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Feng Yifan and his three families finished their trip to the lake and drove back together with the sunset.

Feng Jiandong and Lu Cuiling also ended their meeting with the two old men.

Lu Xiguo and Quan Chengping were still a little disappointed because they failed to convince Lu Cuiling, even with Feng Jiandong's support.

However, Lu Cuiling's attitude was still relatively firm and she did not agree to go back to visit her father.

When Lu Cuiling saw that the sun was setting to the west outside and urged to leave, Feng Jiandong naturally couldn't stay any longer.

However, when saying goodbye, Feng Jiandong still said that he would continue to help persuade him when he returned.

Watching Feng Jiandong and Lu Cuiling leave, Lu Xugu helplessly said to Quan Chengping next to him: It seems like Xiao Lingzi is more stubborn. Just asking Feng Jiandong for help is not enough.

Quan Chengping nodded and said: Now it seems that Feng Jiandong is a pretty good person. Why did my brother-in-law disagree with the two of them being together?

Lu Xi shook his head and sighed: Isn't it just for the sake of face? I feel that my daughter will lose the face of the family by marrying a young man from the countryside.

Quan Chengping smiled bitterly and shook his head: What age are you still doing those things?

Lu Xiguo said: You don't understand. My eldest brother has been educated like that since he was a child. Although he later held a high position, his concept of being a well-matched person has not changed in his bones. That's why he firmly opposed his daughter. Marry Feng Jiandong.

Quan Chengping sighed: Oh, but even if he chooses the other children well, the final result will not be like that? Everyone is submissive to him, and the family is just maintaining a superficial harmony. Is a home like that still interesting?”

Lu Xiguo said: How can there be anything perfect? ​​There are always choices.

Quan Chengping said: Then I think Xiao Lingzi's choice is right.

Lu Xi smiled and said, Whose life is not a big gamble? We cannot use the current results to judge whether the original choice was correct. If their family did not succeed today, the vegetable base would suffer losses, and their son would not become a Top chefs, that’s probably another story.”

Quan Chengping shook his head and said: No, you and I have different views.

Life is not a big gamble, life requires corresponding efforts so that you can gain something.

Isn’t the happiness we see today in Xiao Lingzi’s family the result of the hard work of everyone in the family? Among them are the efforts of Lu Cuiling and Feng Jiandong, the efforts of Yifan's father-in-law, the efforts of Yifan, and the silent efforts of Yifan's wife behind the scenes.

Life cannot be smooth sailing, and success or failure cannot be determined by just one choice.

While making a brave choice, you must also make corresponding efforts.

After hearing these words, Lu Xiguo fell into silence for a while.

Then he laughed heartily: Hahaha, okay, Lao Quan, you can see more clearly than I do, so we two old guys, let's keep working hard.

Quan Chengping also laughed, stretched out his hand and shook it with Lu Xi: Okay, keep working hard.

On the way back, Lu Cuiling was a little dissatisfied and said to her husband: Can you stop being so soft-spoken? When someone says a few nice words, you forget all the insults back then? You actually agreed to persuade me to go back to see that old man? Feng Jiandong, you Don’t forget, he didn’t want us to go back in the first place.”

Seeing that his wife was so angry, Feng Jiandong could only hold his hand to comfort him.

I know, I know that what happened back then made you suffer a lot, and I even know how much pressure you were under when you married me.

But isn’t that all over now?

If you don’t think about your son, then you have to think about our Ruoruo and our upcoming grandson, right?

Lu Cuiling looked at Feng Jiandong strangely, not quite understanding what her husband meant.

Feng Jiandong continued: Think about it, if Ruoruo or the grandson in your daughter-in-law's belly asks about our family affairs in the future, what will you tell them?

Lu Cuiling was stunned for a moment, but soon said firmly: My Ruoruo is definitely on grandma's side.

Feng Jiandong said: Of course, Ruoruo must be on grandma's side, but you don't want to set a bad example for the children, right? We must set an example so that the children can learn to be tolerant and understand their parents, instead of ending up living together until death. contacts.

Lu Cuiling glared at her husband and said, What do you mean? Are you saying that we will quarrel with our parents in the future? And then, like me, fall in love with someone who Yifan doesn't allow her to marry? You, a grandfather, can't you think better? ah?

