I Really Didn’t Want to be Born Again

I can't do it. Bian Shishi is so good, there's no way I can catch up with her.

Wang Zibo has no confidence in himself at all, because Bian Shishi's own conditions are indeed good, with excellent academic qualifications and appearance, and a very cute personality.

Chen Hansheng looked contemptuous: You are too cowardly. Aren't excellent girls bad?

“No, the Lord is not worthy of me.”

Wang Zibo shook his head lonely: For a person like me, when looking for a girlfriend, you can't just look at the face. In fact, it's enough to be kind-hearted, so that you won't quarrel and get angry.

This is some old almanac view.

Chen Hansheng said with a smile: Find someone with a pretty face. It will make you feel comfortable even if you quarrel or get angry.

The key is that people look down on me.

Wang Zibo had no choice but to take out his PHS and handed it to Chen Hansheng: Look at our text messages, there is nothing to say at all.

Chen Hansheng looked through the records and found that there was indeed very little chat content between the two.

November 26, 2004

Wang Zibo: Have you arrived at the dormitory?

Bian Shishi: Well, what about you.

Wang Zibo: I arrived early.

Bian Shishi: I’m very tired today, go to bed early.

Wang Zibo: Okay, you too.

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December 6, 2004

Bian Shishi: Xiaoyuer asked you to bring some food for lunch, for two girls.

Wang Zibo: Got it.

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December 11, 2004

Wang Zibo: Today at the law firm, I accidentally brought your copy of The Fifteenth Year of Wanli back to the dormitory.

Bian Shishi: It doesn’t matter. Just return it to me after reading it. You also like history.

Wang Zibo: Yes, I will read the book first so that I can return it to you tomorrow.

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December 16, 2004

Bian Shishi: Please bring two meals.

Wang Zibo: Got it.

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These were the only four conversations. Both parties were polite and relatively polite.

I think it's okay. You can't just look at the content when chatting. You also need to learn to dig out the details.

Chen Hansheng returned the PHS phone: Bian Shishi didn't use any 'closed' replies. First of all, it shows that her basic quality is very high. The other one also shows that she doesn't hate you very much. There is still a chance.

What is a 'closed' reply?

Wang Zibo didn't understand.

That's what Huang Hui often tells you.

Chen Hansheng gave an example: Those individual modal particles 'um, oh, okay' and so on, when these words are thrown out, it basically indicates that the chat has no further content. If you continue to forcefully find topics, others may get bored. This It’s called a closed reply.”

Wang Zibo's dark face turned red, and he remembered that he and Huang Hui had chatted like this.

for example:

Wang Zibo: Sister Xiaohui, I am XXX today...

Huang Hui: Yeah.

Wang Zibo: Not only that, I also XXX...

Huang Hui: Oh.

When I saw these two modal particles, I must have felt uncomfortable at the time, but sometimes people are very strange. They know in their minds that the conversation should be ended, but emotionally they are reluctant to let go.

In the end, emotion outweighs rationality, and if you continue to send messages, the other party may still reply in a closed manner, or may not answer at all.

Xiao Chen, what are you talking about? Come here quickly.

At this time, Xiao Rongyu, who was walking in front, waved to them to follow the team.

knew,

You order first and we have a cigarette.

Chen Hansheng waved his hand and asked them to go into the box. He and Wang Zibo stood outside for a while.

In the text message just now, Bian Shishi asked, 'Do you also like history?'

Chen Hansheng continued to preach and practice: This is a very typical open-ended reply, which shows that there is room for discussion. You did not seize the opportunity at the time. If this was the case, I would have discussed it that night.

Oh I see.

Wang Zibo suddenly realized that it was the first time he knew that there were such professional terms as open reply and closed reply in chat.

Bian Shishi is very good. She is not pretentious and has a very down-to-earth personality. She is a member of our circle.

Chen Hansheng reminded: If you think it's good, you should start early, otherwise you will regret it.

Wang Zibo was stunned for a moment: Why do you regret it?

In this world, there are coincidences everywhere.

Chen Hansheng explained: A girl has been single for three years. You think that no one is pursuing her, so you are tempted.

But Zibo, believe it or not, at the moment when you were tempted, there were boys attacking her in some corner of the world, but you didn't know it.

