1987: Sleepless Tonight

Saying that letting Luo Zaijun carry the foreigner would make him feel at ease, in fact, it implies that Luo Zaijun will still have to wait where he is if he encounters this kind of situation in the future.

Even if you move, you can't have a large range of activities.

This is the skill of speaking. The same meaning can be said in different ways, giving people different feelings. It directly leaves Luo Zaijun waiting, which makes him appear to be an unreasonable boss who treats his subordinates and employees as cattle and horses. A circle expressed concern for Luo Zaijun's behavior, worried about his health, and at the same time expressed affirmation of his behavior.

A slightly smarter person will naturally continue to wait next time, and will not feel angry or disgusted in his heart. He will only think that the boss understands and cares about him.

My boss has seen my efforts, and I hope that my boss will promote me and give me more benefits in the future.

"Brother Hao, you've finished talking about business, are you going back now?" Luo Zaijun asked.

"We haven't finished talking yet." Lu Hao shook his head, "Those foreigners are discussing the details right now. When they have it all together, I will go over and continue talking to them."

"They discussed the details? Brother Hao came down to avoid it? This foreigner is really particular about it." Luo Zaijun said, "Shouldn't the details of the discussion be discussed before coming here to discuss it?"

"That's how foreigners are. When they eat, no matter how good friends are, everyone pays for himself. Unlike us, if we go to dinner and friends say that everyone pays for themselves, they will definitely fall out, usually one at a time. Invite a friend, and invite another friend next time, take turns." Lu Hao said.

"Foreigners are too impersonal. I have also heard that it seems that after the children of foreigners are raised to 18 years old, they are ignored and will be kicked out of their homes and left to fend for themselves." Luo Zaijun sighed.

"The soil and water support the people. Every place has different behaviors and habits, just like the taste of food. Some places prefer rice, some places prefer noodles, and some places prefer potatoes." Lu Hao smoked a cigarette and said to Luo Zaijun's words did not make a direct judgment.

But in fact, he quite agrees with some of the foreigners' ways of doing things.

Let’s eat together, but each pays his own way, clearly and clearly, because this time you invite me, next time I’ll treat you. This default way of eating with each other is just an unspoken rule, but this default unspoken rule is not always Everyone will abide by it, but some people won't. And in some cases, the person who pays for the treat may not have enough money. If there are a little more people, about 10 people, it may still be in a relatively expensive place. It costs a lot of money and it will be difficult to take it out at once.

If it was an AA, this situation would not happen. In the case of an AA, treating guests seems to be less impersonal, but in fact, the burden on the heart, whether it is the psychological burden of the person who goes to eat or the psychological burden after the meal, It will be much less.

As for the claim that foreigners don't care about their children's life and death after they turn 18, they just kick them out and let them fend for themselves. This is also a misinformation. This statement and perception were quite popular from the 80s to 2000.

Because from the 80s to 2000, during these three to forty years, with the relaxation of social ideological trends, Chinese people were very curious about foreigners. However, the conditions and difficulty of going abroad were very harsh for most people, so through newspapers and magazines, etc. understand the situation abroad.

During this period, many periodicals and magazines were very popular and very popular among students, such as Zhiyin, Yilin, Youth Digest, etc. Many articles in these periodicals and magazines introduced some aspects of the life of foreigners. There are also many problems with customs and culture, especially regarding foreigners' treatment of their children.

Most articles say that foreigners are ruthless towards their children, kicking them out of the house directly after the age of 18 and leaving them to fend for themselves, but the actual situation is not like this.

In poor families, they may really be kicked out at the age of 18 because the family is too poor and cannot afford the living expenses of the children when they grow up. However, if the family situation is slightly better, they will also play a role in the children's education and in the children's education. It provides great help in career, children’s work, children’s marriage, etc.

The author who writes these articles has probably never been abroad or lived with a foreigner. He may have referenced a similar article written by another person. After making slight changes, he may have contributed it as his own article. Earn some royalties, or attract people's attention.

Of course, there are also some who are very disgusted with foreigners, so they describe them in words.

However, disgust for a person or a country should not be slander, but should be fully understood and fully faced. Only by facing up to the advantages of others can we see the real gap, thereby making up for the shortcomings and shortening the gap!

Just like anti-war, the best propaganda is to photograph the horror of war, not to photograph it in a mythical way.

After smoking a cigarette and chatting with Luo Zaijun for a while, Lu Hao checked the time and saw that half an hour had passed before walking into Qingchuan Hotel.

After walking a few steps, he turned back and said to Luo Zaijun, "Don't look for food by yourself later. After we finish talking about things, those foreigners and I will have dinner at Qingchuan Restaurant, and you will come with us."

"If I go over, will it affect Brother Hao and your business negotiations with them? I won't go over. I can just find a place to eat." Luo Zaijun said.

"There's nothing wrong with it. Things can basically be settled before eating. When eating, the main thing is eating." Lu Hao said, "Foreigners have a different style of doing things from us. When we talk, we talk about things, and when we eat, we eat. No. The wine table culture makes it more lively when there are more people.”

"Although these foreigners are tall and well-dressed, their culture is not as old as ours. They are very interested in our culture and can chat at the dinner table."

"Besides, I cooperate with them and don't ask them to do anything. We have an equal relationship, so I don't have to be humble to them and just treat them as normal partners."

Foreigners do not have a dinner table culture, but they do have a dance culture. They organize a dance, or attend a dance and make friends with some people.

After explaining to Luo Zaijun, Lu Hao entered the Qingchuan Hotel and returned to the conference room.

"Mr. Kevin, have you discussed it yet?" Lu Hao asked directly as soon as he entered the door.

"We've discussed it." Kevin nodded.

After hearing the affirmative answer, Lu Hao sat back in his seat, then looked at Kevin and the others, waiting for what the other party would say.