I Advise You To Like Me As Soon As Possible

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But no matter what, the beauty trick really worked, Yao Hao really couldn't match this look, and finally nodded: Senior Yu Feiyuan has always been very good at learning, Teacher Gu also said that he is very serious, but although he is the same as Senior Sister Shu Ning As a doctoral student, Mr. Gu obviously prefers Senior Sister Shu Ning, who has published several articles in several core journals during her school days.”

That means Professor Gu's evaluation of Yu Feiyuan is not bad?

It was alright at first, but then... Yao H bit his lip, A few of us gave Teacher Gu a birthday party and he drank too much. After drinking, he scolded Senior Yu Feiyuan, and I realized that Teacher Gu turned out to be very annoying. he.

Why do you hate it? Because of Shu Ning? So you hate Wu Jiwu?

Yao h glanced at Fu Zheng and shook his head: Mr. Gu said that Yu Feiyuan looked honest, but he didn't expect to be so scheming. After getting drunk, he dragged us and talked a lot.

Before, we always envied Senior Sister Shu Ning and Senior Yu Feiyuan, because when they graduated, they had already published a similar number of articles in core journals. But after that, there were also several articles about Yu Feiyuan as the first novel, and the senior as the second novel. In short, in our opinion at the time, they were a powerful alliance between the scholars, but Teacher Gu told us that this is not the case...

Mr. Gu said, in fact, the academic ability of the senior is not good at all. Those second works were all because he was in love with Senior Sister Shu Ning at the time. Senior Sister Shu Ning liked what he liked, and she felt that she should bring her boyfriend and hang it up for him. ; In addition, for the senior's first works, the actual writer is also Senior Sister Shu Ning, who was completely ghostwriting but gave him the opportunity to be the first author...

This is really similar to Shu Ning's style, willing to sacrifice for love to pave the way for the other party, but not so much desire for power and reputation, so even the authorship of the first work is willing to hand over to Yu Feiyuan.

In the past, Teacher Gu praised Senior Sister Shu Ning so much, but now he regards her as a negative case. Every time he drinks, he can't help but nagging and taking care of us female students, telling us not to fail because of love. The brain, you must always be the first, love yourself first and then love others, career first, read the doctorate is not to go home to the husband and the child...

Even though it was recited by Yao H at the moment, Ning Wan could imagine the regret in Professor Gu's heart when he said this. For an old professor who loves talents, it was fate to meet a student with such talent as Shu Ning, but this student not only did not I chose to do academia, but I didn’t choose to do business. Instead, I married and had children and kept myself in captivity in my family life. I was completely obliterated by everyone. I even cut off my teacher and my past connections. It seems that I want to make a clean break with the past like a canary...

Fu Zheng asked Yao H about several details, and then ended the investigation and thanked her.

Yao H was blushing a little: Lawyer Fu, can you add a WeChat account? She said nervously, If I think of any clues in the future, I can also tell you.

Fu Zheng naturally took out his mobile phone with a smile and added contact information to Yao H.

For case handling, this was normal, but Ning Wan wanted to roll her eyes for no reason. After leaving the school with Fu Zheng, Ning Wan finally couldn't hold back—

Women can't fall in love, so can men. Ning Wan glanced at Fu Zheng, then turned her eyes away pretending not to care, Case handling comes first, love comes second.

After he said this, Fu Zheng was stunned at first, but then he looked at himself and laughed: I see.

Ning Wan coughed uncomfortably: Just... I'll reluctantly count you half a teacher, in order to prevent you from repeating the same mistakes as Shu Ning, if you want to fall in love and you're not sure whether the other party is suitable or not, you can give me the first Look, how I say it is much more vicious than your eyes...

I'm not in love. Fu Zheng looked at Ning Wan, and then narrowed his eyes, I'm in my thirties, and I'm still just a trainee lawyer with a failed career, so I'm not worthy of falling in love.

In the end, Ning Wan didn't know what was going on with herself. Seeing that Fu Zheng and others had signs of falling in love, she was unhappy. When Fu Zheng said that she was obsessed with her career and had no intention of falling in love, she was unhappy... She shook off the thoughts in her head and decided to decide. Focus on Shu Ning's case first -

Now that I understand it from various aspects, what do you think of this case?

