I Want to Be the King of Football
Seven hundred and ninety-four, the inferiority of the strong, the self-confidence of the weak
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The higher he climbed in his career, the more Su Dong felt that there were fewer and fewer friends around him.
For example, like Aimar, there has been no contact for a long time.
Not only with Su Dong, but also with Messi.
It was a very strange and special feeling, and in David Silva's words, Aimar felt a little embarrassed.
Because when he made friends, his status in European football was higher than that of Su Dong, and Messi was far incomparable to him. He was just a little fan who might need his help at any time.
But gradually, Aimar found that not only Su Dong surpassed him, but even Messi surpassed him, which made him uncomfortable and did not know how to continue to get along with them.
There are many such cases, not only with Su Dong, but with Messi, but also with everyone.
Whether active or passive, Su Dong's friends are gradually decreasing, especially those teammates who used to fight side by side, some have retired, some have even started to become head coaches, and most of them are no longer in contact.
So every time, when Su Dong meets his teammates, he will have a special kind of intimacy.
But he wouldn't go too close, he would just take the initiative to walk over and say to them that he had not seen him for a long time. After the game, he would walk over and say goodbye to them.
...
You look more confident than ever! Muhammad Sissoko praised convincingly.
Really? Su Dong asked with a smile, but quickly shook his head, Actually, I'm still the same as back then, a little inferior.
How is that possible? Mohammad Sissoko was very surprised.
Su Dong is inferior?
If this is said, who will believe it?
A person with low self-esteem, who was able to one-vs-three just now and pass the ball out?
To say that when he was in Valencia back then, Su Dong had a little inferiority complex, then Sissoko still believes that now, is this possible?
Maybe we have a different definition of inferiority.
Su Dong smiled.
Perhaps it was because of old friends, or because Sissoko had seen everything when Su Dong first became famous in Valencia, so he was willing to say something.
Perhaps you think that inferiority is self-defeating, that you have no confidence in what you do, that you feel inferior to others, that you do things according to your promise, and it is easy to be looked down upon by others.
Sissoko has a black question mark face, doesn't he?
I think that always thinking that I'm not doing well enough is actually a form of inferiority.
Sissoko was silent for a while, he really didn't think about what Su Dong said.
Do you feel inferior to yourself?
There are some things that Su Dong has never told others, and some feelings that he will never be able to share with others, even the closest parents, fiancee and friends, these will be buried deep in his heart forever.
He really feels inferior, because he always feels that he is not good enough, even though everyone around him has been telling him that he has done enough good enough, but he is still trying to do better it is good.
Is this just self-improvement?
Being born in a weak football country, coupled with the experience in Portugal, it is unrealistic to say that it has no effect on the psychology of Su Dong.
Having the plug-in of the King's Road system has indeed improved Su Dong's psychology, but it can't erase the psychological shadow in his heart at all.
It's like a man who has been poor for many years, suddenly won the lottery and has a huge sum of money, what will he do?
Can he suddenly become confident?
Even though he deliberately appeared confident, in fact, his mentality was still the poor man he used to be, and even after many, many years, he had already achieved fame, and his bones still had the shadow of the poor and poor days left in his bones.
It's a lifetime thing!
Is this a bad thing?
Su Dong thinks not!
Inferiority made him work harder and harder, allowing him to maintain a constantly growing motivation all the time.
It is a kind of psychology, and even everyone has it, even some people who seem extremely confident.
Perhaps behind the confidence lies low self-esteem.
To understand low self-esteem, we must understand what self-confidence is?
In Su Dong's understanding, there are two types of self-confidence, the strong and the weak.
The so-called strong self-confidence is a strong mentality. When you look at something from a higher position and look at your opponent, you are very sure that you can do it, succeed, and defeat him. In the process of doing it, there will be a natural self-confidence of the strong.
It's like a strong adult fighting a weak child. There's no reason to be unconfident, right?
The so-called self-confidence of the weak is actually full of unknowns about the future.
The opponent is stronger than you, things are very difficult, you don't know whether you can succeed or not, you don't even know what the consequences will be, and everything is unknown.
In fact, people in this situation often have low self-esteem.
Just like Su Dong, when he faces three defensive players alone, he is not sure whether he can do it or not, but he is the captain of the team, and he has the responsibility, obligation and mission to help the team. further turn the tide.
It is this sense of responsibility and mission that allows him to do his best even when he has low self-esteem and is at a disadvantage.
In Sissoko's view, the process of trying his best is self-confidence!
Su Dong has talked with many bigwigs, such as Beckenbauer, Cruyff, Platini, Maradona, Zidane, Ronaldo...
