House Dad’s Literary Life

Chapter 1093 is a small matter, but also a major event (33)

On Monday, Yang Yi sent Xixi and Lan Xin to school. Not long after they came back, Lanzhou Kai brought Wu Jingjing over. Even Murphy could see the sadness between the two of them. She quickly replaced Yang Yi and went to Boil water to make tea.

Brother Lan, what happened? Yang Yi frowned slightly and asked with concern.

Lanzhou Kai's usual style of doing things is the same as his body shape, as steady as Mount Tai. Even if there are any minor problems in business or on the amusement park construction site, he can calmly deal with them, and almost never complains to Yang Yi.

Today's state is indeed a bit abnormal.

It's not a big deal... Lanzhou Kai said with a sigh.

However, before he could finish speaking, Wu Jingjing next to him interrupted the conversation in dissatisfaction: Not too big? Shouldn't things like this be taken seriously?

I want to say later, whether it's small or not... Lanzhou Kai explained.

What happened? Yang Yi felt more and more strange.

Isn't it Xin'er? I came back yesterday and looked at her homework, which almost made me look stupid! Lanzhou Kai said, took out his big-screen mobile phone, and showed Yang Yi a photo, Look at the diary she wrote, and the teacher's comments.

It was not easy for Lanzhou Kai. He didn't think about how to deal with this matter, so he pressed the button and didn't talk about it. He didn't say a word when Lan Xin came back from Rongcheng last night. Now he is waiting for Lan Xin to go to school before talking to Yang Yi. said this.

At first, Yang Yi thought it was just that Lan Xin was lazy and didn't write a diary or something, but he leaned over to read it, and couldn't help being stunned.

I'm hungry this morning, I have nothing to eat, and Xixi has nothing to eat. Fortunately, I am very smart, haha, I was behind the classroom, and secretly took the small biscuits that the monitor bought for Xiaoya! Xiaoya won't eat Biscuits, but I think they are delicious!

The above is the entire content of the diary. Of course, there are a lot of pinyin mixed in, and this is just the full translation.

Seeing this, Yang Yi knew why Lanzhou Kai was worried...

Petty theft, this is not a good habit!

Comparing your heart to your heart, if you change Xixi's words...Yang Yi thinks that Lanzhou Kai should be in a state of collapse when he read this diary yesterday.

My God, the billions of dollars in the family property, you can get anything you want, and you ran to steal other people's biscuits because you were hungry? Can Lanzhou Kai's head not explode? Can Wu Jingjing stop losing her temper just now?

It was also Lanzhou Kai who had a calm personality. When Lan Xin came back last night, he didn't hang her up and beat her up!

But then again, Lanzhou Kai is right, this is not a big deal. Because children will always make mistakes of one kind or another, and they have not formed a correct worldview, so they cannot be defined because of one thing.

Yang Yi looked down. This diary was for the teacher to check. Sure enough, Li Ruolan also responded, and she left a line of red letters below.

Next time, you can't eat other people's snacks. If you feel hungry, you can come to the teacher. The teacher brought an apple, and I can give you half of it!

The understatement of a line of words immediately soothed Yang Yi's restless mind just now.

Li Ruolan obviously understands it, and also knows that if such a thing is handled too bluntly, it will bring a sense of shame that the child will never forget in his life!

Maybe Lan Xin doesn't think there is anything wrong now, if she grows up and becomes more sensible, remembering that she was once called to the office by the teacher and reprimanded in front of many people, let her understand that she should not secretly take other people's or Xiaoya's snacks, It is estimated that I will bear a heavy psychological burden in this life.

Fortunately, Teacher Li didn't do this. I think her comments are well written and can solve the problem! Yang Yi explained to Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing, Look, on the one hand, she told Lan Xin that It shouldn't be done. On the other hand, she also encouraged Lan Xin to have such a problem, and she could go to her to help solve it. She didn't just say that Lan Xin couldn't do this when she was hungry, but also gave a solution to the problem. , so that Lan Xin doesn't have to worry about her being hungry.