Feng Jiandong quickly patted the back of his wife's hand and said comfortingly: I'm just using an analogy. We can't give Ruoruo a bad example.

Lu Cuiling added: I rebelled against those feudal ethics, so my parents ordered me to set a bad example?

Besides, isn’t your son a good role model? He ran away from home, and later went abroad alone and didn't come back for a long time. Aren't these all bad examples?

After several confrontations, Feng Jiandong found that he really couldn't speak.

He was thinking about countermeasures while driving.

When Lu Cuiling saw that her husband couldn't convince her, she started to drive, and her mood instantly improved.

Let me tell you, the reasons you mentioned are not valid at all. Don't try to use those words to educate future generations, those words to deceive me, I will not pay attention to you, I am a rebellious person Man, my son is also rebellious, and my granddaughter and grandson can also be rebellious in the future.

At this point, Lu Cuiling quickly added: Of course, rebellion is rebellion, and you are not allowed to do illegal or criminal things.

Feng Jiandong was amused by his wife's words.

Then what do you think, if your granddaughter is not filial then?

Lu Cuiling immediately said: Filial piety is filial piety. Honoring your parents does not mean obeying your parents. We need to distinguish this.

Feng Jiandong said: Okay, what if it's unfilial?

Lu Cuiling said: It's impossible.

Feng Jiandong asked in surprise: Are you so sure?

Lu Cuiling nodded: Of course, think about our son. We were not with him when he was a child. He was once hostile and hateful towards us, but doesn't he have a good relationship with us now?

So in fact, many things cannot be looked at one-sidedly. We must have confidence in Ruoruo.

Feng Jiandong did not back down this time, and still said very firmly: I think we should educate our children by example. If we want Ruoruo to know filial piety in the future, we should be ourselves, set an example for our children, and let them understand Right or wrong.”

Without giving his wife a chance to speak, Feng Jiandong said seriously while driving: Maybe you think that choosing to forgive your father-in-law is a compromise, but in fact, when we go to visit and forgive our father-in-law, we set an example for our children. We are generous and we can forgive our parents' mistakes.

This is true filial piety. We understand our parents' mistakes, but it does not mean that we agree with their parents' mistakes.

Saying this to Feng Jiandong made Lu Cuiling a little excited.

Feng Jiandong did not stop there, but continued: Actually, when parents and children get along, they also need to follow the principle of harmony but difference. For example, between us and Yifan, we are harmony but difference. Yifan wants to We may not agree with what we do, but we won’t stop it, right?”

Out of the corner of his eye, he saw his wife nodding, and Feng Jiandong continued.

So, as the younger generation, we go to visit your father and set an example for Ruoruo. Parents may make mistakes, but children should still be tolerant and understanding.

This does not mean that we compromise, nor does it mean that we surrender, but that we respect the elderly.

This is also called harmony without difference.

Each of us has different thoughts and ideas, but we still retain respect for other people's thoughts and ideas.

Feng Jiandong's tireless persuasion really moved Lu Cuiling a little bit.

Finally Lu Cuiling said: Okay, you drive well, I will think about it when I go back.

Feng Jiandong understood that his wife had been persuaded, but he still couldn't agree directly because of his face, and he also needed some time to relax.

So Feng Jiandong stopped talking and drove seriously.

Coincidentally, when Feng Jiandong and the others drove back to the community, they happened to run into three children who had returned from playing at the lake.

Seeing her little granddaughter, Lu Cuiling's face instantly burst into smile, she got out of the car and went straight to the three little girls.

Oh, my Ruoruo, Xixi, and Feifei babies, you are back.

When the three little girls heard the sound, they turned around and saw their grandma, and they also rushed towards her together.

Grandma, why did you just get out of the car?

Grandma Lu, where have you been?

Hello Grandma Lu, Grandma Lu, did you and grandpa go out to play together too?

Lu Cuiling knelt down and hugged the three little girls, and said with a smile: Yes, grandma is also going out to play with grandpa. You three go out to play together, and you don't take grandma with you, so grandma has no choice but to play with grandpa.

Feng Ruoruo immediately hugged her grandma and said, Ah, grandma, you didn't tell Ruoruo. If you told Ruoruo, Ruoruo would definitely take grandma to play with her.