He found that he could not distinguish between inferiority complex and self-confidence in these people.
Many times, many legendary moments, when they think about it afterwards, in fact, they didn't have enough confidence at the time, but it was their sense of responsibility and mission that prompted them to do it and do their best, and in the eyes of others, it was a kind of confidence.
Seek truth from facts, recognize yourself, stick to yourself, do your best, and face it calmly!
This is my attitude. It doesn't matter if I'm inferior or confident!
...
When Su Dong smiled and said his feelings, Mohammad Sissoko really felt extremely shocked.
After landing in Europe for so many years, no one has ever said these words to him, and no one has ever taught him these things.
Benitez was a cold machine, the Italian coach was no better, and Sissoko was getting lost.
But Su Dong's remarks made him sober, and he began to feel that blindly self-denial and blindly demanding himself to cater to others would only make him more inferior, and even fall into a kind of inferiority. vicious circle.
He has his strengths and weaknesses, he's not Vieira or anyone, he has a name.
His name is Mohammad Sissoko!
Thank you, Su! Sissoko stretched out his hands and held Su Dong's hand, very hard.
On the contrary, Su Dong was a little surprised. He was just out of emotion and said something about his own experience. These were all his personal thoughts. He didn't know why Sissoko's reaction was so big.
But it looks like this should be a good thing.
Oh no, not necessarily a good thing for Manchester City.
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Sure enough, Manchester City won another victory in the new season after reversing Juventus three-to-one.
Six consecutive victories in the league and two consecutive victories in the Europa League. If not for the elimination of the League Cup, Manchester City's state this season can be described as overwhelming, and Su Dong's performance has once again won unanimous approval.
Especially when he was replaced, the scene where all the fans stood up and applauded him was followed by all the media and fans around the world, which was considered to be a signal that Su Dong completely conquered the Manchester City fans.
But against Juventus, Sanchez was the man of the match.
When the Chilean winger faced Juventus, he almost completely broke Juventus' right side into a sieve. Decelli was completely disabled and became the weakest link in Juventus' defense, allowing Manchester City's offense to do whatever they wanted. .
However, it's not all good news.
At the same time that Manchester City reversed Juventus three-to-one, in another game of the group stage, Poznan Lech of Poland defeated Red Bull Salzburg 2-0 at home, also winning two consecutive victories.
It really broke my glasses.
After a 3-3 draw with Juventus in the first round of the group, Poznan Lehi defeated Red Bull Salzburg 2-0 in the second round, which made people more convinced that Poznan Lehi is becoming Manchester City. The top opponent in the group stage.
After the two rounds, Manchester City won two consecutive games and scored six points, Poznan Lehi scored four points with one win and one draw, ranking second in the group, and Juventus ranked second with one draw and one loss. Third, Red Bull Salzburg lost both games and did not score points.
In other words, judging from the current situation, Poznan Lehi is most likely to threaten Manchester City's group top.
According to the schedule, in the next two rounds of group matches, Manchester City will face Poznan Lehi at home and away. .
For Juventus, if they want to counterattack in the group stage, they must win Red Bull Salzburg in the next two games, and it is best to pray that Manchester City and Poznan Lehi fight to lose both. , the best two rounds are a draw, and Juventus wins both rounds, then they can counterattack.
The reason for this passive situation of being controlled by others is also related to Juventus' failure to play well in the first two rounds.
They failed to win Poznan Lehi at home, and the away game was tragically reversed at Manchester City. Juventus missed the three-pointer at home.
If he could have won Poznan Lehi at home, he would not be so passive now.
But there is no if in this world at all.
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Manchester City host Newcastle in the seventh round of the Premier League this weekend.
Due to the continuous fighting, Su Dong was forced to take a rest in this game and sat on the bench.
Guardiola has similarly rotated the squad.
As a result, in the first half, Newcastle's French winger Ben Alfa performed exceptionally brave, assisting his teammates to score twice and helping Newcastle lead by two goals.
Subsequently, Newcastle continued to withstand the pressure of Manchester City's transmission and patiently looked for opportunities to counterattack.
Until the second half, Manchester City failed to get a chance.
Sudong came on as a substitute in the 70th minute, and in the 83rd minute, after dropping back to receive a pass, planned an attack that Adam Johnson scored to help Manchester City pull one back.
In the 89th minute, David Silva, who was also on the bench, sent an oblique pass, and Su Dong pushed and scored ten meters from the left side of the penalty area to equalize the score for Manchester City.
In the end, Manchester City failed to score again.
2 to 2, Manchester City suffered a tragic draw at home by Newcastle.
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