Pirate's Strongest Body

I have always believed that fate is a variable, but this variable needs to be created by the master of fate; whether it changes for good or bad, it also needs to be decided by the master of fate.

Wave your hand and the air will change; your destiny will also change due to different thoughts and actions.Thoughts and actions create an aura that belongs to that person, and changes in the aura push different people to different directions in life.

There may be some things that we cannot change, such as our genetic makeup, our family background, and our appearance. These things are determined innately and we can accept them calmly.

There are two main factors that can make our destiny better or worse: one is the environment in which we grow up, especially the influence of our parents; the other is the life state we choose when we grow up.

The influence of parents on their children can be left almost for a lifetime, and it also plays a big role in the future destiny of their children.Meeting good parents is a blessing in life, because since you were born, your parents have been shaping you, carving you like a sculptor.

If parents are positive, optimistic, calm-minded, philanthropic, have good habits, are eager to learn and diligent, and cultivate the same habitual spirit in their children from an early age, then the children's growth process will be on the right track, and they will have the basic skills to move forward in life when they grow up. We encountered various difficulties and obstacles, but our basic fate was not too bad.Of course, whether the parents are qualified has nothing to do with being rich and powerful. We have seen too many cases of rich and powerful parents killing their children. So-called good families may not necessarily give people good lives.

Except for parents, 80.00% of a person's destiny is still in his own hands.In other words, no matter what age we are, we can change our destiny at any time.People live in a state of life created by themselves. Over the years, whether passively or actively, we create a state of life, and then live in this state of life unconsciously. This state of life is called destiny.

So, what we need to do is to change our life state.Let’s analyze it calmly first, what are the key words of the state of life and what are the things that prevent us from becoming better. For example, some people always fall into trivial things when doing things, and never can tell what is most important; some people have never developed the ability to do things that are important. The habit of keeping things clean and tidy; some people are anxious and impatient when things happen, and do not know how to think and deal with them calmly; some people are full of greed, anger and delusion, and their lives are like a fog.If we are in such a state of life, our fate will definitely not be good.

In fact, a good life state is the development of good life habits.It takes effort to develop good habits, but it takes effort to develop bad habits. Therefore, if we are not careful, we will fall into bad habits, such as eating too much, taking advantage of others, and venting our emotions.However, bad habits are harmful to people's life status and drag their destiny into darkness.So we need to develop good habits.

Developing good habits is painful at first. For example, reading and running are things that require hard work. But as long as you persist, good results will appear naturally. The final sense of accomplishment, inner fulfillment, and optimization of destiny are the best. blessings.A person can start by changing small habits. For example, if you have always kept a straight face, now you try to smile to everyone. Soon you will find that the benefits of smiling are far greater than having a straight face. Slowly, smiling will become the state of your life.Such a small thing has already changed your destiny.

My own life is made up of a series of habits that I have developed.My diligence comes from my early morning and late night life in the countryside, my reading comes from the self-encouragement in college and the examples of others, my tidying up the house comes from my inner pursuit of orderliness, and my team spirit comes from my love of playing with my friends since I was a child.This series of habits constitutes my life state, and this state determines the direction of my life.

I am deeply aware of how important developing good habits is to a person's life status and direction, so I strive to constantly move closer to positive and healthy habits.When a habit becomes a state of life, it will produce joy, but not doing it will cause pain.For example, a person who often runs will feel uncomfortable if he does not run for a few days. A person who often reads will feel empty if he does not read for a few days.

The state of life will eventually recreate your life, which is reshaping your destiny.The so-called "Bodhisattvas fear causes, and sentient beings fear consequences" means that we should change and control our own destiny from the source, instead of being helpless and waiting to accept the arrangements of fate.

Everyone has heard of the butterfly effect: "A butterfly in the Amazon rainforest in South America, flapping its wings occasionally, can cause a tornado in Texas two weeks later."

The same goes for changes in our destiny. A small change in your living and working habits can greatly change your destiny in the long run.Become more tolerant in your thinking, be more open-minded about fame and fortune, organize yourself in a more orderly manner, and make use of your spare time. Bit by bit like this, your destiny will gradually change, and it will get better and better.

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