What to do if everyone treats you as a scumbag

It was impossible for Lu Ruorong to say such words, and Luo Xiaofei would not say them either.

But Zhao Xiaoan's words like this couldn't be more normal.

Chen Zihan didn't care about Zhao Xiaoan's nonsense, so he got into the car and left.

In the morning, the two of them went to Baicao Garden first, and then took a Upon boat for a circle.

After finding a restaurant with a local flavor for lunch, I went to Shenyuan.

In fact, Shen Garden is a very cost-effective scenic spot. It is just an ordinary Jiangnan garden, but the tickets are quite expensive.

The love story between Lu You and Tang Wan made Shen Yuan famous.

"Hey, what do you think about Lu You and Tang Wan?" After entering the Shen Garden, Zhao Xiaoan asked Chen Zihan curiously, "What do you think about our ancient polygamy system?"

"First of all, to correct you, there has never been polygamy in Chinese history, and some have only monogamy and multiple concubines. A person who is an emperor can only have one wife under normal circumstances, and that is the queen. If a wife marries into the family, you can Go through the front door, but when concubines enter the door, they are not even qualified to go through the front door. A concubine or a concubine with the same status as a concubine can never become a regular wife. Under normal circumstances, no one dares to have two wives at the same time, otherwise you will be in trouble There will be many. The three wives and four concubines we often beat have never appeared in the history of China."

"Hey, why are you so excited?" Zhao Xiaoan looked at Chen Zihan in surprise, "Are you dissatisfied with not being able to have three wives and four concubines? Oh, I understand, why you hooked up with Luo Xiaofei, dare you really want to have one?" Can you hug right and right for a day?"

Chen Zihan didn't want to talk to Zhao Xiaoan anymore.

Unexpectedly, Zhao Xiaoan did not intend to let him go, took his arm, and asked seriously: "If you are allowed to marry several wives at the same time, will you be very happy?"

"What do you want to express?" Chen Zihan frowned.

"I just want to know, do you like several women at the same time? Do you want to have them at the same time?"

"Congratulations, you got it right! No man would dislike it."

"..." Zhao Xiao'an was a little angry, "Faceful carrot!"

Chen Zihan didn't take it seriously, "If you don't like me, you think I'm fickle, just stay away from me!"

"Damn guy!" Zhao Xiaoan was a little mad, "You are boring!"

She knew that Chen Zihan was teasing her, so she didn't take her question seriously.

Chen Zihan looked indifferent, "I like it so boring, you bite me?"

"Okay, I won't ask you that question!"

Chen Zihan looked annoyed, but finally dispelled Zhao Xiaoan's interest in breaking the pot and asking the bottom line.

"You haven't answered my previous question!" She was still a little angry.

Chen Zihan looked sideways at Zhao Xiaoan, "Do you want to say that Lu You is also a scumbag? Although Tang Wan divorced, after seeing Tang Wan marry someone else, he was still very unwilling, and he still wanted to tease him when he met her." She, as a result, made Tang Wan unhappy, and finally died of depression?"

"Isn't that so?" Zhao Xiaoan looked at Chen Zihan with wide eyes, "I recognize Lu You's achievements and his patriotism, but emotionally, he is just a scumbag. After divorcing Tang Wan, he soon married another Wife, don’t let go of your ex-wife, damn it!”

"Miss Zhao, you have to think about issues in the context of that era, and you can't apply the current ethical concepts." Chen Zihan looked at Zhao Xiao'an with a sullen expression, "I know you are very feminist, and you hate what you just said What three wives and four concubines, I hate that a man can have multiple women at the same time in ancient times. But if you understand the historical situation of the situation, you will not think so!"

Zhao Xiaoan looked at Chen Zihan in surprise: "Oh, then I want to hear what Mr. Chen has to say!"

"Let me give you an example. During the Sui Daye period, the population was about 5600 million, but by the beginning of the Tang Dynasty, there were only less than 2000 million left. The war caused a large decrease in the population, and most of the reduced population were young and strong men. Although it is not clear statistics, but it is certain that the ratio of men to women will be seriously out of balance after the chaos. You can refer to South Vietnam, which once fought with us. In the 1949s, their population ratio was still seriously out of balance. The proportion of female population was much higher than that of men. Many women could not find When people get married. The population base is small, only tens of millions of people, and the absolute value of men is reduced by several million. This population ratio problem is very serious. Don’t talk about things around [-]. At that time, the population base was large, hundreds of millions People, although the ratio of men to women is out of balance after the war, it is not terrible."

