Homecoming of Rebirth

Everything is reckless, that's what monkeys do.The reason why we evolved from monkeys to humans is because we are discovering and solving problems.

But beware! !

The key to transforming from a monkey to a human is to find problems, and! !Solve the problem!

Both are indispensable!

But for us ordinary people, we are ordinary people with no power or influence. We don't have the financial resources like Paulson, nor the ability like Master Tuo, let alone Qi Lei's bad luck.

Ordinary people are the majority, except that we may have the ability to resolve in extremely narrow areas of expertise, in most scenarios, we do not have the ability to solve problems.

Even, because there are not many chips and lack of confidence, they don't even have the courage to face problems.

Then, "discovering the problem" may not bring us any benefit.

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"There is such a sentence in the biography of Lu Xiangxian in "New Book of Tang": 'There is nothing in the world, but mediocrity disturbs it'."

"Western philosophy also says that the sane life is painful."

"What do you mean? It means, don't compete with yourself!"

Qi Lei changed from his usual seriousness or humor in class and reasoning, and became like a fighter, free and easy and bearish.

It's just that everyone in the young eagle class is still confused, and they still don't quite understand what he said earlier.

Jiang Yao looked puzzled, "Isn't it good to make plans in advance, find problems, and avoid risks? There is no problem, right?"

Qi Lei said: "You are talking about two things, and the understanding of these two things is wrong."

Jiang Yao: "????"

Qi Lei, "You are talking about risk assessment and action plan, so they are two different things."

"And what is the purpose of doing these two things, you don't understand."

Jiang Yao represents the general psychology of most people, especially those who are more cautious in character.

It's okay to assess and plan ahead.

But the problem is that the purpose of risk assessment is to keep you awake before you act, and you can see the risks while seeing the benefits.

The value of action plans and programs is to keep you awake during the process of action, and to have a psychological preparation and preliminary prediction in advance of the problems you may encounter and the difficulties you experience.

Note: The key is not risk, not even benefit, but - action!

Because life is not a novel, not a movie or TV series.

For the sake of the tension of the story, film and television and literature often choose extreme scenarios to describe.Generally, it is a situation of either losing or winning, life or death.

But life is different. In life, there are often ambiguous options that will always make you feel pained and entangled.

This is like the postgraduate entrance examination and the high school entrance examination. You can see piles of perfect marks on the middle school exam papers, because the answers are all black and white, either right or wrong.

But in the postgraduate entrance examination, not to mention full marks, 80 points are all rare animals.

Qi Lei went up, even if he was exhausted from politics, he couldn't score 80 points.

This is life. Some people have struggled for several years on the road of testing, exhausted physically and mentally, and go all out.

If you fail in mathematics, you will fail, and if you need 70 points in English, you will get 70 points.

If you can't reach it, you can't reach it. Many people see it like this. I'm not that material, so let me forget it?

But he doesn't know that failing in math doesn't necessarily mean that you won't pass the exam. A score of 70 in English is not bad. How much higher do you want?

The important thing is not to be awake, not to find the problem.

The important thing is to act! !

Looking at the children in the young eagle class, Qi Lei asked a truth that only two generations of people understand, "Do you know what the true meaning of civilization is?"

"What is the meaning of history!"

"Let's talk a little bit more, what's the meaning of your life?"

Everyone was stunned for a while, isn't this question too general?

And Qi Lei's answer was, "It's not vague at all, it can be explained in very common language."

"That's—experience!"

"Civilization is summing up experience, and history is recording experience!"

"And the meaning and height of life is to experience constantly, to grow and sublimate constantly from the experience of trial and error."

"You don't even dare to go through it, how can you talk about success?"

Therefore, it is right to make plans, and it is also right to assess risks and find problems.

However, either you have the ability to solve problems, or you dare to calmly take risks.

If you can't, you might as well put aside your ability to find problems. In fashionable terms, it will only affect the speed at which you draw your sword.

You must know that there has never been a perfect plan or plan in this world, and there will always be flaws and uncertain factors.

Even Qi Lei is a coward, he has to take risks every step he takes, let alone ordinary people?

To put it bluntly, looking at the past and the present, and looking at the world, which immortal king's strategy is foolproof and flawless?Which country's think tank leaders formulate strategies without risks?

The same is true for a country and an era, how can you ask yourself not to make mistakes or take risks in your life?

Qi Lei said this to the young eagle class because he didn't expect everyone to be Tuo Ye, with extraordinary abilities, who could handle risks with ease, or be as steady as an old dog.

This requires talent, and most people do not have such qualities.

Still the same sentence, they are all ordinary people, and they are all ordinary people, so what's the use of finding so many problems?It can't be solved.

What should I do?

Simply do subtraction, reduce your thinking and wisdom, act, choose a similar one and move, at least you can earn some experience if you fail!

