After the divorce, he regretted his ex-husband too much

"The reason for letting your mother step down is because she is old, and you are 62 years old this year. You are not suitable for both energy and physical strength.

It is not easy to train a headed mistress. For the stability of a large family, the ability and wisdom of the mistress are very important. Although your mother is old, she is as capable as a man and has been in a high position until she retires.

And once you married into the Han family, you have always been a full-time wife. In terms of age, you are not young, and in terms of ability, you do not go to work every day. Your thoughts are out of step with the times, and you are not suitable for the position of the mother of the family! "

Mr. Han mercilessly vetoed it in public, and even lowered Ding Xiaolian's ability. Immediately, Ding Xiaolian's face turned pale.

If she is not suitable, she is not suitable. Why should she be degraded to nothing in front of so many juniors?

Besides, what kind of outside work skills are needed to manage the backyard of the house?

For so many years, she has also suggested many good ideas for her husband's work. Why can't she manage a family well?

Although she thought so in her heart, Ding Xiaolian knew the tricks of the old man, and no matter how dissatisfied she was, she dared not refute.

"What Dad said is that I am not young, and for the long-term plan of the Han family, I should find a younger headed mistress.

No one is more suitable for this person than my Weiwei. She is 35 years old this year and works in the Finance and Taxation Department. "

"Mom, I..."

Before Qian Wei finished speaking, Ding Xiaolian, who was holding her hand, pinched Qian Wei's inner arm severely.

When the heart-wrenching pain came, Qian Wei's expression darkened for a moment, and then she looked at Mr. Han with a smile in her eyes: "If grandpa can trust me, I will definitely do my best to take care of this house."

Although the pain in Qian Wei's eyes flashed so quickly that it was almost invisible, Qiao Ran, who was sitting opposite her, could still see her coming.

Ding Xiaolian's choking was serious, but she didn't show it at all. It can be seen that being choked is a frequent occurrence.

Unexpectedly, Qian Wei, who looks gentle and kind, with an outstanding temperament, turned out to be a little daughter-in-law who was bullied by her mother-in-law.

As the daughter of a family of eight great founding heroes, Qian Wei's status is not low, how could she be subject to such dark air?

It seems that this Qian Wei has a very different temperament from her arrogant and domineering brother Qian Zhijie and her sickly Bailian sister Qian Zhaoxue.

"Sister-in-law, don't you just skip us and find the mistress from the next generation, doesn't it seem that the daughter-in-law of our generation is incompetent? My father said that you are old and a full-time wife.

But our fourth sibling is not very old. She is 42 this year, and she is also the deputy director of the Department of Education and Talents. She has been engaged in education for so many years and is in charge of a family. For her, that is more than enough. "The third wife, Liang Jing, said with a smile.

"It is precisely because the fourth sibling is in an important position that she cannot be distracted from family affairs, not to mention that her two children, one next year's college entrance examination and the other next year's college entrance examination, are the most important time for their studies.

She has to personally tutor the children. If the family affects the studies of the two children, it will be a loss to our family, and it will have a greater impact on the lives of the children.

What's more, as the deputy director of the Yucai Department, how many people are waiting to see the test results of her two children, and she can't let outsiders see the jokes of our Han family, right? "

Listening to the eldest wife Ding Xiaolian's eloquent speech, Qiao Ran secretly praised her in his heart.

As expected of someone who has been in the Shenzhai compound for 40 years, Ding Xiaolian won this round of verbal battles.

"Third sister-in-law, sister-in-law is right, I know you don't want the younger generation to see the jokes of our generation of daughter-in-laws, but I am really powerless, the work outside is heavy, and the two children at home are at the most important moment of their studies.

I'm really not qualified for this job, or you're still the third sister-in-law, you're only 54 this year, Jing Xu and Jing Huan are both working, and Qian Yi is also in college, so you have a lot of energy to focus on housekeeping. "The fourth wife, Feng Qing, looked at the third wife, Liang Jing, with a gentle smile.

"Haha, thank you four younger siblings for looking up to me. I know how much I weigh. I'm just an idle and unpopular university teacher. I don't have many students to attend classes every day. How can I manage such a big family well? I won't be ashamed of myself." It's gone." Liang Jing waved her hands and said with a smile.

Qiao Ran could see that among the wives of the Han family, the third wife and the fourth wife got along relatively well, while the eldest wife was isolated by these two people.

Mr. Han has five sons, the second son died young, and the youngest son, Han Shining, is the old son of Mr. Han. Han Shining, who is 40 years old this year, is not married, so there is no second wife and fifth wife here.

In the dispute between sisters-in-law, there are only the eldest wife, the third wife and the fourth wife.

"If you don't do it, I am old, and my fourth sibling is busy with work and has no energy. Then our generation of daughter-in-law has no suitable daughter-in-law, so why don't we look for the next generation of daughter-in-law? Among the next generation of daughter-in-law, Weiwei is the eldest daughter-in-law, who is the head of the family." Mother's position, who else can take the position of her?" Ding Xiaolian asked with a smile.

As for the head mistress, she couldn't do it, and if it fell on Qian Wei, it was no different from what she could do.

"Sister-in-law, this is not the ancient times. There is such a serious distinction between the elder and the younger. You don't only have Qian Wei as your daughter-in-law. Yaling is also your daughter-in-law. You can't favor one over the other!"

Liang Jingyan laughed and chatted, and led the flames of war to the inside of the big room. Qiao Ran expressed his admiration for this.

This third wife is really a master of house fighting. If this was placed in the ancient emperor's house, she would definitely be the one who had the last laugh.

Gu Yaling was sulking because she was ignored by her mother-in-law. Although Qian Wei entered the house earlier than her, Qian Wei was just a soft bun, and she couldn't beat a boring fart with a stick. How could she have the temperament to be a housewife? Family business?

Because she gave birth to two daughters in a row, she has been secretly laughed at by others, and urgently needs to have a bright identity to stand out outside.

If she became the mistress of the house and walked outside, who would dare to laugh at her?

Just as Gu Yaling was about to speak, Ding Xiaolian snatched her up and said, "Third brother and sister, you didn't listen to what your father said before. The position of the head of the house should not be changed. I want to find someone who is both young and able to work. Yaling is the same as me." She is a full-time wife and has two four-year-old and two-year-old children to take care of, so she doesn't have the energy to housekeeper."

Ding Xiaolian couldn't be Gu Yaling, the housekeeper of the daughter-in-law. Gu Yaling was too quick-witted, and she believed that the Gu family was strong, so she didn't have much respect for her mother-in-law, and her son was a strict wife. How could she support someone she was not sure about?

The back road was blocked by her mother-in-law, Gu Yaling was so angry.

But in front of so many people, she couldn't get angry, she just said obediently: "Grandpa, although I have two children who are young, they are very obedient and obedient. The child is born safely and does not work.

At work, my ability is also very outstanding. If it is not for the unstable pregnancy of the second baby, I will continue to work, and I should have been promoted smoothly by now.

If grandpa trusts me, I will work hard to take care of this family and never let grandpa, grandma and everyone down. "

Gu Yaling is a proactive person, as long as there is an opportunity, no matter whether she can win it or not, she will not give up, and she will show it first when there is a need for it.

Although he didn't know Qian Wei and Gu Yaling well, judging from their personalities, Qiao Ran felt that Gu Yaling was indeed outgoing, cheerful, eloquent, and more suitable to manage a family with complex interpersonal relationships.