Fu Zheng pursed his lips: It's not very easy to fight, it may be a protracted battle, there is a high probability that Yu Feiyuan will not be willing to negotiate a divorce, but he is very smart, and there is almost no evidence to prove that the relationship is broken, including Shu Ning's injury, because there is no I'm afraid it will be difficult to use it as evidence if I report to the police in a timely manner, and I've looked at the precedents before, and in legal practice, even if domestic violence does exist, as long as the man admits his fault, many courts will not decree divorce for the first time.

The case has progressed here, and other breakthroughs have to be found.

But the marriage between Shu Ning and Yu Feiyuan, no matter how difficult it is, they have to leave. Ning Wan thought of Shu Ning, her heart was very heavy, You can see that too? Yu Feiyuan not only used physical violence against Shu Ning, but also mentally I didn't let it go. I fell in love with her. After falling in love, I asked her to use her resources to support and take advantage of the benefits, but on the one hand, she sucked her blood, and on the other hand, she had to suppress her, be jealous of her, prevent her, and brainwash her all day long. The thinking of the male protagonist outside the female protagonist, including cutting off contact with her original relatives and friends after marriage, made her passively shrink her social circle. I suspect that Yu Feiyuan brainwashed her to do it, and even Shu Ning was planning to go to work. I didn't plan to have a child, but I got pregnant unexpectedly for no reason. Now that I think about it, don't you think it's very suspicious?

Fu Zheng nodded: Including before she wanted to return to the workplace to submit her resume, Yu Feiyuan was extremely hard-pressed. After she went to Shenlan Machinery, Yu Feiyuan also took the opportunity to magnify Shu Ning's mistakes and downplay her abilities.

Ning Wan didn't have much hope about coming to the school to collect evidence this time, and she did doubt that it was a waste of time and had nothing to promote the case.

She originally thought that Yu Feiyuan and Shu Ning were just ordinary family and marital disputes, but the more she discovered Yu Feiyuan, the more terrifying she felt. He was not a domestic violence scumbag at all. He was a master of PUA!

He almost cut off Shu Ning's path for the camp step by step, cut off her past relatives and friends, did not want her to participate in the workplace, and suppressed her self-awareness in various ways, so that Shu Ning had been domestic violence for many years, and there was no one to talk to. In his beatings and the sweet words of kneeling after admitting his mistake, he chose to continue to live in this situation, and over time even accepted his brainwashing, completely lost his independence, and felt that women should serve and serve men. is.

*****

Almost as soon as she rushed back to the community office from school, Ning Wan called and made an appointment with Shu Ning again. She still had some details to confirm—

After you got married, you deleted all the contact information of your former classmates and teachers? Why? Ning Wan was not wrong. She asked straight to the point, Did Yu Feiyuan ask you to do this?

Shu Ning was obviously stunned: Does this have anything to do with divorce?

Isn't it convenient for you to say?

Shu Ning smiled bitterly: It's nothing, you still go to school in the end, right? Is it because Teacher Gu didn't want to see you at all when he mentioned me.

Ning Wan and Fu Zheng looked at each other and didn't speak.

Shu Ning sighed: Deleting them is really to fly far. She recalled, Although I graduated, I was in the same group with several friends of the same level, and we chatted from time to time. We mechanical engineering There are many boys in the group, so the group is also mostly of the opposite sex, but to be honest, I and they are really just friends, but Feiyuan can’t believe it, and I’m jealous of anyone I chat with.”

He, he liked me too much at the time, and he was so jealous that he couldn't talk to anyone when he saw me. Even chatting with Teacher Gu, he could be unhappy for a few days, saying that he was insecure, for fear of me. Leave him at any time. There have been several quarrels with me about this matter. In fact, I am willing to let him check my mobile phone at any time. What is he worried about? Later, the quarrel was so bad that he even bothered about it. If I want to commit suicide, I think about it. Anyway, he will be the one to live with in the future. It’s enough to have a partner who stays by my side in life. The rest of my friends are really just passing by. I am afraid that he will do stupid things again. Classmates, even Teacher Gu deleted it.

With such a terrifying and morbid possessiveness, Shu Ning is now talking about the past experience, with a bit of regret and reluctance on his face: You see how good our relationship was, he who loved me could be jealous at any time, because I can Life or death, I am willing to give my life to me, but now, I don't even feel heartache when I punch...

