Go back to 1980 and enjoy it

noon.

Deng Shirong had lunch under the warm greetings of Dai Chunqing's family.

The dishes include yellow fried pork, chopped green onion eggs, and several bowls of green vegetables and pickles. This kind of meal is naturally nothing to Deng Shirong who eats meat every day, but for Dai Chunqing's family, it is a sumptuous meal that they cannot eat once in three months. .

After more than two hours of contact, Deng Shirong basically understood the situation of Dai Chunqing's family.

Dai Chunqing's family conditions are not good. There are only two mud-brick houses and a kitchen. In one of them, he and his wife live, and there are two canopy beds in the other one. The three sons sleep in one and the two daughters sleep in the other. .

Living conditions are really very tight.

Dai Chunqing's eldest son was named Dai Zongze, and he was an honest young man. Deng Shirong tested him during a chat and found that he had no idea about the future. He only wanted to farm the land honestly and then marry. A wife comes back to give birth to children, and the rest has nothing to do with him.

If such a man lived in the 1960s and 1970s, he would be quite reliable. No girl would be hungry if she married him.

However, Deng Shirong knew the development of the next era. If he didn't know how to adapt and just guarded the one-third of an acre of land at home, his life would be somewhat different from others.

On the contrary, it is Dai Chunqing's eldest daughter Dai Fanglan. Despite her shy appearance, she is a thoughtful person.

After lunch, Deng Shirong said to Dai Chunqing in private: "Excuse me, I'm basically aware of your family's situation. I don't think there's any rush for your eldest son's marriage. After all, your family's housing situation is really tight, so we can't You have married your daughter-in-law, but you still have to share a bed with your brother-in-law? So, I suggest you build a new house first, and marrying your daughter-in-law after you have a house will be a hundred times easier than it is now."

Dai Chunqing nodded and said with some embarrassment: "Uncle Jiu, I understand what you are saying. Isn't it because the family is really difficult? If we build a new house, we will have no money to marry a daughter-in-law. The same goes for it. If If you marry your daughter-in-law first, you won’t have the money to build a house.”

Deng Shirong expressed his understanding of this. In this era, not every family has the same conditions as Zhang Kangmei and Deng Changfu's family. Most families are actually living a very difficult life. They have tried their best to keep the whole family fed and not hungry. There is still money left to save!

"Biao, I think you should build a house first, and then find a husband for your eldest daughter. After you get a sum of money, you can then find a daughter-in-law for your eldest son. In this way, you can afford to build the house without delaying the marriage. Daughter-in-law, how wonderful this is!”

Dai Chunqing's heart moved when he heard this. The more he thought about it, the more it made sense. He nodded and said: "Uncle Jiu, you are right. I only considered the marriage of my eldest son before. I didn't think about the marriage of my eldest daughter. Now I change the order a little. This big problem can be solved.”

Deng Shirong smiled and said: "Biao, if you are interested, then I will introduce a partner to your eldest daughter. There happens to be a young man in our village who is quite good. I think he is a good match for your eldest daughter. I can help match him. "

Dai Chunqing said: "Uncle Jiu, what kind of young brother is he? Tell me about his situation."

Deng Shirong introduced: "His name is Deng Changwang. He is 22 years old this year. He has good features and is about 1.7 meters tall. He is the youngest in the family. The eldest brother and second brother have long since married and separated and lived on their own. Three sisters They are all married, and he is the only one left to live with his parents.

Not only is he proficient in all kinds of farm work, but he is also a good hand at sideline business. He currently raises dozens of chickens and ducks at home and will start selling them by the end of the year. I can see that your eldest daughter is also a thoughtful person. If you marry If you give it to him, the life of the couple should not be much different. "

Dai Chunqing's eyes lit up when he heard this. The man's conditions sounded good, at least better than his family's. Generally, the younger son was the most favored at home. If his eldest daughter was married, her life would not be much different.

"Uncle Jiu, the young man you mentioned sounds good. He lives with his parents. I wonder if his family has a large house?"

"There are quite a few houses. His parents live in one room and he lives in another room. There are still two rooms available, but they are a bit old."

In this day and age, no one’s house is much better. As long as there are so many rooms, the conditions are good enough.

Therefore, Dai Chunqing said excitedly: "Uncle Jiu, the young man you introduced is really good, so please help me match him!"

Deng Shirong smiled and said: "No problem, I will discuss it with his parents when I get back. If his parents are okay with it, we will arrange to meet on the day of the 28th. What do you think?"

Dai Chunqing nodded and said, "Okay."

Deng Shirong looked at the sky and said: "Then it's settled, I'll go back first if nothing happens. You can also ask someone to go to our village to inquire about it in the next two days to see what Deng Changwang's situation is like. It’s not the same.”

Dai Chunqing waved his hand and said, "No need to ask, I can trust Uncle Jiu."

Deng Shirong felt this and said: "Abiao, you must ask someone to inquire about this. It is not a question of whether you believe it or not. Marriage is a major event related to the happiness of our children's lives. As parents, we still have to pay attention."

Dai Chunqing said with emotion: "Uncle Jiu, you are so kind. With someone like you as a matchmaker, who can't worry!"

"That's it. You must ask someone to find out clearly in the next two days."

"Okay, I'll listen to Uncle Jiu."

"Well, I'll go back then. Goodbye!"

"goodbye!"

After watching Deng Shirong leave, Dai Chunqing came to his eldest daughter and said, "Alan, I just talked with Uncle Jiu for a while and planned to find you an in-law. If nothing else happens, we will meet the man on the 28th day of the week. "

Dai Fanglan was shocked when he heard this and said: "Dad, I haven't married a wife yet, what kind of husband should I find?"

Dai Chunqing sighed and said: "I originally wanted your brother to marry a wife first, and then find a wife for you, but you also know the situation of our family. We don't even have a place to live. It's difficult to find a wife for your brother." Ah! Even if the girl is willing to marry, where will she live with you? "

Dai Fanglan said: "Dad, our family has sold two pigs, and we should have some money on hand. Let's build two houses first, so that we will have a place to live when my sister-in-law gets married."

Dai Chunqing said: "If you sell two pigs and add a little capital, you can buy two rooms. But if you spend all the money, how can you give your brother a wife?"

Dai Fanglan was speechless. She also knew that her family was in trouble, but she didn't expect it to be to this extent. It seemed that she had to get married first before her brother could have a chance to marry a wife. After thinking about it, she quickly accepted the reality. Asked: "Dad, where is this person from? Tell me about his situation!"

Dai Chunqing nodded and told his eldest daughter everything about the man.