What to do if everyone treats you as a scumbag

After a pause, Chen Zihan continued: "Actually, before Lu Dongjun and Lou Wenlin came to see me that day, I didn't know about Ruorong's family situation. We didn't even think about inquiring about our respective family situations, because our relationship is now It’s not quite that realistic yet.”

Chen Zihan said so much in one breath, Li Jing, who originally wanted to ask a few more questions, suddenly didn't know how to ask.

Chen Zihan's answer made Lu Ruorong breathe a sigh of relief.

She immediately said to Li Jing: "Mom, don't act like you are at work. After all, Chen Zihan is a classmate of our Zhijiang University, not your subordinate."

Li Jing gave Lu Ruorong a white look, but didn't say anything else.

She decided to chat with Chen Zihan alone for a while, with Lu Ruorong around, it was inconvenient for her to say some things.

At this time, the dishes came, and Li Jing casually greeted Lu Ruorong and Chen Zihan to eat the dishes first.

Chen Zihan didn't move his chopsticks right away, but poured a cup of tea, and said to Lu Ruorong respectfully, "Ronger, today is your 20th birthday. We southerners are different from you northerners. What we value most is your big birthday every tenth day." .Your 20th birthday, the Gregorian calendar and the lunar calendar are on the same day, what a coincidence. No matter what, I wish you a happy birthday first, and may you always be healthy and beautiful."

"Thank you!" Lu Ruorong replied embarrassedly: "I am indeed luckier than you. The Gregorian calendar and the lunar calendar were on the same day when you were 20 years old, but when you were 20 years old, there was a day difference between the Gregorian calendar and the lunar calendar. Thank you for giving me the gift. Come have dinner with me tonight."

Li Jing frowned slightly and coughed lightly when seeing the two people offering tea to each other with affectionate expressions.

"If you want to drink, drink some!" she offered.

"Forget about the wine." Chen Zihan declined, "I have a poor capacity for drinking, and I get drunk after just one drink. After I went to college here, I made a few jokes because of drinking. If I lost my temper in front of my aunt after drinking, then I will be drunk." It’s shameless.”

Li Jing nodded and didn't mention the drinking again.

During the meal, Li Jing asked about Chen Zihan's family situation very tactfully, and cleverly expressed the meaning that Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong were not in the right household.

Although Li Jing said it very implicitly, how could someone as intelligent as Lu Ruorong and Chen Zihan not hear it?

Lu Ruorong's complexion was a little ugly, but Chen Zihan didn't pay much attention to it. He deliberately pretended not to understand what Li Jing meant, and talked about the last time he and Lu Ruorong went to Jinling for fun.

He told Li Jing that some of his ancestors died for the country when they fought against the Japanese invaders, and they went to Jinling every year to pay homage to their ancestors.

If his great-grandfather hadn't sacrificed, he would definitely have been promoted after the war, and he might even become a general later on.

It's a pity that he died in that battle, and also made his wife and children lose the opportunity to enjoy the glory and squeeze into the upper class.

Glory and ordinary, sometimes there is no big difference, it is just the life and death of one or two people can decide.

Li Jing's face changed slightly after hearing Chen Zihan's words.

She knew what Chen Zihan meant by saying this, that no one was born with glory. He might have had mud legs a few decades ago, but once he became prosperous, the younger generations would follow suit.

No one is born aristocratic, and no one can guarantee that honor will last from generation to generation. Ordinary people will always be ordinary.

Chen Zihan understood what she meant, and responded cleverly.

This surprised her, this little boy is really not simple!

She couldn't help but look at Chen Zihan more.

During the meal, Ning Yuezhen called and asked Chen Zihan about the agency brand, and asked him which brand of reagents or equipment he had taken a fancy to.

Chen Zihan originally wanted to get up and go outside to pick it up, but after seeing Lu Ruorong's eyes indicating, he still picked it up in front of Li Jing.