Ning Wan almost wanted to shake her head to wake her up, why would you live or die, and give your life to you, this is not a romance, encountering such a terrifying paranoid personality in reality, the only thing in my mind is There should be two words-

Run!

It's a pity that Shu Ning didn't run away. She was indulged in the love dream that Yu Feiyuan had woven for her. She really obediently cut off the contact with her past friend and teacher, and was mediocre at the mercy of Yu Feiyuan. Provide evidence for the specific property details of the family.

Fortunately, she at least decided to divorce, stay away from Yu Feiyuan, and can always start a new life.

Ning Wan wanted to tell Yu Feiyuan's true face, but Shu Ning interrupted her, she looked at the time a little haggardly: I have to pick up my daughter immediately, it's almost after school, two lawyers, there are more Let's call.

Ning Wan looked at the time and didn't force Shu Ning to stay. Anyway, she was going to get a divorce, and there was plenty of time to help her expose Yu Feiyuan's face in the subsequent communication.

What Ning Wan didn't expect was that she and Fu Zheng were still pondering over the issue of evidence collection, but in just two days, Shu Ning's side changed her mind—

Lawyer Ning, Lawyer Fu, I thought about it and decided not to get a divorce. The wound on her face was not completely healed, but she completely overturned her previous decision, Just... the child is still young, I will divorce. Now, the child will become a single-parent family. Even if I win the custody of the child, I have to go to work and take care of the child, and the child's living environment is not as good as that of a two-parent family...

Shu Ning's tone was a little embarrassing, but she spoke very fast, as if the people who wanted to persuade were not Ning Wan and Fu Zheng, but herself: This time, when I came back from a business trip, I also brought me a lot of gifts, and specially prepared candlelight. He apologized for dinner and took me to the place we went to when we were in love before. He said that this time he really came to the rescue and realized his fault.

But he said the same last time! Didn't the domestic violence continue in the end?!

But Shu Ning couldn't understand Ning Wan's anxiety, she lowered her head: This time I believe Feiyuan is serious, I took advantage of his business trip and filed for divorce with him and prepared to separate, but he immediately went crazy, and honestly I can't. Without me, he cut his wrists that night... and sent me a video of his wrist cuts. He didn't go to the hospital until I finally agreed not to divorce. I... I heard him cry so sadly on the phone, and then Hearing him talk about our past and our children, I just... I'm still soft-hearted... I decided to give him another chance...

Shu Ning was still chattering about something, but the negative emotions in Ning Wan's heart were about to explode. She was clearly an independent adult who could decide her own life, but at this moment, it seemed like a reincarnation, Ning Wan I feel as if I have returned to that young summer -- that cramped damp darkness that can't see the way forward

summer.

Throughout the summer, her father kept repeating the lines of borrowing money, gambling money, losing money, being charged for debts, drinking, beating up his mother, and every minute and every second, it seemed that he was unbearable. The swearing in his ears is accompanied by the sound of things being smashed.

The shards of glass, the white gas from the hot soup pouring on the ground, the punches and kicks that landed on his mother, and the smell of blood hidden in the air.

These memory fragments accompanied Ning Wan almost throughout her adolescence, making her feel like a plant that obviously does not like the shade but lives in a dense forest where there is no sunshine all day long. There was no easy, no ignorant first love in her youth, and nothing worth it. Some of the things that come to mind are just the silent cry of the mother, the violent yelling of the father, and the lack of money. In order to make up for her father's gambling debts, he rummaged through the boxes and took away almost all the savings in the family. For the remaining living expenses, tuition, etc., Ning Wan had to work to save it by herself.

During the long period of repression, Ning Wan tried her best to suppress the anger and unwillingness in her heart. She kept asking the same question in her heart - why didn't her mother get a divorce? Why can't she leave her father decisively? Why do you always forgive again in a man's false confession after getting hurt again and again?

The child is still young and still has to have parents. I decided to give her a complete family...

