Indeed, if you want to have a firm ideal, you must have personal experience. Only after personal experience can you strengthen your heart.Otherwise, it will be difficult to cultivate your own ideals if you rely solely on imagination.

But it is precisely this kind of experience that not every family has the conditions for their children to experience.

For example, a child's ideal is to be a corporate executive, and he likes to sit in the office and give advice.So unless there is a company at home, it is impossible for a child from an ordinary family to personally experience what it feels like to be a company executive.

Maybe he just got the feeling from the Internet that being a corporate executive is cool.But if you don't experience it yourself, you can never prove that he really likes it.Because every job has its pros and cons.It's really cool to sit in the office and give advice, but not everyone can adapt to and bear the business, manage subordinates, and intrigue with opponents.

So there is actually no difference between such false ideals and blindly filling in volunteers.

Su Chen also knew this, so he just lay on the bed and talked to his wife, instead of making this point of view public.

"I know you have to think about it, but daughter-in-law, we don't care about other people's children, but we can't ignore Xiaoyu. Other people's families don't have the conditions, but our family has whatever they want. No matter what job Xiaoyu wants to try, I can think about it." A way to let her take advantage of the summer vacation to experience it for herself!

Our family doesn't have much else, only money! "

Chapter 220

"Then what do you want to do?" Gu Qingya asked.

Su Chen shrugged. "What I do naturally depends on what Xiaoyu thinks, and I have to discuss this matter with her. But before that, don't I have to ask for your permission first?"

Gu Qingya laughed and said: "You are the one who said this, listen to what you mean, how can I be the master of our family's affairs?"

Su Chen was taken aback. "My wife, you hurt my heart by saying this. In terms of family affairs, I remember that I have always been very obedient, right? Besides, this is not right. Our parents have always been decided by their mother-in-law. My wife, what are you thinking?" ?”

It's not that Su Chen has a tendency to be masochistic, so he insists on making ears.He just felt that it was not good for Lu Qingya to be patient with her all the time.The most taboo between husband and wife is to have heart knots. Once this kind of forbearance goes on for a long time, even if Gu Qingya loves Su Chen, she will think wildly, so Su Chen must let Gu Qingya completely untie the knot.

And he has no secrets other than the system, and he is not afraid of Gu Qingya's picketing.In the end, even if Gu Qingya's housekeeper attributes were aroused, he would recognize it.

Su Chen never thought that there is something wrong with being afraid of his wife, and having a wife take care of him is also a kind of happiness.Of course, the premise is that the wife is sensible. If it is the kind of woman who is strong at home and outside, it will be a disaster for the man. Such a relationship between husband and wife is two different things from loving his wife.

Su Chen believes that Gu Qingya is not the second type, which can be seen from her mother-in-law.

Gu's mother has held Gu's father to death for so many years, but outside, there are no rumors that Gu's father is afraid of his wife, and Gu's father does not have that kind of weak and unconfident temperament. Obviously, outside, Gu's mother must He did a good job of maintaining Gu's father's face.

In fact, this is what smart women do.A woman is in charge of the house to run the house, but outside, only if she maintains her husband's face in place, then she will also have face in the same way.

Those women who think they are proud of bullying their husbands will never realize that when others praise her in front of her, they will also call her a tigress, a hag, and a prodigal daughter behind her back!

After hearing this, Gu Qingya shook her head. "That's different. Compared with my mother, I was completely defeated at the beginning!"

"What do you mean? Why did you lose completely?" Su Chen was confused.

"What do you think?" Gu Qingya sighed softly, and said quietly: "Husband, as a wife, the biggest confidence in the family is that her husband still loves her, and she is confident that her husband will love her forever! What do you think, Do I have the confidence?"

"why not"

Before Su Chen could finish speaking, he came to his senses and fell silent.

He finally understood.What Gu Qingya said was lack of confidence, it was his playfulness.

However, if Su Chen treats his feelings consistently, then Gu Qingya will really have the confidence, because it is the life of two people, and there is no retreat for each other.

But now Su Chen has a way out, that is to say, if one day Gu Qingya makes Su Chen unhappy, Su Chen can leave Gu Qingya at any time and find another woman.As for Gu Qingya, she has no way out, and, in order to maintain her uniqueness, she has to do her best so that Su Chen doesn't get bored with her.

In this way, where does she have the confidence to domineering in front of Su Chen?

Su Chen was silent for a while, then sighed, hugged Gu Qingya tightly in his arms, and said in a low voice: "Honey, if I say that I'm not the kind of person who loves the new and dislikes the old, you probably won't believe me, right?"

Gu Qingya snuggled into Su Chen's arms, silent.

However, Gu Qingya's silence made Su Chen feel pain for no reason.

Su Chen really loves Gu Qingya, if at the beginning his feelings for Gu Qingya were just the thrill of meeting him for the first time, but after getting along with each other later, Su Chen has fallen in love with Gu Qingya unconsciously and completely.