After saying a few words, he hung up the phone on the grounds that he was busy.

After Chen Zihan hung up the phone, Lu Ruorong asked in a low voice if there was anything else tonight.

"It's okay!" Chen Zihan shook his head.

After hearing this, Li Jing looked puzzled, and she curiously asked Chen Zihan if he was working part-time.

Chen Zihan did not object, saying that he wanted to achieve financial freedom in his freshman year, so he decided to do some part-time jobs while studying and accumulate some experience.

"Mom, when we were still using your money, Zihan was already planning to use the money he earned to buy a car." Lu Ruorong said with a little pride: "I really envy him, he can control the car freely when he is less than 20 years old." time and money."

Li Jing became more interested after hearing this, and immediately asked Chen Zihan what was going on.

Chen Zihan also briefly talked about his cooperation with Ning Yuezhen and his investment in Zhongtian Company.

Even Lu Ruorong didn't know about Chen Zihan's shareholding in Zhongtian Company.

Hearing him say it at first, Lu Ruorong was a little surprised, and gave him a blank look.

"I borrowed this money. I certainly don't have so much money myself." Chen Zihan was a little embarrassed, "But I am optimistic about the future of Zhongtian Company. It can survive well in at least ten years."

"Your university is a combined undergraduate and master's program in clinical medicine. Isn't your ambition in medicine? Don't you want to go to the hospital after graduation?" Li Jing was a little surprised.

"If there is a better future, then I will definitely strive for more achievements. A person may be able to accomplish several things successfully in a lifetime." Chen Zihan said with a smile: "Maybe I am a stubborn person. If I want to do something, I will do it." You have to do it well, or you'd rather not do it."

Li Jing nodded slightly, and looked at Chen Zihan with a slightly softened look.

However, Li Jing still underestimated Chen Zihan.

In the next period of time, Chen Zihan sang the leading role calmly.

He completely dominated the content of the conversation tonight, and he showed his talents and ambitions in a subtle way.

If Li Jing hadn't investigated Chen Zihan's details, she would have really thought that he was a reclusive son of a family.

After several hours of contact with Chen Zihan, Li Jing finally understood a little bit.

That is, how could her daughter, whose eyes were above the top, fall in love with a boy who was ordinary in every way and who was one year younger than her.

Chapter 231 The adult world is not black and white

When Chen Zihan and Li Jing talked, they didn't exaggerate, but rather artistically.

He often used Lu Ruorong's unconscious words to stir up new topics. When he spoke, he didn't brag about himself, so Li Jing didn't think that he was a hypocrite.

"He is quite a capable student." This was Li Jing's conclusion after contacting Chen Zihan.

Confident but not frivolous, tactful but not treacherous, this is Li Jing's conclusion for Chen Zihan.

However, Li Jing continued to clarify her point of view. She believed that Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong were both young, so they should focus on their studies, and wait for them to mature before considering emotional matters.

"My mother said the same thing." Chen Zihan answered sheepishly, "She also thinks that at this age one should focus on studying."

When Lu Ruorong frowned slightly, he continued: "There is a daughter from a family next door to us. She didn't fall in love when she was in college, and she put all her energy on her studies. After graduation, she felt that she had to make some achievements when she first joined the job. , also focus on work. As a result, this year is already 29, and has no boyfriend yet. Her mother is in a hurry, and is busy all day making arrangements for a blind date for her. My mother used to joke with them, and she was not allowed a few years ago Falling in love, but now forcing her to marry herself as soon as possible, it's not easy being a parent..."

"I told my mother, you have to learn their lessons, don't allow me to fall in love when I was in high school and college, and then force me to go on a blind date every day after I work. The adult world is not black and white, there should be a transition !"

After saying this, Chen Zihan grinned and said, "Auntie, actually, I think it's not a problem to do several things at the same time with the energy of our young people. So, don't worry that our studies will be affected by other things. Ruo Rong's My grades are still so good, and I am not bad. We are together, not only will not affect each other's studies, but also can motivate and promote each other."