(Except for those who have a good father and were born in Rome, it makes sense to choose.)

Rarely confused is not pretending to be stupid!It's useless to play dumb, it's still painful to stay awake.

Sometimes, needing you is so silly!

A monk carries water to drink without thinking.

Two monks carry water to drink, what is needed is cooperation.

The three monks had no water to drink, because all three of them were aware of the problem, but they did not have the ability to solve it.

Of course, some people may think that their own conditions are poor, that I don't have a good father to support me, that I can't afford to lose and must be careful.

All kinds of anxiety and success studies sold on the Internet are also conveying a message: the poor must live cautiously, you can't afford to lose!

Therefore, the so-called "sang culture" emerged, and the word "lay flat" appeared.

The "opportunity only theory" appeared, and the argument that "the times are unfriendly and society does not give people a way to survive" appeared.

This kind of mood is completely understandable. The confusion and sentimentality of youth are the symbols of young people.

It can be said that some shadows can be seen from the post-[-]s, post-[-]s, and post-[-]s. They hate the sky and the earth, have a bleak future, use the online name of a huge funeral, a sad QQ signature, drop out of school and wander, hang out in Internet cafes Playing games, wishing the world would explode tomorrow.

Worse than the current situation is that they still invite cats to tease dogs and fight!

It's just that there is no such prominent and huge online public opinion at present.

At that time, "mourning" was even more decadent, but it was not called lying flat, it was called...

Far away.

Really can't afford to lose?

maybe!Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite, and no one has the right to judge whether other people's choices are wrong or wrong.

Moreover, there are more cruel ones!

That is: we aim at those peers and competitors who can afford to lose, have a good father, and have a high fault tolerance rate. Not only can they afford to lose, but they also have advantages over ordinary people.

Most of them can receive systematic education, not only in school, but also in family.

Among them, except for a few two hundred and five who went astray, most of them completed the unity of money, direction and people when they were very young.

They have trial-and-error capital that we don't have, and have a vision and cognitive ability that are much higher than ours, so that they have developed good thinking skills and problem-solving skills.

Does it sound hopeless?The gap is too big!

A child who came out of a rural middle school and graduated from junior high school may only have learned some basic English.But the children in the capital, their English level can completely cope with the college entrance examination.

High school students in first-tier cities, prestigious schools and aristocratic schools basically master one or more extracurricular skills, while high school students in towns and villages don't even have basic book knowledge.

This is no longer just a question of class transition.

The poor seem to want to improve their lives, and it is very difficult to achieve a slightly better life.

This logic is correct!

It’s true that young people are having a hard time right now, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

However, there is such an interesting logic that is more cruel than the above.

That is: this world never pity the weak!

It will not favor anyone because of your depression, your helplessness, your tragic fate, or even step on it.

Including, many people appeal, look forward to, and hope that the government can improve this situation and give ordinary people a little chance.

But in fact, let alone internal and external troubles, there is no time to take care of both.

Even if it is possible to take care of both, opportunities are not for the weak, but for those who are unwilling to lag behind.

Therefore, there are not many choices left by God for ordinary people, only hard work, there is still a glimmer of life.

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In the information age, information has been endowed with higher efficiency and stronger penetrating power.

There is almost no threshold for knowledge and information, it will be integrated into everyone's life, and it will make everyone knowledgeable.

And the abundance of knowledge brings everyone the ability to discover problems, as well as the pain caused by knowledge.

However, never let knowledge become an obstacle to action.

Before there is no ability to solve problems, maybe "stupid" is not a bad thing at all, and recklessness is not stupid at all.

Action is more valuable than lying down.

No life is smooth and safe, and the difficulties of life must be the helplessness we have to face.

Narrowness and anger are not the means to solve problems, but optimism and positivity are.

Of course, we can still complain, abuse, and even be narrow-minded and angry.

However, leave these negativity to others and be an asshole!

You can scold the old guy for not counting what he says, and he won't change it if he talks about adding more.

It can be satirized that his views are childish and useless, not as thoughtful as you think.

You can face a certain social hot spot, vent your dissatisfaction, and curse that you can't live your life.

These negatives can be used to judge other people's failures.

However, don't use these to excuse your failures and make excuses for your "inaction".

Because, if you just lie flat on your lips, if you still have a heart that yearns for beauty, then for most of the less fortunate people, failure may be the only shortcut to success!

"so……"

At this time, Qi Lei looked at everyone in the young eagle class, "When you are confused, suffering, and helpless, you can complain to your heart's content!"

"But after complaining, wash your face and let the air dry. If you want to feel emotional, choose an unaffordable restaurant, order a bottle of good wine, and have a good time!"

"Then, try to forgive the world and compromise with yourself!"

This is the penultimate lesson Qi Lei gave to the young eagle class.

They are graduating soon!

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