Shu Ning was still talking softly, and at this moment, in Ning Wan's eyes, her overly docile and submissive appearance finally overlapped with the mother in her memory, and even their excuse for enduring this kind of life finally overlapped. all the same-

If I hadn't had my daughter, I might have considered divorce, but if I think about it, I can't be so selfish. If I want to divorce, my daughter will become a child of a single-parent family. It will be difficult to find a partner in the future. Many men are very difficult at home. Those who care about being a single parent feel that the child's growth atmosphere is unhealthy... Ning Wan knew that she should restrain her emotions, but at this moment, the anger in her heart for many years finally burst.

Children, it sounds nice. It's for the sake of children. Is it interesting to use children as shields? To put it bluntly, it's because you are timid and cowardly. You don't even have the courage to leave a wrong man and start your own life again!

She looked at Shu Ning with a faint vibrato in her tone because of the huge emotion. Fu Zheng was stunned for a while, and he really wanted to stop her, but at this moment, Ning Wan couldn't care about anything -

Do you think you are selfless? In the end, it's better to attribute the reason for your domestic violence to the child? Then when the child is older, tell her that mother is doing this for you? Let the child live on you for the rest of his life. The guilt? Shu Ning obviously did not expect Ning Wan's sudden attack, and the whole person was stunned.

What kind of happiness do you think children living in domestic violence can have? What kind of healthy family environment can they have? A loving and safe environment is what children need most, even if they are divorced, it is better than guarding a piece of garbage. !

And he was clearly the victim of Yu Feiyuan, but Shu Ning was defending the perpetrator at this moment, and even got a little angry: Feiyuan is not as bad as you said, please don't attack personally, he...

It is always difficult for people to admit their mistakes frankly, how bad their eyesight in choosing a spouse is and how bad their taste is. Therefore, even if they perceive a problem in their hearts, they will even brainwash and paralyze themselves to cover up the problem, and even more so. What's more, Shu Ning was brainwashed by Yu Feiyuan's long-term PUA.

In the long time in the community, it's not that Ning Wan has never met someone with a worse character than Yu Feiyuan, but there is nothing that can make her feel as empathetic and angry as this domestic violence case.

Shu Ning, see for yourself what kind of life you've lived? You are much better than Yu Feiyuan, but as a result, you became his tool and were squeezed. Apart from your wife and mother, your identity is first and foremost yourself! But now you are What kind of self do you have? This is not the first time Yu Feiyuan has hit you. Every time the violence is escalating, but you can still endure it? Do you really have to wait for him to hit you irreversibly, and he will hit you to the point of life-threatening , will you wake up?

If a person doesn't save herself, no one can help her. If you don't get divorced, just continue to live in this hell! Don't think how great you are and endure for the sake of your child. It's not your child who is sorry for you, it's you who is sorry for her! It's you. Cowardly and foolishly choosing not to get a divorce so that the child's childhood is a shadow of this violence!

Ning Wan's words were sharp and sharp, and Shu Ning's face darkened with the naked eye: Who are you? You are not an extreme feminist who opposes marriage and childbirth, right? A lawyer shouldn't respect his client? I don't want a divorce. Feiyuan is my husband, I believe he can change, do you still want to divorce me? I would rather demolish ten temples than demolish one marriage. Are you a distorted person and have no peace of mind? Divorce You don't even know how hard it is for a woman, can you be responsible for my divorce and my children's poor life?

Shu Ning was an indecisive person, but Ning Wan didn't expect that her words not only did not wake her up, but instead scolded her for being rebellious. If she had wasted Ning Wan and Fu Zheng's time to help herself I still have guilt in the investigation and evidence collection, and now even this guilt has been swept away.

Let's just say that people like you who can come to be community lawyers won't be good lawyers! Shu Ning said bitterly, Who are they! It's none of your business if I get divorced or not! As expected, Feiyuan is right, A low-level lawyer like you wants me to get a divorce, just to earn my legal fees! When you see that I refuse to get a divorce, you show such a face! It's shameless!

After Shu Ning finished speaking, she no longer cared about Ning Wan's reaction, and she left with a whiff of her sleeves.

Ning Wan looked at her back, only to feel disappointment and anger surging in her heart, the same story, the same ending, unconsciously, Ning Wan still treated her mother.

The expectations of the parents were projected on Shu Ning, but it was a pity that Shu Ning was no different. She almost voluntarily chose to return to the life controlled by her mind.

This was the darkest day for Ning Wan since she became a community lawyer. However, when she thought this was the low point in her career, life hit her hard again - she was complained by Shu Ning.

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