy and being dizzy.

Of course, the Zhao family still felt sorry for Su Qian. She was a girl with a bright future, but she ended up like this in the end.

However, this is the turning point of the matter. Who would have thought that Su Qian would suddenly become Mrs. Jian!

The Zhao family is all rejoicing about one thing, thanks to the fact that they were afraid of Ms. Zhao!I didn't dare to do anything out of the ordinary, otherwise Su Qianji would hate him, so it's okay!

At least now they and Su Qian are in the family group of loving each other, and looking at the Su family, the whole tree is falling and the monkeys are scattered.

Big companies like the Su family are like this, and if they fall on small citizens like them, they won't go directly to the west!

so far so good!

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Ms. Zhao's immediate family members will not say anything after Ms. Zhao loses her temper, but those relatives who have three aunts and six aunts are very difficult to listen to.

But Ms. Zhao didn't hear it with her own ears, so it doesn't matter.

Before Su Qian became Mrs. Jane, when she participated in the show, the tone of those distant relatives changed. They all heard how hot Su Qian was from their own children.

Not to mention the celebrities, even the internet celebrities on the short video platform are extremely profitable. Those like Su Qian who have appeared on TV and have so many fans must be even more profitable!

It doesn't even take Su Qian to become Mrs. Jane. Her participation in the program in the early stage is enough to change the impression of relatives.

Life is so realistic, as long as you have money and can make money, no matter passers-by or relatives, they will all look up to you because of it.

Su Qian doesn’t have a deep understanding of these relatives, and Ms. Zhao has more contact. For example, when her daughter is on variety shows, some relatives who have not been in contact with each other for 800 years will call to ask, and then ask the TV station if they are recruiting young actors. Her granddaughter dances very well. Well, even the school teachers praised Yun Yun.

Obviously, she felt that Su Qian had contacts in the TV station, so she wanted her to help her so that her granddaughter could participate in the show.

Some people also said that their youngest daughter graduated with excellent academic performance and received scholarships every year. Could you recommend her to be an intern at a TV station...

There are a lot of calls like this, and Ms. Zhao was able to explain them well at first, but later she felt annoyed, so she directly sent a message on Moments, to the effect that her daughter had a hard time before, but now that she is in her early years, she can live well on her own, and no one should think of moral kidnapping to ask for help, not even her own mother.

When Ms. Zhao posted this circle of friends, she blocked Su Qian, so Su Qian still didn't know that her mother had posted such a circle of friends.

With this circle of friends, there are fewer relatives who come to ask for work, and many people just don't contact them.

It doesn't matter to Ms. Zhao, these relatives have no contact before!After it was revealed that Su Qian was Mr. Jian's wife, there were more text messages of greetings during the holidays.

You don't need to be in contact with anyone in the society. From these distant relatives, you can experience what it means to be warm and cold.

So Ms. Zhao hopes that her daughter can hold a good wedding, so that relatives can see that her daughter is doing well.

In fact, this is very unnecessary. Ms. Zhao just wants to fight for her breath. As the saying goes, old children are old children. Ms. Zhao probably would not have this idea when she was young, but now she is old and naive again.

I just want you who looked down on my daughter before to see how happy she is now!

Ms. Zhao didn't say these words, but Su Qian could hear the problem from the tone of the other party's surprised question when she asked about traveling and getting married.

"Mom, you don't want us to travel and get married? As for the wedding date, Jian Zhanyan and I want Su Yang to host it, and Xiaowei will be there to help."

Xiao Baozi, who wanted to contribute to the "marriage proposal", felt a little unsatisfied with the fact that he only handed over a ring, so he approached Su Qian and said that when he got married, he would arrange more work for him. will do very well.

In the end, Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan combined and decided that they would go on a trip to get married, and then put a photo of the two of them in the freeze frame hotel, and Su Yang would control the whole process, giving Xiao Baozi enough space to play.

That being said, in fact, the two parents who wanted to be hands-off shopkeepers just happened to be eager for the son, so they handed over the job to him.

Then they were in charge of preparing to welcome Da Su Yang back.

Of course, this shameless remark was made by Jian Zhanyan, and his plan was to have a honeymoon baby.

After the couple thought about it, they told Su Yang about the plan. Su Yang readily agreed, and he said seriously to Jian Zhanyan: "Father, you must bring brother back safely!"

In Su Yang's mind, he thought that when his father said to welcome Da Su Yang, he was going to pick someone up somewhere.

The teacher at school said that children come from the sky, they run into their mother’s womb and they are conceived and reborn in October, so the younger brother must have run away for fun, so the parents have to take the plane to pick up the younger brother.

Maybe my younger brother is naughty playing hide-and-seek, so Mom and Dad will have to look for it for a while, just like Dad said, it takes time to have a second child!I hope my younger brother won't hide too far away, so it will be easier to find.

Su Yang, who just went to kindergarten, understands having a second child in this way.

And mom and dad must love each other, the more two people love each other, the sooner the baby in the sky will run into the mother's womb...

Regarding the second child, Xiao Baozi has his own systematic understanding.

Hearing Su Yang's words, Su Qian blushed, Jian Zhanyan was also a little embarrassed, how could he answer these words!

So in the end, it was decided that Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan would travel and get married, and then leave their son behind for the wedding.

At that time, when I had this idea and discussed it with my son, I didn’t think there was anything wrong with it. Now I’m relaying this point to Ms. Zhao, why do I feel ashamed.

Their parents...seem...a little serious?

Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan are ready to accept the shortest one-hour education from Ms. Zhao.

The two lowered their heads, and Su Qian had already figured out what excuses she would find to slip away by herself later, and then let Jian Zhanyan stay alone for training.

Su Qian just had such an idea, just shook his fingers twice, Jian Zhanyan noticed it keenly, he secretly held Su Qian's hand under the table, don't even think about running away!

The two secretly confronted each other underneath, not noticing that Ms. Zhao, who they thought was angry, showed a smiling face.

"also."

Hearing what Ms. Zhao agreed with, the two suddenly raised their heads, and seeing Ms. Zhao's smiling expression, Su Qian was a little dazed.

"No, don't scold us?"

Ms. Zhao gave her daughter a reproachful look, and said, "Why are you blaming you? Of course your wedding came as you wished."

In fact, Ms. Zhao wanted to get angry, but she suddenly thought that it would be better for Su Yang to preside over the wedding!

At the beginning, the relatives just said that Su Qian gave birth to a troublesome child, that the child would blame the mother in the future, that the rest of his life would be over, and so on.

Ms. Zhao can see how good her grandson is. When Su Yang presides over the wedding, he will behave gracefully and courteously. The appearance of that little gentleman will not make others envious!

At such a young age, he was able to control such a grand wedding banquet, and others gave him face, so let's just say that he is not serious!

As for the daughter, she and her son-in-law went on a trip to get married and spend their honeymoon!One sentence can prove that my daughter is living a very happy life, and then let the guests see how excellent and generous the little bun is, how successful he can be at such a young age!

Wouldn't it be better!

Ms. Zhao is satisfied.