Go back to 1980 and enjoy it

The 20th day of the eighth lunar month is an auspicious day and also a happy day for Ou Guofang to get married.

In later generations, since cohabitation before marriage was a common phenomenon, marriage was just a formality, and naturally there was not much sadness. It can be said that there were very few brides who cried because of their marriage.

But in this day and age, when older girls get married, at least nine out of ten will cry.

Because in this era, let alone living together before marriage, even after getting a marriage certificate, neither the man nor the woman need to think about living together before the wedding ceremony. Therefore, the bride’s understanding of the groom is actually very limited. Many of them have only met a few times. It's just a meeting, no better than a stranger.

Getting married means separating from your original family and starting a new life in a completely unfamiliar family.

Even the husband is a stranger, let alone the parents-in-law and others. It is impossible to say that I am not afraid at all.

Reluctance to leave your original family, fear and yearning for your future family, and various other emotions are intertwined. It is normal to shed tears at the moment of saying goodbye to your parents.

But Ou Guofang got married today, and it was rare that she didn't shed any tears when she said goodbye to her parents.

Her idea is very simple. Women always have to get married. There are little sisters she has played with since childhood waiting for her in her husband's family. After she gets married, she can get together with her little sisters every day. This is her What is there to be sad about and cry about when you dream about something?

I have to say that when a person is young, the friends he has played with since childhood really do not have too much influence on him.

Many times, parents don't listen to what they say, but if their friends just tell them, they will do whatever they ask them to do without any hesitation.

If we have a fight, we can fight together, if we have money, we can spend it together, if we have delicious food and fun, we must have friends.

We went to Guangdong to work together. Even if we were working in a black factory, the work was hard and the wages were low, but as long as we had friends with us, we could persevere. But as long as the little friend quits his job and leaves, the remaining person will most likely not be able to hold on.

In short, most friends' friendships will not deteriorate before they get married.

And after getting married, it depends on the situation...

At present, the sisterly love between Ou Guofang and the three of them has obviously not deteriorated at all due to marriage.

When Ou Guofang was taken back to her husband's house by the pick-up person, she immediately saw the pregnant Sister Ping and her cousin Ou Guohua. They both looked at her with smiles, and she immediately gave them a bright smile in return. .

Less than three months later, the three sisters reunited again.

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When Deng Changyuan and Ou Guohua got married, Deng Shirong, the matchmaker, gave them a piece of khaki cloth, while Deng Yuntai and Zhang Xiuping gave them a quilt and a big red envelope worth twenty yuan.

Now that Deng Changdong and Ou Guofang are married, the gifts and red envelopes sent by the three of them remain unchanged.

After all, they are all Zhang Xiuping's little sisters, so they definitely can't favor one over the other.

Of course, Deng Chang's boss is also a good person. After receiving such a heavy gift, the matchmaker gift given to Deng Shirong was naturally not stingy. It was a cash red envelope of 30 yuan, a pig butt of more than ten kilograms, and 17 or 18 kilograms of pork belly. The rest of the peanuts, beans, sesame seeds, etc. weighed two kilograms, so there was basically no shortage of everything.

This matchmaking gift was received, and after being rewarded ten times by the system, the total value exceeded 800 yuan, which was already a very good income.

Deng Shirong's cash also grew again, exceeding the 7,000 mark.

Deng Shirong was very satisfied that he could still save so much money despite spending money lavishly.

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this day.

When the children came back from school for lunch, Deng Yunsong said with a depressed look: "Dad, our head teacher said that starting from this semester, we will have to study for three years in junior high school. In the future, we will also have to study for three years in high school, unlike our elder brother. Second brother, they only need to study for two years!”

Deng Shirong had experienced it in his previous life, so he naturally didn’t find it strange, and said: “This is a very normal thing. In fact, it is very late for our middle schools here in Songshan Commune to change to this. Some middle schools were restored as early as 1978. It’s been three years.”

The middle schools here in Bobai County have always implemented the "three-three system" since the founding of the People's Republic of China, that is, three years in junior high school and three years in high school.

Later, at a certain period, the chairman proposed that "the schooling system must be shortened and education must be revolutionized," so Bobai County began to implement the "two-two segmentation system" in 1968, that is, the junior high school and high school were both changed to two years.

After 1978, some middle schools in Bobai County resumed the "three-three system", some middle schools implemented the "three-two system", and some middle schools like the Songshan Commune still implemented the "two-two system".

However, starting from this year, all middle schools in the county will implement the "three-thirds system".

Hearing this, Deng Yunsong said with a bitter face: "I originally thought that I could go to high school next year, and then after two more years of study, I would have the opportunity to go to the capital to study before my second brother graduates. But now that I have changed, I will have to study more. In two years, by the time I went to college, my second brother had already graduated from college.”

Deng Shirong smiled and said: "Your second brother may not stop studying after graduating from college. He may continue to study for graduate school. Don't be too ambitious now. Wait until you have the ability to get admitted to a university in the capital."

Deng Yunsong said confidently: "Dad, don't underestimate me. I admit that my second brother is very good at studying, but now I have studied for one more year in junior high school and one more year in high school. He only studied for two years and was able to pass the exam." Peking University, I believe I can get into Tsinghua and Peking University if I study for two more years.”

Deng Shirong said encouragingly: "It's a good thing that you have this confidence. Then you should work hard. As long as you can be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, you can make any requests you want. As long as dad can do it, I will never refuse."

Deng Yunsong's eyes lit up when he heard this, and he said, "Dad, this is what you said. If I pass the exam then, don't deny it."

"Don't worry, as long as I can do it, I won't default on it."

Deng Shirong looked at his third son, who had high hopes for him, and said, "But it's too early to get into college now. You'd better get into Bogao first!"

Deng Yunsong nodded and said: "I know, dad, just watch it. In the midterm exam this semester, I will take the first place in the class and show it to you. And the first place in the class in our class is basically the first place in the whole grade." ”

Deng Shirong smiled and said: "I believe you have this strength, then I will wait for you to come back and tell me the good news."

In the previous life, even the third son who graduated from a technical secondary school was able to get through to the senior level by relying on his political wisdom.

If the third son in this life can really get into a good university and choose to enter politics after graduation like in his previous life, then his starting point will be completely different, and his personal connections will be hundreds of times stronger than in his previous life.

In this context, Deng Shirong is still looking forward to how far his third son can go.