1987: Sleepless Tonight

After leaving Nini's room, Lu Hao went to look at Su Min again.

You don't need to make breakfast, and you don't need to eat outside. You will go directly to the old man's house later, and you must have already prepared breakfast.

The couple quickly changed their clothes, washed up, and went out.

But after walking a few steps, Su Min remembered something and asked, "Do I have to prepare red envelopes?"

"I've prepared the red envelopes for the two of them a long time ago. We put them in together yesterday, you forgot?" Lu Hao said.

The two had already prepared the wedding red envelopes for Su Jiangang and Li Xuan yesterday, and stuffed 2000 yuan into it.

In fact, with Lu Hao's strength, let alone 2000, it's not a big problem to stuff 6000, 8000, or even 2.

But it's not necessary, human relationships are all exchanges, especially in this kind of close relationship, there will be frequent exchanges, if you give him a gift today, and tomorrow I want to make some wine here, I will also give a gift there, and the gift will be given later. Add some more money than the previous gift.

For example, when you give birth to a baby, Mr. Fang’s baby, you give him a gift money of 50 yuan. Later, when you give birth to a baby, the other party has to add some money on top of the 50 yuan. It must be 60 yuan, 80 yuan, etc.

If it is still 50 yuan, then this is not very polite, and it will make people feel that they don't want to maintain the relationship and are disrespectful.

Generally, it is a relatively loose relationship, so how much you follow this time, and how much he will follow next time, if the other party returns the same amount as your gift, it shows that the relationship is not very good, just ordinary relatives and friends relation.

Gift giving is knowledgeable and there are many hidden rules. If you don't understand it, you will probably offend people unconsciously if you follow the gift carelessly. .

When Lu Hao and Su Min got married, Su Jiangang was not married. Logically speaking, he didn't need to follow the ceremony. After all, he and Su Xingmin hadn't separated yet, so he could just attend the wedding.

But at that time, Su Jiangang just followed the gift, and he still followed the gift with 100 yuan. A few years ago, 100 yuan as a gift was not too low. , On the basis of 100, add 10 yuan, 20 yuan, 110, 120, if the conditions are a little better, then add a little more, 150, 200, 300 will not be a problem.

But Lu Hao's business is very big, not better, but much better, so he directly planned to spend 2000 yuan, which is actually nothing to his net worth.

Can there be more? If there is more, it will put pressure on Su Jiangang and Li Xuan in terms of human relations. When Lu Hao and Su Min do something, Su Jiangang and Li Xuan will definitely think about getting married. The gift money will be returned.

If the two of them follow 2 at this moment, Su Jiangang and Li Xuan may think about returning 22,000, 23,000, or even 3.

Repeatedly, there will be no end, and finally the pressure will form.

Weddings and weddings, banquets and dinners are intended to let relatives and friends know that such an event happened, when the old man in the family passed away, and who the younger generation in the family got married and gave birth to, and so on.

The red envelope is a wish, but many people regard it as a comparison or a means of making money.

The taste changes.

On the issue of stuffing red envelopes, Lu Hao had specifically discussed with Su Min that there is no need to stuff too much. If you stuff too much, it will put pressure on Su Jiangang and Li Xuan.

She also agreed very much, so she stuffed 2000 yuan.

This money would be very high for ordinary people, but it is not high for him, and Su Jiangang will pay back this gift in the future, and it will not be difficult for him to pay back.

"I'm not talking about this, this is ready, I know, what I'm talking about is getting married. When welcoming the bride, doesn't Xiaoxuan also have relatives and friends? You have to prepare some red envelopes. It doesn't need to be big, just a few cents , a few cents, and if it’s bigger, put one piece, two pieces, it’s lively, that’s what it means.” Su Min said.

That's what she was worried about, and that's what she meant by the red envelope.

"Don't worry, all these are prepared." Lu Hao said.

I didn't forget this either.

After the family of three went out, Lu Hao helped Su Min go downstairs and sat in Santana. She and Nini sat in the back row.

When the car started, Su Min said again, "Some places will deliberately block the door and not allow you to enter when you come to pick up your relatives, just to make it lively. Please tell Jiangang not to get angry, even if one or two people want to get more red envelopes by this means , also bear with it, on the wedding day, don't be unhappy because of the big guy that a few people make trouble in the end."

"Both he and Xiaoxuan have bought new houses. After getting married, the young couple will live on their own. There will be no disputes. If there is any discomfort in the past few days of marriage, just bear it and pass it. A little older Take it easy, many relatives and friends will come to meet at this time, and they may not be able to meet once in a few years, so naturally they will not be able to say a few words."

She considered the worst.

When picking up the bride, Lu Hao must go there. The man needs someone to accompany him, and Lu Hao also needs to drive. In addition, the car, including the pickup, is also arranged by him, so he must go and follow.

Moreover, he can be regarded as the most prestigious and prestigious among the groom's relatives. He also showed respect in the past and was able to control the situation.

For example, Su Xingmin, Wang Guizhi, Su Min, and Su Yumei must be at home. When it's time for the banquet, go to the hotel a little earlier.

That's why Su Min told Lu Hao to pay attention to the situation and remind Su Jiangang not to make the good day of marriage too rigid.

"Don't worry, I don't need to remind you, Jiangang knows it, he is not so impulsive now." Lu Hao said with a smile, "And we made it so grand, with such a big formation, so many cars and trucks passing by together, Even if they have relatives and friends who are not good at talking, they will not, dare not mess around, and even if they mess up, don't wait for Jiangang to say, Li Xuan's family will be the first to disagree."

Lu Hao tilted his head and glanced at his drowsy daughter who was leaning on the seat, "Nini, are you hungry? When I get to grandpa and grandma's house later, I can eat, bear with it for now. If you are sleepy, just squat for a while, and you can also sleep on your aunt's bed when you arrive at grandpa and grandma's house."

"I don't want to sleep, I want to pick up the bride with you, Dad, and I'm going to have a bridal chamber." Nini said.

This girl doesn't know where she heard it from, and she also knows about the bridal chamber, and she is very interested in the performance of the bridal chamber. She was sleepy in the car just now, and she was taking a nap, but now she regained her energy.

"You want to come with me?" Lu Hao asked, "It will take time to pick up the bride, and it may take more than ten o'clock. Aren't you afraid of getting sleepy?"