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In the early morning of the next day, my father and mother sat on the snow sledge and left their wealthy home with infinite sadness.

Chinese New Year should be a happy event, but it is not the case for Lao Cheng and his wife. The Lao Cheng and his wife who have worked hard for a year look at other people's family reunions, and hope that their children can come back to celebrate the reunion year together, but the children When they really came back for a reunion, it made it even more difficult for the couple.

The eldest daughter-in-law was thinking about the old man's money, and came to the door despite years of conflicts; the eldest son-in-law was also thinking about the old man's money, causing conflicts among the family; His girlfriend went to the south to participate in social practice; the youngest son was also thinking about the old man's money, and he was idle, hoping to use the money to marry his girlfriend.

This is probably the first time a domestic film has faced the problem of gnawing on the elderly, which has plagued Chinese parents for thousands of years.

If you need something, you can go to your parents. No one wants to face it alone. This is true in countless families in China. Until the time when Yi Qing was reborn, it was still a hurdle that countless parents could not overcome.

Many people say that Chinese family affection cannot stand the test of money.

is not that right?

When the second son reached out to ask his father for money to participate in social practice, his father's face immediately changed: Graduate student, which part of my old man's body is worth some money if you study it.

Is this a father-son relationship?

It makes people suspect that one minute ago, he was kind and filial to his father and son, but when it comes to money, he turns his face and denies anyone.

For money, the second son and youngest son can quarrel at the dinner table and attack each other viciously, and because of money, the sister-in-law can forget all the family affection.

Money, after all, is money.

But does family love really run away as soon as it encounters money?

At the beginning of the story, Lao Cheng piled the money he earned on the table, looked at his wife and said: It all belongs to you.

This sentence, how much love it carries, can only be understood after experiencing it.

When Da Chuan took Er Ting back to her natal home, Da Chuan, who has always lived frugally, bought generous gifts for everyone in the family. In Da Chuan's eyes, money is nothing, and having the blessings of his parents is better than anything else.

At the dinner table, when the two younger sons were yelling at each other for money, Da Chuan was able to say calmly: From now on, I will take care of the two of you brothers.

Money, in fact, is the same thing in front of family affection.

Money is like a mirror, reflecting the faces of various people.

In the eyes of those who love money, money is higher than the sky, and in the eyes of those who value love, love is more important than gold.

Those relatives who are usually called brothers and sisters in the family are just all kinds of ordinary people. Some people love money, and some people value love.

When there is no test of money, everyone is like a family, but once a pile of money is put in front of them, all kinds of faces begin to be exposed. Some people will do anything for money, and some people have no lower limit for money.

The originally harmonious family may immediately turn into a battlefield where you come and go.

Do you say that family love can't stand the test of money?

Perhaps, but in fact, it is not family affection that cannot stand the test, but people, poor people who put money above everything else.

Regarding family affection, it is hidden above the line of money. No matter how much you desire money, it cannot match the family affection that blood is thicker than water.

When Yi Qing watched this movie in his previous life, he had a very friendly feeling. Although his hometown was not in the Northeast, what happened in the movie seemed to happen around him.

Rural couples, working hard to raise their children, go their separate ways if they can, and come back during the Chinese New Year to reunite. This scene keeps happening around them.

In the story, it seems that everyone is fighting for money, but in fact, not the whole story revolves around the money earned by the father. affection.

In the story, the youngest son, who is not doing business properly, stepped forward when he knew that his brother-in-law was someone outside, and fought for his sister's injustice.

The second daughter came home, and the parents had 1 dissatisfaction before. When the daughter came home, the mother hugged her tightly and said "Mom misses you", which made people burst into tears.

When the father heard the news that his second daughter was pregnant, he could only swallow his previous anger and secretly shed tears. This means that even though you hurt him thousands of times, he is still willing to accept your affection unconditionally.

The eldest sister-in-law is an unreasonable person who only has money in her eyes, but because she is the eldest brother's woman, everyone can bear it and accept it, which is also family affection.

What is affection?

