Marquis Wu sent Zhuge Dali to visit the old heavenly master

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The above content is the experience of poor iron, please think carefully and then implement it according to your own actual situation.

A dialectical understanding is much better than rote memorization or disdain. I hope your emotional path can go smoothly because of my little lesson. Good luck!

s: This is the first lecture of "Lushi Chunqiu" promised to you. I will try my best to update the next 30 lectures every week and put it in the reader group. Students who need it can join the group and wait for updates.

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Extra Story: How to maintain a good relationship between male and female friends for a long time

Lecture [-] of "The Spring and Autumn Period of Lv Family Poor Iron"——Emotional Maintenance (Time Income and Expenditure and Management)

This is what I promised you before.

No ink marks, dry goods.

First of all, I will tell you a concept that can not only be used to maintain relationships - the theory of personal time value satisfaction.

The so-called personal time value maximization theory can be understood as how much time you exchanged for other people's time and how your time income and expenditure are.

Five-star mark: The relationship between people, to put it bluntly, is dominated by satisfaction, and after excluding the influence of hormones (dopamine, etc.), in ninety-nine out of ten cases, as long as your time income exceeds your expenditure, you You will feel "satisfied" with that matter (or person), and ensuring the high satisfaction of both parties becomes the real password to maintain the relationship between you and your boyfriend and girlfriend.

So here comes the question, what is time balance?

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Here I give an example of a simple net loss and net gain-your boyfriend and girlfriend gave you an hour of massage.

During this hour, the other party is in a state of net loss, while you are in a state of net gain.

As a result, your satisfaction has increased, and in contrast, even if your boyfriend and girlfriend did not say it, his or her actual satisfaction has decreased.

Satisfaction drops to a certain level as a result...boo!

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The above example is easy to understand, right?But this is just the simplest one-way win-lose model.

What we are exposed to more in our daily life is actually a win-win model.

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Another example-a 3A masterpiece game may take a top 100-person team 300 days to elaborate, but most players can enjoy it within 100 hours.

In the above example, as far as the individual player is concerned, his time is "received" more than "supported". After all, it only took 100 hours to hedge the two-year work time of hundreds of people-1003008-100, a lot Earn Satisfaction worth 239900 hours.

But if we look at it from the perspective of the R&D team, an individual involved in R&D has spent 2400 hours making a game, and it only needs more than 2400 players to clear the game to offset the cost of his previous time and expenditure. Each additional player will increase his time benefit by 1 hour.

If the final game sales are one million sets, his net time income will reach a terrifying 999760 hours-this is roughly equivalent to earning blood worth 114 years of satisfaction.

The above principles are applicable to almost all entertainment works. Good works are win-win, bad works are lose-lose-good works can achieve the ultimate win-win situation, and the greater the satisfaction this win-win brings to both parties, the better the work will be. influence and reputation.

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In short, human beings are ultimately selfish animals, and everything we do is to earn other people's time for satisfaction.

It's just that successful people will choose an efficient win-win way to obtain satisfaction, while fools will choose an inefficient single-win way to obtain satisfaction, that's all.

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Okay, I believe that you are smart and have thoroughly understood the theory I wrote earlier, so let's enter today's topic:

How to use the method of time income and expenditure management to maintain the relationship with your partner?

——The answer is actually very simple. In your life with your partner, try to do more win-win activities instead of single-win activities.

Win-win categories include but are not limited to: kissing, sports, finding common hobbies, talking about interesting topics that the other party is interested in, spending a little time giving the other party conspicuous and long-lasting gifts, etc. (such as razors, mobile phones, game consoles, underwear, high-end jewelry, etc.).

Single-win categories include: asking the other party to wash clothes and wash dishes (so the dishwasher is really important), asking the other party to wait downstairs, talking about topics that the other party is not interested in, complaining about your own unhappiness, etc.

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The above content is the experience of poor iron, please think carefully and then implement it according to your own actual situation.

(This method can not only be applied to male and female friends, but the same thinking mode can also be applied to family members, customers, and ordinary friends. You must learn to adapt to local conditions.)

A dialectical understanding is much better than rote memorization or disdain. I hope your emotional path can go smoothly because of my little lesson. Good luck!

s: This is the first lecture of "Lushi Chunqiu" promised to you. I will try my best to update the next 30 lectures every week and put it in the reader group. Students who need it can join the group and wait for updates.

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Chapter 358

Ma Xianhong laughed angrily: "Heh~ So this is the style of the health brigade? Sure enough, being famous is worse than meeting."

"Since you are so aggressive, even if Ma is defeated, he can only fight to the death!"

Hearing this, Wang Zhenqiu secretly scolded Ma Xianhong for being too impulsive.

Even if the real boss Meng Lang didn't come, these people in front of him were not simple characters!

Not to mention others, just Lu Ziqiao, who beat the champion and runner-up with one enemy and two slings in the Songshan Tournament, and the crazy woman who once knocked her unconscious with a shovel are already difficult to deal with, let alone the three of them now It was also besieged by the snake formation of the Gu master.

Therefore, after thinking for a while, Wang Zhenqiu resolutely gave up the plan to use force, and stretched out his hand to block Ma Xianhong: "Everyone, don't be impulsive, just talk about it if you have something to say~"

As he said that, he looked at Zhuge Dali with a smile on his face, and played the emotional card.

"Miss Dali, long time no see, do you remember me? I am also from the company, we met before!"

The little girl was expressionless: "Of course I remember Wang Zhenqiu, a temporary worker in the southwest region."

"It's great that Miss Dali knows me!" Wang Zhenqiu laughed, "I'm a temporary worker of the company, and I'm also under the jurisdiction of the health brigade according to the regulations. We are our own people!"

"Then since I'm one of you, let me say something fair?"

"To be fair? Let's hear it." The little girl was noncommittal.

Seeing that Zhuge Dali was not in a hurry to resort to force, Wang Zhenqiu felt that there was a turning point, so he hurriedly explained:

"For one thing, although Biyou Village does have some unusual features, Village Chief Ma neither forces people to collect money nor restricts people's freedom. It is definitely not a cult!"

"Secondly, I lived in Biyou Village for two days. Although I don't have a deep friendship, I, Wang Zhenqiu, am willing to guarantee the life of my brother Zhao Haitang. Master Ma is definitely not a villainous person!

If the health brigade has convincing evidence about harboring fugitives, it must be that Village Chief Ma was deceived by others, and it was definitely not out of his own heart. "

"And these three things... the term private armed forces is actually applicable to all alien forces.