1987: Sleepless Tonight

"Even if you don't consider these things and just look at Nini's test scores, you can't deny her previous efforts just because she did poorly in one or two exams." Lu Hao glanced at Nini.

"This baby is very sensible and has a more mature mind than other children of the same age. He knows how to do homework when he gets home, and he also knows how to prepare for homework after finishing it. His grades have always been good. He did poorly in one or two exams, maybe because of something else. The reason is that I just didn’t learn this knowledge point, or I’m not feeling well, or I’m careless, so I might do well in the exam next time.”

"Learning is just like being a human being. You cannot become a Buddha just because a bad person puts down the butcher's knife. A good person does something wrong and his true colors are revealed. You must look at merits and demerits separately."

"One more thing, now that there are still many years left before junior high school, high school, and college, there is no need to be so anxious, and there is no need to always focus on the results on her paper. The main thing is about thinking. She has to learn how to think and learn how to do it. To analyze and solve problems, we must also improve our knowledge and broaden our horizons. These are more important.”

In terms of education, Lu Hao has a different view, or in other words, he has a different view in thinking about life.

The family is rich now, with a lot of assets and cash. It is richer than many well-established families. But this is only in terms of assets. In terms of cash, it is more than these well-established families. But in terms of ideas, it is not as rich as many well-established families. Compared with these well-established families, they are still far behind.

Scholarly family, poetic family, aristocratic family, etc. These things seem to exist only in history and in books, but in fact there are still many such families nowadays.

Even if there is little money due to historical changes, future generations have inherited their ideas, and their ideas and problem-solving ideas are different from most people.

Wealth is not just money, but also ideas.

Although I have made some money, in the final analysis, I still think in a bottom-level way. When I encounter problems, I always solve and think from the bottom-level perspective.

This is definitely not possible.

Changes in people are definitely not just material changes, not just changes in appearance, clothing, food and drink. Such changes can only be regarded as nouveau riche. The real changes are from the ideological level.

For the same thing, there are different perspectives and solutions to the problem.

"Every time I talk to you about Nini's problem, you go so far. I don't know if you are right or wrong. If I follow your way, will it have a bad impact on Nini? ." Su Min said.

She was also a little messy.

Sometimes I think what Lu Hao said makes sense, but sometimes I'm afraid that following Lu Hao's method will harm Nini.

"As long as Nini is not a playboy, then the money we earn will be enough for her to spend her whole life, or even several lifetimes, and it will be enough for the babies in her belly. Even if she has more brothers and sisters, there will be no problem." Lu Hao thought. Very transparent.

"In terms of material, we can provide them with sufficient protection. What they lack now is actually ideological protection. As I have told you before, learning is not just in school. Learning is only done by listening to the teacher. It is also done at home. In society, in the library, this is all learning. There is no need to be so stuck in the place of learning, and the things that can be taught in school are actually very limited. Teach her how to do business, teach her how to manage money, Teach her how to make money? I can’t see her and can teach her this. Only I can teach her this.”

From the perspective of most people, learning is actually a low-cost way to make money and gain social status, and it can be said to be a limited way, but not everyone.

"I like to do business. I want to learn from my father and my mother to make money and make a lot of money." After hearing this, Nini felt really excited.

I don’t really want to learn, I want to learn to make money.

"If you want to do business, you need start-up capital. Where will your start-up capital come from?" Lu Hao looked at her.

"I saved money." Nini said.

She has a piggy bank, and she does have some money in it.

"I'm afraid that little money is not enough." Lu Hao shook his head, "And in addition to starting capital, you also need a profitable project. What business are you planning to make money from?"

"I want to open a department store, just like my father." Nini said immediately.

Children only see so many things, mainly those around them. Most children do not read the news or have the habit of reading newspapers. Just like many elementary school students, junior high school students, and even high school students, they write about their ideals and talk about When it comes to what career they want to pursue in the future, most people write about teachers, scientists, soldiers, or doctors.

Because these professions appear the most in their lives and are mentioned the most, when writing essays, they praise these professions very well, but when they really go out into society and choose a profession, most people are engaged in These are not the careers that are candidates for when you are young.

One reason is that these professions are not that easy to get into, and you cannot get into them just by wanting to work in them. Another reason is that when I wrote the essay, I was still young and had no plans for my future. I just followed what others said.

Nini is in a similar situation now, taking the occupations of the adults around her as an example.

"Want to open a department store? That's even harder. The little money you have on hand is definitely not enough. Opening a department store requires a store, and the area cannot be small. It requires a large space." Lu Hao Looking at Nini, "The department store opened by dad has an area of ​​only 1500 square meters. You have been to the department store many times and know that the business in the store is very good, but the area is too small and cannot meet the needs of customers, so this area is actually If you want to open a department store and do a good business, you need a larger area. Not only that, but the location must be better. If you open it in the suburbs, there will definitely be no business. There will be few people and not only will you not be able to make money, If you make money, you will still lose money.”

Nini listened to Lu Hao's words attentively, and nodded in agreement.

A dragon begets a dragon, a phoenix begets a phoenix, and a mouse gives birth to a son who can dig holes. This proverb emphasizes the importance of parentage. From another aspect, it can also be said to be the importance of family environment for future generations.

In fact, it is the so-called family inheritance.

There are not so many geniuses, and there are not that many mediocre people. Most people's IQs are actually similar. The only difference is experience. Some people have more experience, and some people have less experience.

A successful family can impart successful experience to its children, while a mediocre family can only give its children the experience of avoiding pitfalls. If you avoid one pitfall, there may be countless more pitfalls.

Moreover, successful families can give their children more opportunities to try and make mistakes. It doesn't matter if they fail once. They can learn from it and keep trying. However, mediocre families cannot afford so many failures, and they may even be able to withstand one failure. They can't afford it, so when children do things beyond their parents' knowledge, they are likely to encounter great obstacles.

"Then I will make more money now, make a lot of money, and buy a big shop and open a department store in the future." Nini made circles with her hands.