This is not a vocabulary that can be defined in a few words. Sometimes it may be the nagging of seven aunts and eight aunts, sometimes it may be self-defeating, sometimes it may be unconditional acceptance, and sometimes it may be selfless dedication.

Without kinship, people are just a lonely member of the world. Only with kinship can we have roots and a vibrant home.

Regarding conflicts, they exist in every family, between father and son, between brothers and sisters, between husband and wife, the spatula hits the stove, whose family is not bumped like this.

No family is harmonious all day long, some people have differences, and differences may lead to quarrels.

In the story, the seemingly harmonious family is full of contradictions.

The conflict between parents and children of strong parents, when the father heard that the second son also borrowed money from the family to go out for social practice, he was completely puzzled and said that he had no money.He couldn't understand the so-called social practice. In his opinion, it was traveling.

There are also many conflicts between the idle young son and his father. His father can't understand his lazy work, and hates his extravagant spending.

The second daughter's marriage was not approved by the father, so the second daughter almost broke with the family.The father couldn't imagine that the youngest daughter, who had always been his dearest and most beloved, broke with his parents because of a man.

The conflict between the daughter-in-law or son-in-law and the original family members, when talking about friends or dating, parents may interfere, and getting married has to go through the hurdle of parents who have split countless enemies, children can't understand, marry a wife (marry) It was with him (her), why should the old man intervene.

This is not the case. Parents and daughter-in-law (son-in-law) always live under the same roof. When parents intervene in their children’s marriage, they also hope to find a daughter-in-law (son-in-law) who can live in harmony with them.

In the story, the sister-in-law has conflicts with the whole family. The snobbish sister-in-law is not popular in this family. Everyone accepts her only because she is the eldest brother's wife and Haohao's mother, not because of her.

How to deal with this contradiction is not given in the story. During the quarrel, the elder brother who had been drinking angrily slapped the strong wife across the face, and the sister-in-law turned over the table in front of the whole family, repeating the actions of last year. .

The conflict between the eldest son-in-law and other brothers and sisters, the eldest son-in-law's glib tongue, seems to be both right and left, but in fact he has evil intentions, fooling the honest parents, but can't escape everyone's eyes.Everyone was friendly, talking and laughing, but secretly did not approve of this brother-in-law.

The conflict between children is actually not the children, but the interests. It is not a matter of scarcity but inequality. This is a problem that China has not been able to solve for thousands of years.

In the story, the quarrel between the two young sons is all about money.

One accuses the other of being idle and not doing a job, so he knows to rely on his parents to live a life, and one also accuses the other of taking all the good things, and now he still has to dig out his parents' hard-earned money to go out and have fun.

The brother who was supposed to be the closest, was beaten red-faced and thick-necked in front of money, like an enemy.

On the contrary, married daughters generally do not have conflicts with brothers, because there is no conflict of interest between them.

As the saying goes, a married daughter is like water poured out. This truth is widely accepted in traditional Chinese culture. From a moral point of view, after a daughter is married, she has the obligation to fulfill her filial piety, but she cannot enjoy the property of her parents.Therefore, conflicts between married daughters and brothers are also avoided.

This film, which was filmed in the 90s of the last century in the previous life, is still a classic even if it is watched more than ten or twenty years later. The wonderful performances of the actors, the discussion of traditional family conflicts and ethics, and the depiction of traditional families, Created this classic, the real without a bit of cover-up, without affectation.

After finishing the last stroke, Yi Qing raised his head and looked out the window. It was already dark, and he was surprised to find that he had spent a whole day writing in the study.

After tidying up the manuscript, I went out to exercise my muscles and bones, and saw that the lights in the main room were on. It was obvious that Fu Yiwei was still awake and had been waiting for him.

Walking over, pushing the door open and entering the room, one could see at a glance that Fu Yiwei was leaning on the head of the bed, the TV was still on, but the program had long since disappeared.

Hearing the noise, Fu Yiwei woke up, rubbed his eyes, and looked at Yi Qing standing in front of him.

"Did you finish writing?"

"Well! Finished writing, why don't you go to bed?"