House Dad’s Literary Life

Chapter 681 How to Guide Xixi's Curiosity (44, Adding More Rewards to Ning Xiaojia)

It's really embarrassing to talk about this question, especially in front of my sister-in-law...

Yang Yi looked at Xixi's big curious eyes and said helplessly, Of course my father is like a boy...because my father is also a boy!

But, but... Xixi still wanted to say something.

Okay! Yang Yi rubbed the little girl's head, and said incredulously, What's the problem, we'll talk about it when we get home. Now it's dinner time, so don't talk about it.

Okay... Xixi said regretfully, she was still a little unfinished, and it seemed that this topic could still be discussed.

It was hard to appease Xixi, but this faint sense of embarrassment lingered in this hotel box, until Mo Xiaojuan left early after lunch, excused that something was wrong.

Anyway, Yang Yi is back, so she doesn't need to accompany Murphy.

At noon, after Xixi went to bed, Yang Yi came to the bedroom next door. Murphy was lying on the bed on his side, humming a song softly, coaxing Xiao Jiao, who was a little noisy and wanted to play, to sleep.

The little guy is still quite cute when he is asleep, with one small hand on his stomach and the other on his side, then his little face turned to his mother's direction, and his pursed little mouth rose slightly, I don't know if he was listening to music. It's nice to fall asleep listening to it.

Murphy saw that Xiaojiao fell asleep, she breathed a sigh of relief, and carried the little guy to the crib, so that she could lie beside Yang Yi in peace.

I don't know, Xixi is so curious when she sees Jiao's ****. Murphy pulled Yang Yi's hand over so that she could snuggle in his arms, and then asked Yang Yi's side face. , You said, do I need to find an opportunity to talk to her about this matter?

Today, Mo Xiaojuan came to accompany her. The two sisters watched TV together, chatted, and of course, they also had to take care of the children. Xixi is alright, she played house games with her dolls on the side, and Murphy doesn't need to worry about it, and Xiaojiao is the same. He has not yet reached the time when he can crawl and explore the world. Hold him or put him in a small shaker, and the little guy can stare at the little stars hanging on the small shaker for a long time.

Since Murphy got married, the two sisters haven't had time to sit down and chat. This time, Murphy didn't ask Mo Xiaojuan about her marriage either. It was useless to force her, so she could only follow the fate. The two of them were just like before, watching people on TV make comments.

Either discuss the dress of some female stars, or study which male star is more handsome. The topics of these girls were often talked about when they were young. Now chatting jokingly, it can be regarded as reliving the memories of those girls.

Mo Xiaojuan's vision is slightly different from Murphy's. She prefers good-looking men. This good-looking man obviously adds some feminine elements to the handsome.

But not only good-looking, but also mature and gentle. Those little boys can't stand it. I can't stand their stupid appearance. Mo Xiaojuan said.

She also commented on Murphy's vision: Sister, your vision is not good, I'm not saying that brother-in-law is not good, he is very good, mature, gentle enough for you, but not good-looking! Not even handsome enough... Of course , It's pointless to say this now, you are already his person!

Although Mo Xiaojuan is joking, Murphy is very dissatisfied with Mo Xiaojuan's evaluation. In her opinion, Yang Yi is very handsome, really handsome!

I didn't think so before, but since Yang Yi's personality has changed, he is not as sloppy as before, his hair is neatly shaved, his beard is generally neatly shaved, and his taste in dressing and dressing has improved, Murphy gradually felt that. Yang Yi is so handsome!

It's not that Xishi is in the eyes of a lover, but Murphy really thinks that Yang Yi is in line with his own aesthetics, and the more he looks, the more attractive he is. Now he looks at Yang Yi's tough profile and eyes that are as deep as a starry sky. Eyes, Murphy felt a little heart rippling.

How can such a man not be handsome?

Of course Yang Yi didn't know the whispers between Murphy and Mo Xiaojuan's sisters, he was thinking about what Murphy said.

I don't think it's necessary to spend a lot of time talking to Xixi about these issues. Yang Yi said to Murphy.

