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Xu Jinping wholeheartedly helped the family and wanted to send her younger brother to study, so she delayed finding a partner.

People around her urged her to get married quickly, and Xu Shiyan also felt that he could not delay his daughter any longer, so he kept nagging in front of her all day long.

At the beginning of winter in [-], Xu Jinping went to work in a flooring factory and met a young man.

My family is from Xinglong Township, and I also grow sticks, and I go to work in a flooring factory in winter.

The two got along pretty well, and with the help of others, they got engaged and married soon.

In the new year, Xu Jinping became pregnant and gave birth to a girl.

Marriage is too hasty, and I don't know much in advance.

I didn't know until after the child was born that the man's family was a bit patriarchal, and he was not good to Xu Jinping's daughter, and kept urging him to have a second child.

Xu Jinping's parents-in-law blindly favored their youngest son and daughter-in-law, only caring for their grandson and ignoring their granddaughter.

If it's just like this, that's all. Who can always live a happy life?If the in-laws are not good, the big deal is not to live together and live by themselves.

But no one expected that Xu Jinping's husband would change after he got married.

He likes to gamble. He played mahjong with others all winter and lost tens of thousands.

Other things can be tolerated, but this gambling is unbearable, how can a gambler quit?

One day he swears that he will never go to the poker table again, and the next day he sneaks out to play again.

If you don't give him money, you will find ways to borrow it from others, and you owe a lot of gambling debts outside.

It was not easy to take care of the sticks, Xu Shiyan took people up the mountain to work, helping his daughter get married and take care of the sticks.

How do you live like this?Xu Jinping's temper was absolutely intolerable, so she divorced and took the child back to her parents' home.

Married in [-] and divorced in [-], with a three-year-old daughter.

At that time, Xu Shiyan was also old, and his family no longer planted clubs.

There was no way, Xu Jinping passed the examination for the tour guide certificate, and took a tour group to Changbai Mountain as a tour guide in summer, went to Sanshi to buy goods for sale in autumn, and took her children to sell goods in Anguo in winter.

Anguo sells clubs, not renting a stall and watching the stall all day long as others think.

Instead, rent a room similar to a garage to store goods, and put a bed next to it to sleep.

When the customers in the south came, they sold the goods and opened, and if they didn't come, they just idled every day.

So Xu Jinping used her mobile phone to read books when she was idle and bored. After a long time, she always waited for updates, so she came up with the idea of ​​writing by herself.

Not to mention, this writing was out of control, and I gradually made some money.

Now that she has money, Xu Jinping simply doesn't go to Anguo to sell goods, and opens a mountain store in the local area.

Cooperating with local tour guides, selling to foreign tourists, and selling goods online, and later learning to sell goods live, it is true that I made a lot of money.

Among the three children, Xu Shiyan was most ashamed of his eldest daughter.

When the family had an accident and it was so difficult, Xu Jinping insisted on not letting the third child, Xu Haichao, drop out of school.

Later, Xu Haichao went to a self-financed high school and repeated it for another three years. In [-], he finally got into a junior college to study.

In [-], when there was a policy of one college student per village, Xu Jinping asked her younger sister to take the exam without saying a word.

Xu Jinmei also struggled, and was admitted to Jilin Agricultural University, majoring in animal husbandry and veterinary medicine.

It is conceivable how tiring it is to provide for two college students at once at home. Without the support of the eldest daughter, it is impossible to rely on Xu Shiyan alone.

Later, Xu Shiyan heard the eldest daughter talk about it, saying that if she had another life, she would never want to be the eldest daughter and elder sister again, it was too tiring.

So when he was reborn, Xu Shiyan tried his best to keep his eldest son Xu Haiyuan, and worked hard to make money.

I just want my daughter to enjoy more blessings in the future, which can be regarded as compensation for the suffering of the eldest daughter in her previous life.

But at this moment, Xu Shiyan suddenly became a little uncertain.

He has been reborn, and everything has changed. Now, what is in his wife's stomach, is it still the daughter of the previous life?

Although the parents are still those two people, the food and living are different.

To put it a little harshly, the kang that I slept on was no longer the original one.

Could his eldest daughter be the original one?

Originally, Xu Shiyan was only worried about the daughter-in-law in the delivery room, but after this thought surfaced, it couldn't be shaken off in Xu Shiyan's mind.

What if she is not the daughter of her previous life?Then how will he compensate his daughter?

"God, please, it must be a girl, it must be our Pingzi."

Xu Shiyan clasped his hands together and muttered as he walked.

In the morning, there were people coming and going in the hospital. Although there were few people in the delivery room, some people would still look here.

The people next to him saw a man muttering something while walking, clasped his hands together and looked like worshiping God.

I thought he was mentally ill.

How could Xu Shiyan care about what other people think?He is only thinking now that the daughter-in-law must be the daughter of the previous life.

"Pingzi, come on, come and be a daughter to Dad.

In this life, Dad worked hard to earn money, so you can do whatever you want.

If you want to study, your father will support you to go to college, and if you love writing, let's take the Chinese department of some university.

You said that you don't want to be the eldest daughter in your next life, and your father can fulfill your wish. Now that you have an older brother, someone will love and protect you in the future.

Come on, dad misses you, shall we be father and daughter for the rest of our lives? " Xu Shiyan muttered as he walked, tears were about to fall.

At this moment, a baby's cry suddenly came from the delivery room.

Xu Shiyan was stunned for a while, the child was born, is it his eldest daughter?

Chapter 195 Named

Before the delivery room door opened, Xu Shiyan stood there in a daze, staring at the delivery room door.

It's as if you can see what's going on inside through the door.