Yang Xiaoxi also said: Yes, yes, Grandma Lu, we will definitely take you there.

Chen Yaofei said: Grandma Lu, my grandparents have gone, you and grandpa can go too.

Lu Cuiling was also very happy after hearing the words of the three little girls. She was also very satisfied knowing that the girls were thinking about her.

Okay, grandma just came back from doing something with grandpa, and you three happened to be back too, so let's go home together.

The three little girls immediately nodded in agreement.

Then Lu Cuiling led the three little girls and walked into the community first.

Chen Shoulin and Li Xiuchun were originally going to take their granddaughter home to take a shower and change clothes, and then meet the other two children on the ancient street to eat.

As a result, seeing the children being brought into the community by Lu Cuiling, the two grandparents were a little helpless.

After discussion, Li Xiuchun had no choice but to say: Grandma Ruoruo, take your child to your house to take a bath and change clothes. Grandpa Feifei and I will go back to take a bath and change clothes first. Let's meet on the ancient street later.

Lu Cuiling smiled and said: Okay, okay, Grandma Feifei, don't worry, I will definitely wash the children.

Chen Yaofei did not forget to turn around and waved goodbye to her grandparents.

As for Yang Zhiyi and Li Fei'er, they didn't need to go home, because they had planned to take a bath in the house in the community.

Then the two families also gave the children's clothes to Feng Yifan and Su Ruoxi.

Okay, you two can take it back, and we can go home to take a shower and change clothes.

Feng Yifan looked at the things in his hands and said helplessly to Yang Zhiyi and Li Fei'er: Uncle Chen and Aunt Li are far away, so they go home to wash the things. You two are so close, do you want someone to go to my house to wash the children? Why don’t we wash them? We can’t expect our Ruoxi to wash the children, right?”

Yang Zhiyi thought for a while and said, Well, Yifan, follow me to my house to wash, and let Xixi's mother, Ruoruo, and mother go to your house to wash.

Feng Yifan thought for a while and said, Well, that's okay.

But Li Fei'er said: What's your idea? I have all my clothes at home, and you want me to go to Ruoruo's house to wash them?

Yang Zhiyi said: Let's go home to get it first. Yifan must also go home to get it.

Feng Yifan nodded: Yes, I also want to go home and get a change of clothes.

Li Feier thought for a while and reluctantly agreed: Okay, let's arrange it this way.

Then Su Ruoxi and Li Fei'er accompanied Lu Cuiling and led the children into the community. Feng Yifan and Yang Zhiyi drove their cars separately, and drove the car into the underground garage of the community with Feng Jiandong.

After the cars were parked, Feng Yifan held his father alone and asked about the situation.

Feng Jiandong shook his head and said: Your mother hasn't let go yet, but I think she should be happy. I will continue to persuade you, and you should also make some insinuations.

Feng Yifan said helplessly: Dad, you can only do this. Every time I open my mouth, my mother will fall out.

Feng Jiandong thought for a while and said, In that case, you can go back and ask Ruoxi to help persuade.

Feng Yifan thought about it and thought this was a good idea.

Okay, I'll talk to Ruoxi tonight and ask her to tell my mother if she's okay.

Feng Jiandong also sighed and said: I can see that your grandpa's health is about to die, otherwise your great-uncle and great-uncle wouldn't be so anxious.

Feng Yifan said: I also thought about it, but my grandfather really broke my mother's heart at the beginning, so it is really difficult to get my mother to change her mind now.

Feng Jiandong said: It's difficult, but we have to work hard. You don't want your mother to regret it in the future, right?

Feng Yifan nodded: That's natural. I hope my mother won't have any regrets.

Feng Jiandong said: There will always be regrets. I can only say that we should try our best to make up for it.

Feng Yifan asked curiously: Dad, when my grandfather was so opposed and looked down upon your son-in-law, do you really not hold any grudge at all?

Feng Jiandong said with a smile: Why do I hold a grudge? Let me ask you, if Ruoruo finds a husband that you despise in the future, what will you do?

When his father asked this question, Feng Yifan immediately became involved.

Feng Jiandong looked at his son's face, smiled and said, So, as a son-in-law, I have nothing to resent, because in the end I won your mother.

Feng Yifan nodded clearly.