However, the little cards you made in the past let me talk to Xixi about sex education, didn't it work well? Murphy said puzzled, Why don't you continue to tell Xixi? She is so curious and should be satisfied. Her curiosity prevents her from groping for herself.

Yang Yi shook his head gently and said, The nature of these two is different. Xixi is at the age of germination of gender consciousness, so she is very curious about these. However, as parents, we, as parents, are in a situation like this. What should be done is appropriate education and guidance. That is to say, Xixi needs to know the difference between men and women, but she doesn't need to know too much, so as not to arouse her greater curiosity.

For example, we can tell her that boys and girls are different. Boys go to boys' toilets, girls go to girls' toilets, and when they go to the toilet, they can't be seen by others, but there is no need to tell her that being seen by others will make you feel bad. What's not good, what will those bad people do. Or for example, we can tell her that kissing is not allowed between boys and girls, but there is no need to tell her that you are so young and ignorant, kissing boys will be taken advantage of .

I see, these adults don't need to be indoctrinated into children too early. Murphy suddenly realized.

Yes, including the difference between men and women, what is the purpose of that difference, we don't need to tell her yet. Yang Yi smiled.

Then what should I do? How can I guide Xixi's curiosity as you said? Murphy asked inexplicably.

I'll talk to her later on this! Yang Yi said thoughtfully.

In the afternoon, Yang Yi found a time, took a few printed pictures, and sat in front of Xixi.

Mom told Dad today, you're curious why your brother doesn't look like you, right? Yang Yi said softly to Xixi who was playing with her toys.

Mmmm! The little girl suddenly regained her spirits, her hands stopped moving, her eyes were full of concentration, and she said to her father, Mama said it's different when you go to the toilet.

Well, my mother is right, but not entirely right. Yang Yi smiled, Dad told you a fairy tale, of course, it may be true, or it may be false. A long time ago, there was a fairy named Nv. Wa...

Yang Yi is talking about the story of Nu Wa creating a human being, but this story has been modified by Yang Yi. Men and women are different when they knead the soil.

You've also played with plasticine, and the things you squeeze out are a little hard to control. Even if you want to squeeze out two identical little pigs, they still look different, right?

Xixi nodded ignorantly.

Yes, so when Nuwa kneads people with magical clay, the shape of the people is also different, so there is a difference between boys and girls. This is a normal thing. Yang Yi said.

Look, what are these two pictures? Yang Yi took out two pictures and asked Xixi with a smile.

Lion! Hee hee, Baba, I know lions! The little girl smiled brightly when she answered the question she knew, and gradually forgot her persistent curiosity at first.

Yes, what's the difference between these two lions? Yang Yi said.

The one with big hair is a boy lion, and the one without hair is a girl lion! Xixi put down her toys, moved to her father's side, looked at her father's hand, and said cheerfully.

These Yang Yi told her when she was looking at the album before, that the little girl has a good memory.

And this one? Yang Yi took out two more pictures of kangaroos, What's the difference between the two?

This baby is sitting in the belly of a kangaroo, and this is a kangaroo Baba! Xixi can tell the difference. Before Lu Weisha sent a photo, Yang Yi told her that the one with the pouch was the mother kangaroo, and there was none. It's a male kangaroo.

Isn't it? So, lions and kangaroos have their own differences, and so do people, but we are intelligent. In addition to these physical differences, we can tell whether they are boys or boys from their clothes and hair. Girls...at least most of them can be clearly distinguished. Yang Yi and Xixi concluded.

Guiding the difference between organs to major differences is a macro but it seems to make sense. Xixi understands it and giggles: Boys have short hair, girls have long hair!

This is not certain, but it's basically the same. It doesn't matter. If you look at other people's faces in the future, you can also see some differences. Yang Yi smiled and rubbed the little girl's head, and said, In the future, you will still have If you don't understand anything, ask Dad again, okay?

Hmm! The little girl finally nodded in satisfaction.

The teaching of this chapter is not necessarily scientific, but Xiaohan's own point of view: let children understand the difference between men and women, but do not need to know too much.