Gu Qingya's gentleness, understanding, kindness and consideration have become the softest existence in Su Chen's heart. It can be said that Su Chen really loves Gu Qingya to the bottom of his heart.

Su Chen likes Gu Qingyu so much, Gu Qingyu's cuteness is certainly a factor, but the most important thing is Aiwujiwu.In an instant, Su Chen completely understood his feelings for Gu Qingya.

It can be said that Gu Qingya was the first woman Su Chen grew up to make him feel the warmth of home. It was a real "if you are well, it will be sunny" feeling.If it weren't for true love, it would never be possible to experience this feeling.

Su Chen was silent for another moment, then exhaled, and said in a low and firm voice: "Honey, I know you blame me, and I also know I'm greedy, I can't turn myself back, but you are my wife, this point, no matter now Or it won't change in the future. I know that no matter what I say now, you won't believe it, but if you believe in me, I will definitely let you have this confidence!"

When Gu Qingya heard this, she raised her head in disbelief. "No! I agreed that you and Xiaoshi were together at the beginning. If you turn around now, what will you do with Xiaoshi? And in that way, I will become a villain who goes against my promise. There will definitely be conflicts between you and me. gap."

Su Chen smiled. "My wife, you think too much. Do you think that a scumbag like me would be willing to give up Xiaoshi?"

Gu Qingya gave Su Chen a white look. "That's right, I've never seen such a domineering but shameless man like you."

"Hey, if I wasn't overbearing, how could I marry you?"

"Virtue!" Gu Qingya gave Su Chen a white look. "That being the case, how can you make me regain confidence?"

"It's very simple!" Su Chen yawned, and said, "Actually, my wife, you haven't learned the true skills of your mother-in-law. You don't understand what the real confidence between husband and wife is.

Not being bothered is confidence?There are so many couples in the world, and most of the couples love each other to the death and promise each other for a lifetime when they get married, but as a result, the divorce rate in our country has remained high.

To put it bluntly, even if there are no poems, even if I keep my life clean now, my wife, you can be sure that I won't cheat in marriage?And in comparison, cheating in marriage should be more hateful, right?At least I'm more honest!In terms of feelings, I will never hide anything from you! "

Gu Qingya was annoyed when she heard this. "You are making unreasonable words. Then tell me, what is my confidence?"

"Hehe, it's not easy to guess? Nothing in this world can escape the words power, wealth and love. And the three are complementary. Only with feelings can there be rights, and power needs to be supported by interests." , Interests need love to maintain!

The current situation between the two of us is that the relationship is not stable, so the right is meaningless.So in order to protect rights, we can only benefit.Conversely speaking, using interests to stabilize power is equivalent to indirectly stabilizing love! "

"What is this all about?" Gu Qingya was confused by Su Chen. After a while, Gu Qingya's eyes widened instantly. Looking at Su Chen, she said in surprise, "You want me to control the family's financial power!"

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Chapter 221 Are you trapped in a cocoon?

"Hehe, it can't be my wife, it's just smart!" Su Chen said with a smile.

However, Gu Qingya didn't laugh, but said seriously, "No! I don't agree!"

"why?"

"Husband, as I said at the beginning, I like your people, not your money. I can accept your gift to me, my parents and Xiaoyu. That is your love for me, so I can accept it with peace of mind.

But that is not the same thing as wielding financial power.If you really gave me all your money, wouldn't that mean that I was running for your money from the beginning?I don't want the relationship between us to be mixed with interests, and this kind of relationship and confidence are too utilitarian, I don't need it! "

Su Chen heard the words and sighed.

To be honest, Su Chen had expected Gu Qingya's reaction a long time ago.It wasn't because of Gu Qingya's perfect affection for him, but because he knew Gu Qingya too well, and it was this kind of Gu Qingya that fascinated Su Chen.

Su Chen said helplessly: "Then what should you do with your confidence?"

Gu Qingya curled her lips. "Why do you have to be confident? You have to let me control you?"

Su Chen giggled. "Hey? You're right, I'm just a scumbag, and I always feel uncomfortable when no one cares about me!"

Gu Qingya didn't know whether to laugh or cry. "Okay, then don't blame me for controlling you too tightly in the future! And, do you really think that I have no confidence to control you?"

Su Chen was taken aback, and said in surprise, "Isn't it?"

"So, smart people will always be misled by themselves. Why do you think I have no way out? Why do I feel that my way out is wider than yours? Think about it, if one day, we are separated, then I am cool I just want to leave you. I believe that I will not love you at that time. Since I don’t love you, will there be any loss if I leave? On the contrary, once you dare to leave me, it means that you are a person who loves the new and dislikes the old , then what do you think your friends will think of you by then? Will your backyard catch fire? "

"Aha?"