Chen Hansheng sighed: You just kept holding back and didn't express it. When you finally reacted, others had already hugged the beauty back, leaving you alone to send blessings against your will.

Fuck, it seems to be like this somehow.

Wang Zibo suddenly felt a little flustered.

Don't be so hasty.

Chen Hansheng pouted: One day is a friend, two days is a girl, and three days is a baby. This model is not suitable for Bian Shishi. You have to express your good feelings implicitly and reasonably, and create an unintentional surprise.

How to express implicitly, please teach me!

Wang Zibo was so startled that he could imagine that if Bian Shishi was chased by another boy, Bian Shishi would bring her boyfriend over to a dinner party among friends.

At that time, I should be sitting at the corner of the table, holding a glass of wine and forcing a smile.

This is simple, just give me an example.

Chen Hansheng looked at Xiao Rongyu and said: Both Xiao Yu'er and Bian Shishi like to eat sweets. You can buy two desserts next time, one for Xiao Yu'er and one for her to bring to Bian Shishi. This expresses both To gain goodwill, the method is more tactful, and I don’t have to show up.”

I see.

Wang Zibo murmured: My good feelings are getting better and better. If I invite her to watch movies and talk about history, there will be more topics to talk about.

That's right.

Chen Hansheng nodded: The first step is more important. Let's go in to eat first. Xiao Yu'er has already called.

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After lunch, Chen Hansheng and Liang Meijuan stayed at the law firm for another afternoon. It was not until Xiao Yuer reluctantly followed Professor Sun back to Dongda University for training that Chen Hansheng took Queen Mother Liang back to Gangneung University Town.

After understanding all the scope of Chen Hansheng's activities, Liang Meijuan was also ready to return to Hong Kong City.

At around 8 p.m., Wang Zibo bought two boxes of strawberry cakes from a dessert shop and walked downstairs to the female dormitory of Dongda University.

After much thought, he realized that Xiao Chen's method was indeed very good, at least he couldn't have thought of it. Others had imparted their experience to others, so he must cherish it.

I just asked Xiao Yu'er to give it to me. I don't have to show up myself. It's Xiao Chen as expected.

Wang Zibo thought beautifully in his heart.

Not long after, Xiao Rongyu came back from tutoring at Professor Sun's house. As soon as Wang Zibo saw the tall figure, he hurried up to meet him: Xiao Yu'er, I bought you a dessert...

But halfway through, Wang Zibo suddenly froze, because Bian Shishi was holding Xiao Rongyu's arm, staring at him with four bright eyes blinking.

You, you are all here too.

Wang Zibo didn't know what to say at once, and Xiao Chen didn't teach me how to deal with it if the person involved was also present.

Wow, is this for me?

On the contrary, Xiao Rongyu took the cake and asked with a smile.

Well, uh...yeah.

Bian Shishi was nearby. Wang Zibo didn't have the courage to tell the truth. He held it in for a long time before saying: One piece was bought by Xiao Chen and the other was bought by me. I'm going back. Goodbye.

Okay, thank you Zi Bo.

Xiao Rongyu didn't think much and pulled Bian Shishi upstairs.

Before Bian Shishi went upstairs, she glanced at Wang Zibo's back pretending to be calm, with curiosity on his face.

As for Wang Zibo, not to mention how regretful he was, he really wanted to slap himself a few times along the way. This was equivalent to Chen Hansheng telling himself the answer, but he still hadn't answered it yet.

When Wang Zibo returned to the dormitory, he didn't even want to take a shower. He just lay on the bed and tossed and turned, regretting it. Why didn't he dare to tell the truth? !

Ding~

Suddenly a message came from PHS.

After Wang Zibo sullenly unlocked the door, it turned out to be Bian Shishi.

Bian Shishi: The cake is very sweet, thank you.

Holy shit, what's going on?

Wang Zibo was stunned for a moment, then quickly replied: You ate it.

Ding~

Another message.

Bian Shishi: Xiaoyuer ate Chen Hansheng’s portion, and gave me the portion you bought.

Ho ho, ho ho.

Wang Zibo suddenly giggled. He originally wanted to reply I originally bought it for you, but then he thought it was inappropriate and deleted it, so he changed it again.

Wang Zibo: Just sweet.

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