I'm hungry, we can ask her to bring something to school to eat! No matter how bad it is, she also has pocket money in her schoolbag, and she can also buy food at the school's canteen. Why do you want to get other students' biscuits? , I really don't know what she thinks! Wu Jingjing patted her thigh irritably and said.

Sister Jing, don't worry about getting angry, let's find a solution together. Seeing this, Murphy added some hot tea to her, and persuaded her, Drink some tea first to calm down.

Let's let the past matter pass by. Didn't the teacher handle it well for us? We don't need to investigate too much. In fact, you can see that Xin'er is fine when she comes back, which means that she has accepted the teacher. I won’t do this in the future.” Yang Yi said with a smile, “You are so anxious to get angry now, but it makes the child feel very scared, which will have a certain impact on her mental health.”

This matter, so to speak, I'm just worried. She thinks that the teacher doesn't take it seriously, and our parents don't take it seriously. She still feels carefree in her heart. She thinks it's smart to do this. If she encounters something different next time Is she also thinking of using this method to solve it? Lanzhou Kai was not as anxious as Wu Jingjing, but he was also very worried in his heart, and slowly explained his worries to Yang Yi.

Yang Yi couldn't help but fell into deep thought, Lanzhou Kai's words also made sense. Moreover, these words reminded him of a case in a children's education book he had read before.

Although many years have passed, Yang Yi still remembers it fresh.

It is about a teacher in a senior elementary school who found out that student A stole student B’s pocket money and spent it on buying hamsters. The process of investigation and interrogation with student A was a battle of wits and courage. , comparable to a criminal case. But this teacher is very friendly. She didn't want to embarrass student A too much, so she gave student A the corresponding amount of money in private, and asked him to secretly return it to student B, and then student A had to use his own pocket money to return it to the teacher. Student A also agreed.

If this is the end of the story, then everyone is happy, the chicken soup is full of flavor!

However, later, when the teacher talked about this matter with the head teacher of student A (the teacher is only the teacher of this class), he was shocked to find out that student A stole other people's things not once or twice matter! And his class teacher also said it many times, and even helped him advance money, but he never changed after repeated admonitions...

This kind of thing made the elementary school teacher who told the story confused. She felt that she was really doing good for the child, but doing so could also be said to help him cover up his mistakes. Perhaps, he would feel at ease and feel more presumptuous. !

Lanzhou Kai's worries hit the point!

While Yang Yi was thinking about it, Mo Fei also felt that this was a big problem, and he also persuaded him: Yang Yi, help Brother Lan and Sister Jing to think about how to tell Xiner, I think that although it is It’s a small problem, but isn’t there an old saying? The small come to steal the needle, but the big come to steal the cow? We have to pay attention to it.”

Yes, Xiao Yang, you are the best way to teach children, help us think about what to do! Wu Jingjing said.

Lanzhou Kai also nodded. Sitting there with Wu Jingjing, there was a gloomy atmosphere.

Yang Yi nodded lightly, he continued to think for a while, and then slowly said: I still feel that this matter has to be resolved from two angles. Just follow the teacher's method, don't mention it, let it pass. Second, on the basis of not mentioning this matter, let me come. I will find Xin'er and Xixi and tell them a story. In the story, teach them the principles of life, okay? Don't put too much pressure on the children!

Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing still trusted Yang Yi, and after hearing what he said, they felt much more at ease, and quickly nodded happily.

In fact, Xiaohan has been deliberating whether to write this content, after all, it has a little impact on Lan Xin's image. But Xiaohan feels that, in fact, it’s really not a big deal. Everyone has done some outrageous things more or less when they were young, but it’s just that the children haven’t established the correct values. Just like what Yang Yi said at the end, Xiao Han also felt that the two methods should be dealt with separately. Children's hearts are kind and fragile, we must guide them correctly (not just ignore them), and take good care of them!

PS: The story about the teacher disciplining student A written in the book that Yang Yi read is true, although Xiao Han also saw it from the book.