After what seemed like a few minutes, and what seemed like a long time, the door of the delivery room finally opened.

Xu Shiyan hurried forward.

"Nurse, hello, has my wife given birth? Is it a girl?" Xu Shiyan asked eagerly.

The nurse was taken aback by Xu Shiyan's question, is there anyone who is looking forward to giving birth to a daughter?Isn't everyone looking forward to having a son?

"Congratulations, the mother has given birth to a younger sister. She is seven pounds and two taels, very healthy, and the mother and daughter are safe."

When the nurse said it was a younger sister, Xu Shiyan couldn't help it, and tears fell.

It's a girl, really a girl, born at this time, it should be his eldest daughter.

"Thank you, thank you, I have a daughter, I have a daughter."

Xu Shiyan quickly raised his hand to wipe away his tears, and thanked the nurse with tears and smiles.

The nurses were stunned by Xu Shiyan's behavior. They had seen happy boys, but they had never seen a girl crying so happy.

"You're welcome, the baby will be brought out immediately, and the mother will be sent to the ward to rest in a while." The nurse turned around and went in again.

A few minutes later, the door of the delivery room opened again, and Zhou Guilan came out with a candle bag in her arms.

Xu Shiyan hurried forward, "Mom, let me see the child."

When his son was born, he was never in such a hurry.

Zhou Guilan frowned slightly, "When this child was born, he didn't know what was on his head. It was like wearing a filial hat. It's not good."

Old people are superstitious, and Zhou Guilan is not immune.

When the baby was born, the fetal membranes just covered the head.

In Zhou Guilan's eyes, it was like a filial piety hat, which was unlucky, so Zhou Guilan was a little unhappy.

On the other hand, Xu Shiyan almost jumped up when he heard this. Yes, it was really his eldest daughter.

In the previous life, when the daughter-in-law gave birth to the eldest daughter, it was the same. Zhou Guilan also said the same thing.

Zhou Guilan said that the child was born wearing a filial piety hat, so he is not considered expensive, and he is afraid that there will be disasters in the future.

Give your child a name called "Ban Da", so let's do it yourself.

As a result, the child was born without a serious name for several years, and the family called the child Lao Dandang.

Later, I was about to go to elementary school, so I could no longer call him by nickname.

Xu Shiyan said, the above two sisters are both in gold in the middle, so let's call them accordingly.

Since it is said that there is a disaster, it is better to call it Ping, and it will be safe in the future, so it was named Xu Jinping at first.

Later, when she moved to Donggang and registered as a registered permanent residence, she didn't know what happened, so she became Jin Ping.

Xu Shiyan thought it sounded good, so he didn't change it, and became Xu Jinping.

"Quick, let me see, my eldest daughter, let dad hug you."

By this time, Xu Shiyan was completely sure that this was the eldest daughter of his family in his previous life.

God really took pity on him and fulfilled his wish. In this life, they are still father and daughter, giving him a chance to make up for his daughter.

Xu Shiyan hugged his daughter so much that he almost forgot that his daughter-in-law was still lying inside.

Fortunately, the nurse came out to remind him, so Xu Shiyan remembered it, and hurriedly handed over the child to his mother, and went in by himself to carry his wife to the ward.

Hospital wards in this day and age have no heating, but there is a fire wall, and the room is still warm.

Xu Shiyan had prepared hot water and warm water bags early on, and the bed was not too cold.

Zhou Guilan made some hot water and mixed it well, dipped a soft cloth in warm water, and wiped some dirt on her granddaughter's face and head.

"You little thing, come here as soon as you come, and bring something with you.

Then you will call it blocking in the future, and block it yourself. "Sure enough, Zhou Guilan still said what she said in her previous life.

"Mom, that's not okay, you call it that, what if outsiders know about it in the future? Do they all call it that?

That child will go to school in the future, so he must not be laughed at? "

When Xu Shiyan heard it, was it okay?

But no, in this life, I can't let my daughter bear such a name for several years, it's too ugly.

In my last life, I moved to Donggang before my daughter went to school, so others didn't know her nickname.

If you still call it that in this life, the neighbors in the neighborhood will know it, and then the classmates in the future will know it too?That would be a joke for a lifetime.

No, absolutely not, Xu Shiyan will not allow such a thing to happen, his daughter must have a nice name.

"Xu Jinping, this is the girl's name. Jin, next to the word Wang, means Meiyu."

Xu Shiyan had already thought of the name. He searched through the dictionary on the mountain and found it.

In her previous life, she was Jin Ping, and the word Jin was not good, especially when the names of the two daughters were put together, they were often teased by classmates.

Why not change it to Jin, a rare and unique jade.

The daughter of his family must be in pain like pearls and jade, a baby, which is a better word.

Zhou Guilan has never been educated and doesn't know anything about Jin and Jin. Since her son is determined, there is nothing she can do about it.

"It's up to you, call it whatever you like." As he spoke, he gently wiped his granddaughter's face.

"Did you hear that? The name your father gave you, Jinping, oh, it sounds so nice."

Zhou Guilan likes children, especially this little granddaughter is chubby and cute when she comes out, how can Zhou Guilan not care about them?

It's just because of that little thing, there is a grudge in my heart.

Since Xu Shiyan and his wife didn't mind, Zhou Guilan didn't want to mention it again.

No one mentions the nickname of Lao Dang Biao.

Su Anying gave birth to a daughter smoothly. This is a happy event, and she has to report the good news.

Besides, it's almost noon, and I have to cook something for Su Anying.

So Zhou Guilan asked Xu Shiyan to stay with her in the hospital for a while, and she went home to cook for Su Anying.