"The population ratio is out of balance. If you require a man to have only one woman, then many women will only be leftover women for the rest of their lives. This will definitely cause huge social problems, and it will not be conducive to the reproduction of the population. In the early Tang Dynasty, the official downgraded twice. After reaching the marriageable age, a woman can get married at fourteen, and if she does not marry at eighteen, she will be punished. There are also regulations on how many concubines a person can take. The purpose of such regulations is of course not to destroy women, but to speed up the population. Increase."

"During the Song Dynasty, wars were frequent, and the situation was similar to what I just said. In addition, in ancient China, men were respected, and women's status was relatively low. When men completely dominated society, some women could only rely on one man It is also normal for a man to dominate multiple women. Of course, the people at the bottom cannot afford to support a single woman, and don't even think about taking concubines. We can't use modern thinking to beat the normality of that era. Now, it’s just like we don’t need to hit the mother’s society where many children don’t know who their father is and the current phenomenon of walking marriages.”

"What do you want to tell me?" Zhao Xiaoan, who is a scumbag in history, looked at Chen Zihan with a confused face.

"Existence is reasonable. Don't use the current ethical concepts to criticize historical issues. Lu You was forced by his mother's strength and finally divorced Tang Wan. Although we can accuse him of cowardice, but when Xiaoyi is greater than the sky, he is not like this If you do it, you will still be criticized by the mainstream class at the time. In fact, why don’t you condemn Lu You’s mother? Many tragedies are women making things difficult for women. Tang Wan is an example, and the tragedy of Peacock Flying Southeast is similar. Countless Most of the family conflicts are due to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although men are responsible for many tragedies, the root cause is the small-mindedness of your women, and women are the main source of family disputes."

Chen Zihan didn't want to talk about this matter, waved his hand, and said domineeringly to Zhao Xiao'an: "You are a history novice, don't worry about this kind of thing. Let's take a step back and think about it. If there is no tragedy of Lu You and Tang Wan , it is impossible for us to see these two famous "Phoenix Hairpin" now. The tragedy of love has created many classics, such as "Blessings of Love" and "Dream of Red Mansions". Happiness will be submerged in the ordinary life day after day. Scars will be remembered forever. Do you understand?"

Zhao Xiaoan glanced at Chen Zihan aggrievedly, and said in a low voice, "I just have a grudge against Lu You for being so ruthless to Tang Wan, and I'm also worried that if an outstanding person like you is paid attention to by many beautiful women, will he step on two legs?" A boat, will you abandon the woman who likes you all the time!"

"How could I step on two boats!" Chen Zihan sneered twice.

"That's good!" Zhao Xiaoan laughed.

Chen Zihan glanced at Zhao Xiaoan twice, and sneered in his heart.

This woman is not smart enough sometimes!

Chapter 249 You Can't Be Saved

This time I came to Yuezhou in a hurry, Zhao Xiaoan forgot to bring my camera.

This made her very sorry.

Originally she wanted to rent or buy a digital or SLR camera.

But Chen Zihan said, just remember the beautiful scenery in your heart, don't be as clichéd as others.

Zhao Xiaoan had no choice but to give up.

"Come on, take a photo with me!" Although Zhao Xiaoan was a little angry, he dragged Chen Zihan to take a photo after seeing a photo spot.

When taking photos, she was also dishonest, either holding Chen Zihan's arm or lying on his shoulder.

This made Chen Zihan a little dumbfounded.

But he couldn't get rid of Zhao Xiaoan, so he could only let her torment him.

Anyway, he wouldn't want such a photo, Zhao Xiaoan could just keep it for himself.

After taking a few group photos, Zhao Xiaoan asked Chen Zihan again solemnly: "Do you believe in love that lasts forever?"

Chen Zihan froze for a moment, then immediately thought of Jin Xiaolan, and finally shook his head: "I don't believe it!"

"Why?" Zhao Xiaoan was surprised.

Chen Zihan looked up at the sky, and said softly, "Because everything will be defeated by time and space."

"I don't believe it!" Zhao Xiaoan said stubbornly: "I think, if I really fall in love with someone, I will love him forever."

"When you're young, everyone thinks that way!" Chen Zihan sighed slightly, "When you reach a certain age and have experienced many things, you will realize that this statement is really ridiculous."

