People are in college, start to be a dad

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"But when we are at home, we always call Dabao and Erbao."

"Mr. Lin, your two children are so cute. How old are they this year?"

"It's over a year old this year."

"Oh, my daughter just turned three years old."

"However, this child has been a bit introverted since she was a child, and she doesn't like to talk very much. Originally, I took her to the amusement park to see other children, hoping to change my daughter's introverted personality, but it still can't be changed."

"But fortunately, today I met two children from Mr. Lin's family. My family is Tongtong. It seems that I like playing with them very much."

Children are introverted. Parents should properly guide their children so that they can learn to communicate with others.

When playing outside, parents try to create more opportunities for their children to get in touch with other children, so that the children can play together.

Because peers will have more topics, after a long time, it can effectively improve the problem that children do not like to talk.

Parents spend more time with their children, chat with them, and understand their inner thoughts.

In addition, when parents chat with their children, start from the point of interest of the child and find a way to open the child's heart. When the child's heart knot is opened, the child will gradually love to talk.

For example, when she likes to do something, as a parent, try to let her speak out by herself, don't speak too harshly, and be gentle when speaking.

Adults should communicate patiently and don't force children.

Don’t tell your child that you need to talk more every day because you are in a hurry. If you talk too much, the child will get tired of listening to it, and will have a rebellious mentality, let alone communicate with others.

Parents change their children from the details of life and teach them how to get along with others.

When parents are socializing, they should teach their children basic etiquette, such as visiting guests at home and seeing elders when they go out. Children should learn to say hello to elders and cultivate them into polite children.

And when they do something wrong, their parents should also educate them well. At this time, they should give them the truth instead of yelling at them.

When it is time to punish, it must be punished.

Lin Xuan told Cai Qingshu about his family's education and what he knew.

"We are also educating in this way, but, Tongtong's father is usually busy, and most of the children's education is taught by me."

"Maybe, sometimes, she didn't guide her correctly, which caused her to become what she is now."

"Actually, don't think that the children are young now, but they are very smart and can perceive the attitude of their parents."

As a parent, you should not be too hasty in educating your children, as it will easily lead to other situations.

"We should spend more time with our children and give them a beautiful and happy childhood."

"Mr. Lin, thank you for what you said. After I go back, I will slowly change, and change a method of education."

Cai Qingshu nodded heavily.

In fact, Tongtong is introverted, and they are naturally anxious as parents. It was okay when they were young, but if they were older, this kind of introverted personality might be bullied at school.

In case of being bullied, coupled with the child's introverted personality, it is very likely that they will not tell them.

In this way, children are being bullied without their parents knowing.

With the addition of new friends, Dabao and Erbao seemed very happy, and even took the initiative to chat with Tongtong.

However, Tongtong is still a bit introverted, and every time she talks to them, her face turns red.

But in Cai Qingshu's view, this is a good thing. .

Now there are children who play with Tongtong, although Tongtong doesn't talk as much as they do, but they finally talk, don't they?

She thought to herself, if Dabao and Erbao can get in touch with Tongtong more, meet and play together, maybe they can change Tongtong's introverted personality.

===Chapter 262 Mom, I can eat by myself===

Three children, played in the sandpit for a while, and then went to play other activities suitable for children.

During this process, perhaps because they had a good time with Dabao and Erbao, Tongtong gradually became a little bit more.

This discovery caught Cai Qingshu's eyes, and a happy expression appeared on her face.

It seems that the little guy from home is slowly accepting new friends. .

And the big treasure, the second treasure, can be said to be the first two friends that Tongtong met.

It's approaching noon, Dabao and Erbao are tired from playing, and they are also a little hungry.

Looking at the time, Cai Qingshu smiled and said, "Mr. Lin, it's a pleasure meeting you, why don't I treat you to a meal?" ? '

The reason for eating is also to thank Dabao and Erbao for playing with Tongtong.

"No, let me invite you."

Hearing this, Lin Xuan thought about it and smiled.

"Mr. Lin, I am very grateful to your children for being willing to play with my children, and Tongtong also likes them very much and is willing to talk to them, so let me treat you to this meal."

"I don't know Mr. Lin, do you want to?"

"This... that's fine."

"Okay, Mr. Lin, thank you."

Seeing Lin Xuan nodding in agreement, Cai Qingshu quickly said thank you.

Tongtong, come here, mom will take you to dinner together.

"Dabao, Erbao, come, Auntie invited us to have dinner together."

"Okay, Dad."

Dabao and Erbao walked over together and came to Dad's side.

"Mr. Lin, is there a restaurant outside? It's very suitable for children. Let's go there together later."

"no problem."

Not long after, Lin Xuan brought the big treasure, the second treasure, Cai Qingshu, and his daughter to the restaurant mentioned.

Lin Xuan asked the kitchen to help make two servings of millet porridge.