Seeing that Li Jing's expression was a little strange, Chen Zihan said the most fundamental question directly: "Actually, Auntie, don't hide what you mean, we will know if you don't tell me. Our Chen family is too ordinary, and Ruo Rong and I are very similar. It's not a good match, isn't it right? "

Seeing that Li Jing and Lu Ruorong's faces changed, Chen Zihan still said with a smile on his face: "Auntie, I understand your worries. If one day I become a parent myself and have a daughter, when my daughter grows up, I will have similar feelings. I hope that my daughter can find someone of the right family to live with. In this case, don’t worry about different living habits, conflicts between outlook on life and the world, and won’t let your daughter be wronged. Moreover, in reality, you can also communicate with each other. Help, join forces."

"When you were young, you may have the same thinking as we do now, and sneer at the so-called realistic things, but after a certain age, you feel that these things are really important. The passage of time has returned to mediocrity." Chen Zihan glanced at Li Jing and saw that she did not show any signs of seizures, so he continued: "But in your hearts, there are also many things that I think are the purest and most beautiful. , I can feel a strong flavor of youth, pure and beautiful. I think, if these innocent and beautiful things are finally accepted by reality, become a part of reality, and continue with life, wouldn’t life be better? Going to the society with the one you love, accepting the reality, and encouraging each other to grow, isn't this the greatest happiness in life?"

"I know that I will definitely make you unhappy, Auntie, but these are my true thoughts. In life, what is more proud and more important than experiencing life with a lover who fell in love at first sight, from a young couple to an old companion What about luck? No matter how long a person lives, it is only a hundred years. When we die, we can’t take anything with us. If we have regrets because of many things when we die, no matter how many achievements we have made, this life Everyone has regrets; if there are no regrets when he dies, even if he has no outstanding achievements and no admirable status, his life is still perfect."

After Chen Zihan finished speaking, he bowed respectfully to Li Jing: "You are young and frivolous, and you speak wild words. Please forgive me if you offend Auntie!"

Chen Zihan said many things on purpose.

He knew very well that if he said so much, it would be counterproductive.

But he is only 19 years old, 19 years old must have the frivolity of this age.

The 19-year-old boy made a long phone call under excitement, which is also a normal thing for a middle-aged man in his 50s and [-]s.

If so, let's talk it through.

Of course, when he was talking, he had been observing the changes in Li Jing's expression.

Seeing that she didn't look very angry, he boldly continued to speak.

Being good at observing words and feelings is a way of survival.

After hearing what Chen Zihan said, Li Jing, who originally wanted to talk to him alone, knew that there was no need to say anything.

Chen Zihan had already guessed what she wanted to say, and said everything in response.

"What did this guy go through? It's a bit strange to have so many emotions and so many insights at such a young age." Li Jing became curious about Chen Zihan.

This doesn't look like a 19-year-old freshman at all!

Compared with him, 20-year-old Lu Ruorong is much younger - but Li Jing has always believed that Lu Ruorong is more mature than ordinary people.

Li Jing also believes that if Chen Zihan is given a platform and opportunities, this young man is likely to take off.

At her age, she has been in the system for many years. Although she can't say that she has a pair of piercing eyes, her ability to recognize people is still good.

However, she still expressed her intentions tactfully, hoping that Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong could make their own decisions after getting to know each other better.

After all, they are too young, and they are still at the age when they like to do things impulsively.

Seeing that Li Jing's attitude had softened a little, Chen Zihan immediately said again: "Auntie, Ruorong is very good, so good that it makes most people ashamed. I also know that I am far behind her, but please rest assured, I will definitely let you I have become better, so good that I can match her."

Regardless of whether it is necessary or not, Li Jingxiang believes it or not, such a statement is still necessary.

Li Jing didn't express anything after hearing this, but the eyes she looked at Chen Zihan became a little softer.