"It seems that you have experienced many things." Zhao Xiaoan looked at Chen Zihan very dissatisfied: "That's because you don't love one person enough. If you really fall in love with this person with all your heart, you will definitely love him for the rest of your life."

Chen Zihan and Zhao Xiaoan stood face to face, and said with a smile: "A distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, you must have heard this saying?"

Zhao Xiaoan frowned beautifully, "What do you mean?"

"No matter how close a relationship is, if it is separated by time and space, it will definitely fade away; any kind of intimate relationship is born because of frequent contact. A person with a good relationship, because separated by a long distance , and there is still a distance of time, the weight and status in your heart will definitely fade away. An irrelevant person, because he often appears in your life, eventually affects your life, and his status in your heart will gradually change. Heavy." Chen Zihan asked Zhao Xiaoan, "A few years, more than ten years, and a distance of tens of thousands of kilometers, can you maintain the passion of your relationship?"

"As long as I love this person very much, sure!"

Chen Zihan said again: "There is a very good saying: companionship is the longest confession of love. This saying applies to the relationship between relatives, and it also applies to the relationship between lovers."

Zhao Xiaoan looked at Chen Zihan suspiciously: "How do you feel that you have been hurt emotionally?"

Chen Zihan shook his head and didn't want to talk about this topic again.

His emotional injuries and what happened afterwards directly led to a change in his outlook on life.

Zhao Xiaoan sensed something special from Chen Zihan's strange expression, but in the end she didn't ask any more questions.

Her mood was affected a little, but she quickly returned to the original state, and continued to drag Chen Zihan around.

At two o'clock in the afternoon, the annual meeting of medical examination officially ended.

After speaking for more than ten minutes at the closing ceremony, Wu Qingyuan was about to leave.

There are still some private activities later, but Wu Qingyuan no longer wants to participate.

From Yuezhou to Wushang, there is no expressway yet, and it takes about two hours to take the provincial road.

This time passed, and it was not too early to arrive in Wushang, not to mention that Chen Zihan said to take them to Lanting first.

When they received a call from Wu Qingyuan, Chen Zihan and Zhao Xiaoan had already left Shen Yuan and were about to go back to the meeting place.

After receiving Wu Qingyuan's call, she rushed over immediately.

He briefly bid farewell to the other participants, and then made an agreement with Ning Yuezhen that after meeting Wushang tomorrow, Chen Zihan would take Wu Qingyuan and Zhao Xiaoan to Lanting.

The three played in Lanting for more than an hour, took a few photos at the photography point, and then continued to Wushang.

While playing in Lanting, Chen Zihan took the opportunity of going to the bathroom and sent Lu Ruorong a few messages.

He said that he played with a few people in Lanting now, but he didn't feel the taste he should have.

After a while, he brought her over to play again. I believe they should have more fun coming here to play.

"Actually, I really yearn for Yuezhou." Lu Ruorong also told Chen Zihan his true thoughts, "Yuezhou is a famous city, full of the charm of Jiangnan water town, although Zhouzhuang, Tongli, Wuzhen and other places are also famous towns in the south of the Yangtze River, But in everyone's heart, the status is far lower than that of Yuezhou. I wanted to go to Yuezhou last year, but I couldn't make it. Next time we have a chance, let's go together!"

"I heard from the local people in Yuezhou that it is best to come here in spring. There are peach and pear blossoms all over the mountains and plains, which is very beautiful. Liu Si'er is flying in the river in the city with an awning boat, watching the prosperity of the small town. , It must be very romantic to see the sky full of spring. We have made an appointment to travel to Yuezhou tomorrow, March, when spring is at its peak?"

"Yes!" Lu Ruorong readily agreed, "Then you choose to explore the road this time, and you will take me to Yuezhou to play tomorrow in spring. When I was in middle school, I learned too much about Mr. Zhou's writing in Yuezhou. Baicao Garden, Boudoir, Kong Yiji, Mr. holding a ruler, the memory is too deep, you must go to experience it.”

Chen Zihan continued to seduce Lu Ruorong: "We can also go to Xikou, the hometown of Mr. Jiang. The scenery of Xikou Town and Xuedou Mountain is also very good. It is a place of outstanding people. We must go and see it."

Lu Ruorong: "When the time comes, just remember to fulfill your promise!"

Chen Zihan: "Strive for a few years in college, and take you to see the mountains and rivers of Zhijiang. Use our footsteps to measure the land of Jiangsu and Zhejiang."