Su Chen was stunned!

What the hell!

Is that right?

Can it still be analyzed like this?

So what has he been doing all day?Isn't this digging your own grave?

Su Chen was dumbfounded.

No, why does he always feel that something is wrong?

How did things become like this?What was their first topic?

Looking at his daughter-in-law with a calm face, Su Chen suddenly felt that he seemed to have broken into a valley, and there were five towering peaks around the valley.

"Daughter-in-law, is it too late for me to return now?"

Gu Qingya smiled sweetly. "It's late! Sleep!"

"Don't! Daughter-in-law, I feel so cold right now, I can't sleep!"

"Then I don't care about you. Tell you, don't torment me, or don't blame me for not letting you sleep on the bed!"

"hiss!"

Damn, it's such a familiar line!

What the hell did I do?

Is it bad to live?

Su Chen suddenly felt that his future married life was gloomy

Self-inflicted!It deserves it!

Su Chen turned over and thought about life quietly by himself. After owning the system, he suffered from insomnia for the first time.

The next day, Su Chen got up early, or he didn't sleep much all night.

Su Chen's head was buzzing when he thought of what he did to cheat himself last night.

Fortunately, his body has been modified by the system, even if he didn't sleep all night, he is still full of energy, without any sequelae of staying up late.

After getting up, Su Chen went downstairs to stretch his body. There are many people in the community. This is an old community, and there are many old men and women living there. Su Chen did not practice martial arts. After all, his morning exercise was a bit noisy.

For simple activities, Su Chen went to the vegetable market, bought some vegetables, and came back to make breakfast.

When they got back upstairs, both Gu's father and Gu's mother woke up. Seeing Su Chen coming back from shopping, the old couple were startled.

"You child, why do you wake up so early?"

Su Chen smiled and said, "Auntie, I'm used to it. I wake up so early every day when I'm at home."

Father Gu nodded appreciatively. "Yes, it is not easy for young people to have the good habit of going to bed early and getting up early."

Gu's mother took the food from Su Chen's hand, and complained happily: "What's the matter, you silly boy, you have been working since you came to the house, auntie is too old to move, you don't need to show it, go back quickly Sleep, just leave it to Auntie!"

When Father Gu heard this, he hesitated for a moment, and said, "Well, Lao Han, let Xiaochen do it. It's not a bad thing for young people to exercise more!"

"Go to the side!" Gu's mother glared at Gu's father without hesitation. "Are you trying to train Xiaochen? You're just greedy for his skills! What's the matter, I've worked so hard to serve you three for half my life, and now I'm starting to dislike my cooking? Do you want me to make room for you? Find another wife who cooks delicious food?"

Father Gu faltered instantly, and sighed helplessly. "This is in front of the child, what are you talking about?"

Mother Gu didn't care. "Then what's the matter? Xiaochen is not an outsider, he is my own son. If you dare to forgive me, I will point to Xiaochen to make decisions for me!"

Father Gu was completely at a loss, shook his head helplessly, turned and went to the bathroom.

Can't be provoked or can't hide?

"Virtue?" Gu's mother rolled her eyes at Gu's father, then chased after her and said, "Don't rush to wash your face, you haven't boiled the water yet, you just caught a cold, don't catch a cold anymore!"

Su Chen looked at the noisy caring for his father and mother. To be honest, he was really envious. This is the life that normal people should have.

But it's a pity that he can't enjoy it anymore. The moment he becomes a rich man, he is destined to have nothing to do with ordinary people!

Hey, I don't want to be separated from the masses, and I'm not interested in money either!

Su Chen "wailed" meanly in his heart!

After washing the vegetables and noodles, Su Chen quickly prepared breakfast.

Although Gu's mother was stubborn, Su Chen could tell that she also hoped that Su Chen could make breakfast.Obviously, Mother Gu also knew that the dishes she cooked were mediocre, but she just refused to admit it because of embarrassment.

Su Chen was cooking here, while Gu's mother started again.

Holding the broom, Gu's mother first opened the second child's room.

Thunderbolt splash!

"Ah? Mom! What are you doing? I'm sleepy!"

"Damn child, still sleeping? What time is it?"

"What time? Damn, it's only six o'clock!"

"It's still late at six o'clock? The sun is shining on your ass! Still not getting up? Look at your brother-in-law, who gets up early in the morning to cook. It's not like you. He's seventeen or eighteen, and he's too lazy to act like a pig. Which in-law's family will want you"

Gu Qingyu: ""

After a while, Gu Qingya's room.

"And you, if I don't tell you, you can't afford it? Look at you so lazy? It's just that Xiaochen has fallen in love with you! Let me tell you, you will treat Xiaochen better in the future. Look at you How has she been bullied? Judging by her proficiency in cooking, she was trained by serving you, right? You have been outside for so many years, and you have learned a princess disease?

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