At around 07:30, after eating, Li Jing stood up, ready to take Lu Ruorong to leave.

Chen Zihan stood beside Lu Ruorong who looked a little depressed, and said directly: "Auntie, I originally planned a birthday party for Ruorong carefully, and wanted her to have a 20th birthday that she would remember forever. But because of your sudden arrival Visit, the birthday party can only be cancelled. But it’s good to have some regrets, and it can also be remembered for a lifetime.”

Seeing the disappointed expression on Lu Ruorong's face, Li Jing couldn't bear it, but she still didn't admit her "mistake": "Birthdays happen every year, let alone her twentieth birthday next year, so it's okay to celebrate it again next year." Can't."

Chen Zihan immediately suggested: "Auntie, why don't we go somewhere to have fun with her so that she can celebrate her birthday happily? Okay! With your mother by my side and the blessings of other friends, this birthday must be special Significant!"

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Chapter 232 Is It A Surprise?

Chen Zihan's boldness left Lu Ruorong dumbfounded.

But to her surprise, her mother agreed to Chen Zihan's request after hesitating for a while.

"I don't want Rong'er to have a bad birthday either." After looking at Chen Zihan for a while, Li Jing agreed with his thoughts and asked him to find a place.

"Then let's find a ktv to sing!" Lu Ruorong suddenly felt much better.

Li Jing agreed to Chen Zihan's proposal, which meant that her mother's approval of Chen Zihan had taken another step.

"How about calling Li Siqing here too." Chen Zihan asked tentatively, "Or other classmates who have a good relationship with you."

"Mom, do you mind if we call some classmates over?" Lu Ruorong asked Li Jing in a low voice.

"Yes!" Li Jing agreed, "I'll have fun with you for a while, and then go back to rest, so you play later. After the game is over, you can come and sleep with mom."

"Okay!" Lu Ruorong was immediately happy.

She immediately called Li Siqing and asked her to come over and sing with several other people in the dormitory.

"Didn't you say that the birthday party was canceled because your mother came?" Li Siqing, who was worried about Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong, immediately widened her eyes when she heard Lu Ruorong's slightly cheerful voice, "Chen Zihan took care of your mother?"

"It's settled for now!" Lu Ruorong didn't say anything to Li Siqing on the phone, and asked her to bring a few roommates from the dormitory together, and she would tell the specific address when the time came.

She asked Chen Zihan to call a few people from their dormitory, and there wouldn't be many people anyway.

Chen Zihan called Wang Zhenjun.

As a result, the five guys in the dormitory were all there.

When Chen Zihan asked them to sing to celebrate Lu Ruorong's birthday, Wang Zhenjun was surprised and delighted.

They've also been worrying.

Chen Zihan asked them to go to the bustle and bustle together, indicating that the crisis has been resolved, of course they are happy.

The gift prepared for Lu Ruorong can also come in handy.

When they were calling, Li Jing also called and asked someone to prepare a box for them.

After Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong finished their phone call, Li Jing told them that she had asked someone to book a singing room, and she just went there now.

Seeing Li Jing like this, Lu Ruorong was even more delighted.

But Chen Zihan knew that Li Jing didn't accept him, she just didn't want to let her daughter down and be depressed on her birthday.

The three of them took a taxi and went to a ktv club called "Jin Yu Man Tang" that Li Jing booked, not far from Yuquan Campus and Hubin Campus.

Li Jing ordered a very high-end box.

Under the leadership of the waiter, when Chen Zihan walked into the box, Chen Zihan waved away the KTV escort lady who wanted to follow in to serve.

After sitting down, he made another suggestion to Lu Ruorong and Li Jing, telling them not to reveal their mother-daughter relationship, but just saying that they are relatives, so as not to make everyone feel uncomfortable.

"Anyway, Auntie and Ruorong look about the same age, so no one doubts that they are sisters."

"Also!" Although Chen Zihan's proposal was absurd, Li Jing agreed.