Lu Ruorong: "I'm looking forward to it!"

"I'm looking forward to it too!"

When sending messages with Chen Zihan, Lu Ruorong and Li Siqing were reading in the library.

Originally, Lu Ruorong was not in a good mood.

While reading in the library, she looks at her phone from time to time.

Although Lu Ruorong didn't say anything, Li Siqing knew that she was waiting for Chen Zihan's message.

Chen Zihan didn't send a message to Lu Ruorong all morning, and there was still no news after two o'clock in the afternoon, and Lu Ruorong's mood gradually deteriorated.

This made Li Siqing sigh.

No matter how goddess-like a woman is, once she falls in love, she is no different from an ordinary girl.

After Chen Zihan's message came in, Lu Ruorong seemed to be a different person. When he read the message and replied to the message, there was a smile on his face.

"You are hopeless!" Li Siqing twisted Lu Ruorong's face with a look of hatred, "It's not like you, it's out of character for you!"

Chen Zihan, that bastard, didn't know which life he was blessed with, to be so worried about Lu Ruorong.

If Chen Zihan fails Lu Ruorong in the future, she will be the first to let him go!

Chapter 250 No, Absolutely Not

"Don't twist my face!" Lu Ruorong slapped Li Siqing's hand off, and asked her again: "Shall we go to Yuezhou to play together next spring?"

"I'm not going!" Li Siqing rolled her eyes at Lu Ruorong, "I'm going to be your light bulb for several days, how strong is my psychological endurance to persist!"

"Then hurry up and find a boyfriend, and hang out together that way, and you won't have so much resentment!" Lu Ruorong smiled happily.

"I don't want to be in a relationship. Looking at you, I'm a little scared." Li Siqing sighed, "I always thought that a girl like you would not be entangled with a boy and let him control his emotions. How could you know? , you can't be exempt. I'm really afraid, if I meet a boy I like very much, and I miss him every day, and completely lose myself, then my life... will be completely sunk. "

"I don't know what will happen in the future!" Lu Ruorong replied to Chen Zihan's message, and then looked at Li Siqing very seriously, "But I think that in this life, if you meet someone, you will have a good impression at first sight. It’s so lucky to just like the person I fell in love with. Although it’s vulgar and helpless to say that I don’t care about forever, I only care about having it once. But it’s a pity that I haven’t been able to have a love that can be unforgettable for a lifetime .I don’t know what will happen with Chen Zihan in the future, but if the two stay together and feel this way all the time, then I’m still willing to continue dating him.”

Li Siqing immediately asked: "What if the feeling is gone, or faded?"

Lu Ruorong was stunned for a moment: "Let everything take its course!"

"You're right!" Li Siqing nodded lightly, "The person you met is quite outstanding, and the key is that he knows how to please girls and can give you any romance you want. Such a boy, really It’s hard to come by. In fact, if I really meet such a boy, I will devote myself to it without hesitation, love crazily, even if I get hurt all over my body in the end, I will be willing.”

Seeing that Lu Ruorong's eyes were a little strange, Li Siqing quickly explained: "Don't worry, I will definitely not have Chen Zihan's idea."

Then he immediately said: "However, I still think that if you really want to fully own this love, you must adopt some strategies. You can't let him get something easily, and you can't let him be seduced by other girls. Boys at this age are too bloody Fang Gang, sometimes girls fall into the simple temptation. Not to mention, they are medical students, and these aspects are more open. So, you must think of a strategy."

"What do you want to say?" Lu Ruorong blushed slightly, and spat at Li Siqing bitterly, "It's as if I'm someone from here!"

"I seem to understand something!" Li Siqing looked suddenly enlightened.

Lu Ruorong was immediately annoyed and wanted to pinch Li Siqing's face.

Li Siqing quickly pointed to Lu Ruorong's cell phone that was thrown on the table, "There is another text message coming, hurry up and read it!"

Of course, the text message was sent by Chen Zihan, and Chen Zihan told Lu Ruorong that he was going to leave Lanting and return to Wushang.

"I'll contact you again when I get to Wushang!"

"Okay. Then, tell me about your grandmother's situation."

After replying Chen Zihan's text message, Lu Ruorong asked Li Siqing again: "We want to go to Chang'an during the winter vacation, so you can go together, okay?"

Li Siqing sighed, but in the end she didn't directly refuse: "Let's see then!"

"We are all interested in history, and it must be very fun to play in Chang'an."