1987: Sleepless Tonight

"Yes, when you get older in the future, you can take out videos and photos to see yourself when you were young, and if you have children and grandchildren, you can also show them to see how parents, grandparents and grandparents are young. What it was like when you were married, let's see what it was like when you got married." Zhang Yongqiang also said.

"Will it be too much trouble? We did find someone to take pictures, but we didn't find anyone to record." Su Jiangang said, "It takes a lot of work to treat guests to dinner, and we have to decorate a new house, and we have to prepare other things. Relatives and friends in every household must be notified in advance."

"On the day of the wedding, I have to go to pick up the relatives. I have to get up early in the morning. I have to toast afterward. I am very tired. I will find someone to video and take more photos. I am afraid that this person will lose a layer of skin." .”

Su Jiangang has long been thinking about which guests to invite. On his own side, some of his friends, who either have a good time or have some business contacts, must be invited over.

It looks like an invitation to come over for dinner, but it is actually a respect for the other party. If you forget someone and don't invite, there may be a gap in the relationship. The relationship that was originally very good may also have cracks in the future.

But it’s not possible to invite any relationship. If the relationship is not so close, if you invite, people will say that the invitation is to collect more gift money. They will say that there is no such thing as a weak relationship, and they will say it’s normal. Why didn't I think of myself when I got married, and I didn't think of myself until I got married and asked for gift money. I would say that there are so many people, how much do I have to charge for the gift money alone?

All kinds of gossip.

Whether to invite or not, you have to carefully consider. Familiarity and unfamiliarity are the easiest to solve. You can either invite or not, but some relationships are stuck between familiarity and unfamiliarity. It is really difficult to handle. Consider it over and over again.

Marriage is really like fighting a war.

He was a bit disgusted with trouble, he didn't want to find someone to videotape, and he didn't want to take more photos, so he just wanted to be down-to-earth and hold the wedding smoothly.

"We still need to take more videos and photos." At this time, Lu Hao said.

He quite agrees with what Su Yumei said, "Your eldest sister is right. Marriage is a major event in life. If you have the conditions, you must do it well. Don't leave any regrets."

"Some regrets can be made up for, but most of the regrets do not have time to make up for it. It is easy to go to a photo studio and ask someone to take a video or take a photo, and it does not necessarily mean that you have to wear a wedding photo. What clothes do you usually wear? It looks good, just wear whatever clothes, the two of you walked around, strolled around, and took photos while watching the scenery."

"When you get married, similarly, people can also follow the video and take more photos, including reception, wedding photos and videos, and you can also take more photos and record more, and your relatives and friends attending the wedding can also Recorded and photographed, some relatives and friends are getting older, and they may not have such opportunities in the future, so it is good to keep them as thoughts and memories."

He disagrees with Su Yumei's views on many things, but Lu Hao agrees very much when it comes to wedding videos and photos.

The time in this life of a person seems to be very sufficient, there are seven to eighty years, but in fact the effective time is very short.

When I was young, I always looked forward to growing up. When I grow up, I can be free from the constraints of my parents. I can play around and make money. I can buy whatever food I want, and I can marry the person I like and hold hands. , have the ability to help parents share the pressure of life and reduce their burden.

But when you really grow up, you will find that things are completely different from what you imagined when you were young. When you grow up, you will not only become stronger physically, be able to work and earn money, but at the same time, your responsibilities will also become greater and more. No longer just a son, a daughter, but also someone else's man, someone else's wife, a father, and a mother.

Before I knew it, the protection my parents gave me disappeared, and it was my turn to protect my parents and my children.

And so comes the pressure.

Things that I thought were easy to do when I was a child have become not easy at all.

Originally counting on my fingers, I can finish elementary school in a few years, and I can finish junior high school in a few years. How far is it from turning 18? I wonder why it will take so long.

But when the fingers are in the back, I will find that I have grown up, and I haven't counted for a while. When I think about it again, I am already 50 or [-] years old, and my body is starting to go downhill.

At this time, it is time to recall the time when I was a child.

But in many cases, we can only search for those things from the vague memory, there are no videos, no photos left, and even memories become a luxury.

In memory, those things that I thought were insignificant at first, but when I think about them again, I will regret it. Why didn't I do it at that time, and why did I dislike trouble?

"Marriage is a big event, you can't decide it all by yourself, you have to ask Xiaoxuan what she wants." Wang Guizhi said.

She looked at Li Xuan, "Xiaoxuan, do you want to take more videos and photos? There are still a few days before the wedding, and everything that needs to be prepared is actually almost ready. There are some furniture and home appliances left, when the time comes, you and Jiangang will go shopping together to have a look, then go to your second brother-in-law’s department store and ask him to help introduce them.”

"It's all from my own family. He will definitely not lie to you. He will also introduce practical furniture and home appliances. He will introduce high-quality ones. Don't worry, just go and see them."

"If you don't like the furniture and electrical appliances in my department store, you can go to other shopping malls, such as Jiangcheng shopping mall, and you can also take a look. If you don't like the Jiangcheng shopping mall, you can see it on the TV commercials. As long as you have a favorite brand or a good-looking style, just let me know, and I'll get someone to transfer it for you." Lu Hao said.

He has connections with both the supply and marketing agency and the Municipal Commission of Commerce, so there must be no problem with getting someone to help coordinate and transport the goods from other places.

These two systems already have their own transportation channels, and they are closely connected with other provinces and cities. Helping to transport some goods from other places is nothing more than paying more money.

Previously, several air conditioners from Wanjia Department Store were transported in this way.

"I also want to take more photos and record the wedding process." Li Xuan said.

She actually wanted to.

"Okay, let's listen to you, record more videos and take more photos." Su Jiangang said.

The food is very good, there are meat and vegetables, and fried peanuts are indispensable when drinking.

On the table, the father-in-law Su Xingmin raised his wine glass and said to Lu Hao, "This glass of wine is to be respected to you. Jiangang is getting married soon, so it's a matter of peace."